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So the ML still needs to help her!?
And yes, I agree with you. FLs always become stupid when it comes to understanding MLs, because they think with their ego and emotions instead of logic. It’s also stupid to blindly follow a vow that was made for stupid reasons, especially when it was forced by a stupid grandma.

his enemies playing chess with him and win some games, but her enemies can't even play tic tac tok,😅🤣🤣🤣

and other "men" still waiting to see if she enjoyed ml , if not they would try also lol , this is cucumber taste, more than simp thinking.

I think you should stop waiting for her to do that. I bet she will make him regret the day he even thought about entering her family before she forgives him, and he will suffer for it I’m sure .
It’s a C-drama, so only MLs are expected to understand FLs and forgive them without any apology. FLs, on the other hand, are portrayed as never disrespecting themselves for an ML, never trying to truly understand him. And even if she does understand his reasons, her ego is always bigger than her feelings, so she won’t forgive what he did without making him suffer and beg first.
One way she will definitely make him suffer with is by being close to the SML, I guess like always in this kind of drama.

Me too, I quit watching Cdramas, but I gave this one a chance. I even watched six and a half episodes, but I dropped it after I read some spoilers. he doesn’t change again to the personality he started with- smart and strong , but just becomes her servant and falls for her and He acts like he can’t win against his enemies without her so he still needs to be her servant .

Before he met her, he supposedly the strongest and he beat them and was called ruthless and smart, but now he’s like a little boy who can’t save himself and needs the FL’s help to win over his enemies. On top of that, he even wants to marry her, but she only wants to be friends with benefits, and he becomes her new toy to please her 😅😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

Yes, it's clear, and I completely agree with you.

I'm not very good at English either, so I use ChatGPT to correct my writing 😅.

that's why I dislike this kind of dramas where the FL is made into a superhero. They turn the ML into a victim who always needs saving lol.
Why not make them both smart, give each their unique personality, have them fight against each other first and someone win one battle the other win the next , and then, once they become a couple, let them help each other and become a powerful duo against the world? Instead, the ML becomes just a soldier for her, waiting for her commands, and some dramas she wins even in physical battles against the most strong general in the empire!! it’s crazy to me.

like you said, most of time the ML can’t survive without her, and most of the time she’s the reason he’s in trouble in the first place, but he’s still running after her.😮‍💨😅😅

No, I’m not worried about it, It’s just to make my argument stronger and as a joke . one or two plans that I’m sure he’ll regret later if he plays with the FL using them( like the reason for being in her palace ), because she won’t think he has his reasons and he did a good job lol, so let’s wait and see how she makes him apologizing for being smarter than her (if it’s against her). But if it’s against others like her enemies , that doesn’t even count as being smarter than her, because even her horse🐴 sometimes can come up with better plans than her when he’s running because of fear 😅😂😂.

Exactly! If a woman did that in real life , most men wouldn’t put up with that,and next second she would be kissing the floor , yet in these dramas it’s somehow considered “romantic.”

And yes, there are a lot of women who think they always-right , while simps apologizing even when they didn't do anything wrong.
simps are increasing incredibly fast, they make platforms like OnlyFans thrive, with some creators making millions in one month, not only simps also stupid ,😮‍💨😮‍💨 Unfortunately, reality isn’t that good either especially in the west world

I think so , and I don’t disagree with you .
But when it’s only from one side, it becomes simping.
If she’s doing that too, then yes, that’s what relationships should be: both people making effort, helping each other, and being themselves with one another. That’s what trust really means .
But when only one person is doing all of that , being the one who always apologizes and always gives in just to be with the other and tolerate many things he don't like , while the other doesn’t reciprocate , that’s disrespecting the love and the relationship ,
And I’m talking about both sides. If a woman is the one doing that while the man only takes advantage of her unconditional love, it’s humiliating for her to keep making effort for someone like him and she don't respect herself .but it's rare in recent Cdramas to see fls doing that for mls , yes they do that with their toxic exs if you know what I mean 😂

If the ML goes back to what he was, I’ll apologize for a week, every single day, lol.
What I’ve learned from watching C-dramas for years is this: in this kind of drama, once the ML falls for the FL, it’s basically over. All his focus, priorities, and life goals become centered around her, helping her, pleasing her, and existing for her sake.
Expecting him to stay smarter than her or remain truly ruthless after that is like waiting for a blue moon.
how many episodes now!? , can you count how many times he did something she didn't think of or he played with her smartly not she letting him do that !? 😅

Because they don’t think he’s a servant , they think this is how all men should behave: cooking, cleaning the house, doing the dishes, and never saying anything about her, ever. Even if she’s still involved with her ex, he just has to tolerate it. If he says anything, he has to apologize. Lol.
(This is literally from this FL a modern cdrama “I Got a Crush on You”.)
And on top of that, he has to worship her.
That’s why I say they’re selling the “dream man” to the majority of viewers. Because if they made the ML act like a normal man would act, the drama would get cancelled, get bad ratings and be a flop.
Any normal man , especially CEOs, lords, or generals , would have dignity, backbone, and boundaries , not just because he fall in love he change to a simp . And they would had at least one or two relationships before. Not some virgin CEO in his late twenties or thirties worshipping an FL who just broke up with her toxic husband or boyfriend. Like… seriously?
And how can any normal man accept doing everything in the relationship while she only focuses on her “important things,” him clearly not being at the top of her priorities? 😅
I also agree with you: it’s basically BDSM. The ML likes to beg, worship the FL, never asks her to apologize , and never sets boundaries,
Everything is forgiven as long as she agrees to be with him.
you didn’t notice this? Slapping MLs is the easiest thing an FL can do. She doesn’t even apologize afterward , and he just cries that he do something wrong and she's leaving him 🤦‍♂️

They make me frustrated. How can men act like that, especially men of that era? 🤣😂😂
They’re always simps, soft, virgin types, constantly chasing after FLs.

Don’t get me started, because I could literally write a whole book about how MLs are degraded in C-dramas and K-dramas and they're second degree citizens , and how male characters in general are written this way just to satisfy the majority of viewers with their “dream men.”
Men who are nothing but simps, with no ego, dignity, or backbone, whose only role is to make the FL happy and make her their top priority and look more great because she makes them lose to her in everything .

It’s hard to find an ML with a real personality and a big role without him existing only because of the FL, so he help her and fall for her and change because of her and chase her and make her his priority more important than himself.

Personally, I’ve never watched an ancient C-drama where the ML is truly equal to the FL when the FL is strong and smart and independent . It’s always the same pattern: the ML gives up after couple of episodes because he starts to like her , becomes soft, falls in love first and harder, and then ends up begging for forgiveness every time she gets mad 😅 make a joke of himself getting jealous and she teasing him many times and he just act like a shy teenager 🤦🤦

And I bet, because he’s hiding that secret, she’ll make him regret it badly, even though she knew from the start that he came for that reason lol.

FLs are always smarter than MLs, even when the MLs are supposed to be the most ruthless generals and strategists, capable of fighting dozens of men alone, yet the FL can still beat him 😅 first episodes they show mls are the smartest and ruthless and strong , but after he starts liking fl or fight her he just get beating and always losing to her , and became nice and cute and shy like a teenager virgin .
Lol, what can I say? It’s modern times, and it’s all about women’s empowerment. Most viewers are women, so they sell them the dream 🤷‍♂️

that would be the reason for her to slap him later and make him suffer because of it and he will beg for forgiveness lol

it's a a Cdrama never think mls will be ruthless after fall in love with fl and always expect him to be a simp lol , this is basic information about Cdrama world, like mls fall first and harder and single and virgin most of the time 🤣😂😅🤦

it's like her other drama they never show anything till she said I think I'm pregnant lol

I just watched the beginning of episode 12 , and you watched it too, right?! And you’re still saying she didn’t sleep with other men!? She nearly forced him to sleep with her, and she even threatened him to go to someone else 😅🤣😅🤣.
ml have some pride he didn't want to be a servant toy for her, but at least he has to be a husband toy, so he can keeps his pride 😅🤣😅.
Wow, she’s clearly used to getting into beds… did you see how she took her shoes off ?😂😂,

This is a good drama if someone doesn’t get frustrated like me with the love triangle. The ML loves unconditionally after he starts to love her, and they make the FL always look like she’s above him or like she’s the prize he has to work to win her approval , but she doesn’t do anything to win him , because he give himself from start so she don't need to do anything and he will tolerate everything and accept the minimum is to be with him at the end , even if she goes to someone else the important thing she ends with him . 🤦

I read a comment below,saying that her reaction to the SML’s confession made it seem like she regretted
she was dating the ML, and it's look like that if she hadn’t been with the ML, she would have accepted the SML confession.
If you read some comments , you’ll see that many people think she liked him as more than just a friend.

Thank you for elaborating, but I said I watched six and a half episodes, so I already know a good part of what happened and what might happen. From watching many C-dramas, I bet the ML will never go back to who he was or stop serving her like a servant, and she will always stay above him and would be close to sml who will be obsessed with her .... . I don’t want to write another long paragraph, so let’s wait and see whether he will ever have a personality of a Lord that have more important things than being with a woman , and not make FL his first priority , and figure out how to make her fall for him and afraid to lose her for someone else.
have a good day and sorry for bothering you and taking from your time bye.