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Aaah thank you so much for these pieces of info!! I loove learning more about chinese history or any stories!
If anyone has something we can learn from don't hesitate! Knowledgeable people are gems 🫶

In the novel we can see it happening and since her dream to go to university is quite a big part of the story I'm sure they added it. Maybe it will be around ep 25 ? Or something like that

Thank you sm I bought it 😭 I'm broke as hell now but whatever just saw ep 18 and I was melting 😮‍💨 I need more of the main couple scene now they are together cause even though I love all the side stories I feel robbed not seeing them more

I think she didn't wanna question him about his ex girlfriend when he gave her the opportunity because it's not the only reason why she was mad at him and he didn't understand that at first. I think she mostly wants him to look at her for who she is and by coming before her asking what does she want to know about Yan is kinda insensitive on his side. When she wraps her arms around him she tells him that she can be a good surrogate and he doesn't even explain to her why she wouldn't be one for him. That's how I saw it cause when you see ep 18 it makes more sense. But yes for sure they need to both have a serious conversation and be completely honest with each other cause they are messy as hell. I can't believe the younger ones are the most mature 😭

Oooh you're right I completely forgot about that scene. When she said that I don't think she meant to be rude, she's very rationalist so for her there were certainly 0,1% chance that he recovers. Honestly I have to admit I would certainly make the same decision as her since life is already hard to be able to spend sm time on a person 😭 So I would say that yes Fang muyang would not do the same as her but more because he is optimistic and less rational.
But either way I agree with your point of view !
Yes I 100% agree she's too cold towards people and needs to create balance in her life. I didn't mean to completely erase her faults it's just that I saw so many comments villainizing her that I tend to focus more on defending her side 😅 So I didn't mean to infantilize her at all they are both at faults for sure. That's also why I used wishful thinking cause otherwise as a rationalist that makes no sense to me why she didn't put much more energy to learn about him before the marriage if she didn't idealise it first. Also the guy came to her to propose at a time when she needed the most so she must have some desires about what would be the married life. I know she is really rational but she's still a young girl who can dream about a prince charming. I think that's why she was really hurt about learning about Yan. Cause otherwise if she was truly a stone cold rationalist that truth wouldn't have hurt her that much.
I think you might like ep 18 cause without giving away too much spoiler once someone takes a step towards her she also tries to do the same.

Ooh why is it smelling like misogyny here lmao

I mean when you know your partner is with you while thinking about another one and still loving her, you sure wanna protect yourself before the marriage. Also why always putting everything on women when it's the guy who hasn't been honest with her since the beginning ? Now the only way for it to work is for him to prove to her that she can be safe with him without getting hurt again. Then obviously she will have to step out of her pride

For Mujing marrying for selfish reasons I would say it was just her wishful thinking when she got a proposal kind of out of nowhere. They are attracted to each other and she was finally getting a way out so I think she was seeing it for once as something that would bloom easily since the guy didn't have any other intentions at first. But I agree they married for the wrong reasons cause they didn't really know what exactly is a marriage nor how it works.

That's because for me they did not hold the same position in that family. Fang Muyang is the youngest, so usually the youngest do not have the same responsabilities as the older sister. Also they don't have the same personnality too which also plays a part. Fang Muyang is more carefree and always lived for himself not caring about tomorrow while Mujing worries more about the future and surely wants to build a career to also be able to support her family later. I think Mujing can also be selfless just in her own way, once she is truly sure that she is safe with that person while Fang Muyang usually sees the best in others and trust them more easily. It's just 2 different versions on how to live in society, it doesn't make one worse than the other. That's why we're all so different.

Yes exactly!! That's also what I think.
I mean getting rejected several times just for your background and having to sever ties with your family to be able to touch a bit of your dream would lead anyone to think that he does not deserve to live or even exist in that society. So she might already not have a strong sense of self-esteem due to her past and childhood and having to learn on your marriage that you're a subsitute to his past lover, that could crush anyone's soul. That guy should have been honest on his reasons since the beginning just like he knew why she was marrying him. That's why I don't see why she should be at fault, she is just preserving a bit of her self esteem by putting on a strong front. They both need to learn how to step out of their pride and be 100% honest with each other. Cause for now we don't even know what's his take on this marriage. Like how is she supposed to know if him being gentle with her for a moment is just him seeing her and not Yan.

Noo she actually cares. It just that some people grow up while having to hide their feelings and show a strong side otherwise they get shamed for it. The fact that she didn't want to show at her brother wedding proves that she cares so much for him that she doesn't want to destroy that happiness with her presence. At least that's how I interpreted it

Ooh so if I pay for the package every express episode is unlocked ? Ok you convinced me 😭 yes so far it's definitely worth it I'm usually a very patient person I swear but this drama is really toying with my patience 😅

Stop making me want to pay for that episode 😭 aah can't wait to see it I don't even know how it's possible that every episode gets more beautiful than the precedent one

How I hate coming back to reality 😭 It's so unfair that we will never get a Fang Muyang in our lives. The way he pushes her to enjoy life, take risks while always taking care of her and having her back 😭

It's okay no problem I usually make the same mistake when I get too excited 😅 just saw the synopsis of the novel and omgg I already can't wait I really hope they confirm it soon 🙏🙏 cause just from a few lines I know they suit the characters so well. I can already envision them in it! It's kind of giving 12 letters vibes

It's the first time I see a short drama rated 8.0. Can't wait to start it then

Aaah thank you so much!! You're a gem 🫶

First time I can't find a drama anywhere. I hope at least once it ends someone will upload it somewhere ...

Omg the best news I could hear today!! Do you know in which period of time the story will be set ? I feel like they are so 1900s coded and after watching Love story in the 1970s I need more of Fei Yu in those time period

I love how despite not having much money Fang Muyang give her so much. He is not scared of spending his last coins just to see her smile or give her unique experiences. I see so much of myself in her as someone who worries too much about money and tend to sacrifice living just to get that sense of economic safety. And that's exactly what she needs in life, someone who shows her that life deserves to be enjoyed first.