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i think that is why i am liking actors like Pond Ponlawit K - he is an actor first. The others are bl couples that act in bl dramas.

It was difficult for celebrities to come out - for example George Michael was unhappy hiding his sexuality and felt like a fraud.(times were diff then i know). And now we have all these straight boys pretending they are gay.

Im okay with physical contact (i like cultures that are physical) but hate it with bl fanfare that it encourages deluded fans. Im even more cringed out when i read female comments on reddit r/boylove posts that X bought Y flowers (or touched y or whatever) and it must be true love.

I read it was against govt violence. I dont have much detail but always admire those who are brave enough to stand against violence/injustice

https://www.wattpad.com/968084389-how-to-secretly-lure-my-boy%27s-heart

True. I hate bl couples as they ruined bls for me. I dont feel that bls are authentic anymore. Its not about telling a story - its about a "couple" playing in a series. I dont think actors in straight drams have to play up to the audience.

I feel "cringe" and even uncomfortable watching these bl straight actors pretend they are a couple, pretend to be "in love" and doing romantic things that are (mainly) female based romantic fantasies. To me as a female(my perspective) i see them as objectifying themselves and i get embarrassing for them.

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I know you are not that bright because you are defending VIOLENCE when you defend a piece of shit like Chris Brown. He is currently going to face trial in the UK because of an unprovoked attack against a music producer - yes he attacked a man as well MAN - what is your argument there or has the cat got your tongue?
What about all the other unprovoked attacks against the many men and woman because there are many.

You don’t hit a child/woman using the same strength that you would use when fighting a man. IN LAW you can't put someone in hospital because the slapped you. You can defend yourself but you can't shoot them. You lack intelligence or the comprehension to grasp the concept of comparable strength or understand the word COMMENSURATE. Even boxers fight in different weight categories.

I wish i could draw it in colours so that you can understand that I didnt say woman can hit men - but again you aren't the sharpest tool. You are making irrelevant points for the sake of it.

If you think he is wondaful, then I all I can say is that I sincerely hope you meet someone like him and experience all that he offers. Maybe you can defend him then.

I so agree. Imagine if they did that with a black actors - it would be racism and there would be an uproar. But its okay to be misogynistic about woman.
It doesn't even serve the plot in bls to have a woman chasing a gay man who has rejected her so many times,( or trying to break up a relationship).

I know its the writers fault, but I think we as the audience should not fall into the trap of become misogynistic and endorse violence.

that is why victims dont always pursue their rights. The law is not fair or just. Its about evidence and man made laws.

Even if you are a victim sometimes its not worth your while to assert your claims because its costly, its emotionally draining, and justice is not always served. Ask rape victims where in the UK there is less that a 2% conviction rate.
Anyway as per your argument elsewhere the courts interpretation and the law is not always fair or reaches a just decision. Its not about being a coward, but about being efficient.

Having said all that I don't have a clue what the truth is, or the law in Korea, I also don't have a vested interest in hating this actor or arguing that he is guilty. I was incorrect in my assumptions and comments about this case and about the actor. I'm not arguing he is innocent but I am admitting that I was wrong to make any arguments here.

I hate bullies and hope they get what they deserve. If its the "victim" or "actor" then I hope they are punished

lol - that is a mean spirited attack regards my knowledge and understanding. I find it hard to explain simple things to people who have limited intelligence on a particular subject as you demonstrated in your response.

I did philosophy at university but I even used AI in my work (despite having a Masters in my field). I wish I could also explain the concept of making assumptions to you

I dont have anything else to add.

You havent understood Aristotle and I cant explain it for you. But you are entitled to your subjective interpretation as am I.

Might i remind you that these are just works of fiction and fantasy. If you dont have a strong moral compass or a firm grasp on reality you too emotional about the morality of the characters and take it personally. DDS in not real life - its a work of fiction. In real life the police would be involved.

The ending of DDS was not a happy ending but there was beauty. We are all entitled to our interpretations and opinions about how we see things and they are not objective. We can all find different things beautiful. Im baffed that people dont understand this.

At least you know what you dont like. GMMtv produces bl /yaoi series that are more fluffy and that may be suitable for your taste. You dont have to enjoy or approve or watch more adult themed or toxic series.

sometimes i think there is beauty in tragedy. (not saying i enjoy tragedy or there is beauty in all tragedy)

(from AI to try to explain)
Aristotle viewed tragedy not merely as a depiction of suffering but as a truthful portrayal of the human condition, where beauty arises from the honest representation of life’s struggles. He argued that the beauty of a tragic work mirrors the beauty of a living being—flawed, complex, and ultimately meaningful through its form and structure.

DDS is all about noncon - a man is being violated and forced to accept life. Its not about intimacy. Do you think that I argued that noncon and rape is acceptable because you felt you had to explain that consent matters in moments of intimacy?

I dont think I even said that its pleasant to watch murder, violence, rape, noncon, or a sad tragic series but sometimes its part of the plot in a work of fiction. I watch series to entertain or experience something or to find meaning I dont watch FICTION FOR LESSONS IN MORALITY. You shouldn't either.

I never said that you condone murder.
There was murder in MANNER OF DEATH . Did you make any comments saying that those series would have been better if there wasnt a murder? Did you explain to people that THE GLORY would have been better if there was no bullying in the plot. That is my point. You didnt. But you made a comment about noncon. Their is a bias on your part in deciding to make a comment about noncon but not murder or bullying .

there is just something about Chinese bls

Why does consent matter in fiction?
We see murder, violence, mafia and we accept that without preaching morals and telling people that there shouldn't have been consent before the violence or murder?

so if a baby hits you then you should beat it up?
You are a sick human being with no accountability.
There is a difference in strength level between a woman and man and a child. And if you are the more power you have more acocuntablity. If hope you experience what Rhianna did


And chris Brown he has beat up numerous woman - and you are still defending that scum? You are sick.

you are welcome to watch GMM tv for fluff. But others also like more adult bls that are toxic and have complicated characters.
There is more fluff being produced than more mature type bls.
Also, Im not saying this is a mature bl or a toxic one either as I havent watched all of it.

thanks for explaining. I dont know him (but hate bullies) and based my opinion on the article. And I dont know anything about Korean law or the actual facts of the case.
If he is innocent i hope he gets justice.

Its crazy that a reputation can be so easily ruined by false statements. And the onus is on you to prove they are false instead of the person accusing you to prove they are true.

i dont have a preference about this case or the actor - i dont know him.
I dislike bullies and find it strange that fans dont care about facts - and overlook existing evidence and balance of probabilities and blindly believe what they want to.

There are four people who have made allegations. Said actor could not disprove that the allegations made. To be fair I would be interested in knowing what facts the four alleged victims put forward and why he cant prove he was innocent or that they lied.

But this was not a win for him. It does not mean he is guilty or innocent. And even a court finds someone guilty/not guilty - well that just means that one party has better evidence. Justice and courts do not care for the truth.

i based my opinion on the article only and i dont know all the facts to conclude anything other then what was written. I withdraw any opinions I have about his guilt or innocence and will be neutral. If he is innocent - i hope he gets justice.

I have started reading manhwa/manhua series now as they are not afraid of being twisted and dark and toxic. And usually their is a psychological perspective as well which adds depth.

The ending was rushed/open ended/changed because i think their were personal/filming production issues.
I have started reading manhwa/manhua series now as they are not afraid of being twisted and dark and toxic. Its only fiction.

the true narrative is what the court found - and its not in his favour.
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Your gibberish is irrelevant at the end of the day. Its the courts judgement that counts. And he lost

Yes - i hate bullies