Boopsi

Does anyone know why Song Won’s ex-in laws are young or if she wasn’t being truthful based on the following scenes:

S1: E9 with Song Won where she’s at a department store and she hides from a couple with a girl who looks to be 6 or 7 years old named “Yeon-Ju”.

S1: E14 with Song Won and Sa-Hyun talking in his park car viewing the lake water… Song Won tells him how different her divorce was because of the lost of her in-laws that she loved as much as her own parents. Song Won tell him that she recently saw her in-laws in the department store and she could Stella they dotted on their granddaughter.

What episode is the scene with the silver haired lady ?

Agree that the lawyer fell out of love and left the marriage emotionally. Does that make it okay to commit adultery? If he didn’t want a woman with the type of personality that his wife has from the beginning, he shouldn’t had married her. The wife doesn’t deserve all the pain and sadness she’s going through for being who she is and was loved for who she is in the beginning of the marriage. With that said, I hope the wife divorces her cheating husband so she can start healing mentally and physically. In my opinion, no one deserves to be cheated on.

Seriously! Are we watching the same show? The cheating lawyer husband and his so call repentant mistress have been seeing each other for awhile. Just because they had sex once … you’re defining their infidelity as a one-night stand?

Whether there was any truth to what she said, she took the blame because she as a woman knows it is wrong to have a sexual affair with a married man.

I think Song Won is out for revenge too. There are so many questions about this couple, such as:
1. Why is BHR not divorcing her cheating husband for having a sexual and emotional affair?
2. Why is BHR trying to get pregnant from her cheating husband.
3. Why would cheater husband Sa Hun want to have a child with his wife when he is no longer in love with his wife and is in love with his mistress and the child they are having?
5. Why is Sa Hun's mother encouraging her son and BHR to have children when she and husband never liked BHR but they like Song Won and the grandchild to be?
6. Why is Sa Hun's mother not supporting BHR when she herself was cheated on emotionally by her husband.
7. What is the connection and/or relationship of Song Won with Seo Ban?

I watched the preview again and it appeared to me that they already know each other being that there were no introductions etc. Song Wong said "Which program are you in charge of?" Seo Ban answered "Boo Hey-Ryun's Love Memories, and Music." Almost seems that this was a previous memory before Song Wong getting involve with BHR's husband. Either BHR or her husband did something to Song Wong, which caused her to take revenge! There is definitely mysterious about Song Wong. The other mystery is why BHR hasn't divorced her husband for infidelity. Why would BHR and/or her husband try to have children when her husband has a mistress and is pregnant. Her husband is no longer in love with her... doesn't even like her nor her in-laws!

Could it be that Song Won is his father ex-wife!

Meant to say the wife of Seo Ban and Dong Ma’s father!

Wouldn’t it be interesting if Ah Mi’s mother is the wife of Seo Ban and Dong Ma!

It will be epic if Sa Pi Young interrogates the mistress to get the confirmation of her husband’s infidelity! If she confirms the infidelity, she will not be able to forgive her husband even though she loves him. I hope she gives her cheating husband hell by publicly exposing his infidelity to hurt his pride and image.

The cheating husband’s are the main culprits of the infidelity because they are the ones that made the marriage commitment and as you said “showed the green light to the mistress”. With that said, the mistresses in this show have the audacity to act innocent without the care of the pain they are inflicting the wives and children, such as the professor’s mistress after 30+ years of marriage she even wants the ex-wife to be her friend! The doctor’s mistress wants him to leave his wife and daughter for her! The lawyer’s mistress slept with him knowing that he is married just to find out if she really couldn’t get pregnant and her intentions for making the choice to consummate their affair is not all that clear. The anger and sadness that this show is making most of us females feel is directed mostly to the husbands but also to the mistresses because they chose to be with a married man and want the men to leave their spouse and children for them!

Can you clarify who you think is Song Won’s husband and who’s the second wife and chil? There is definitely something very mysterious about Song Won and Seo and father etc!

Does anyone know why the lawyer’s mistress meets Sri Ban in the preview for ep 9? Appears sir was before she got pregnant or after having the baby!

The lawyer’s mother was upset with her husband because he’s been mentally cheating and spending their money on Dong-mi but is supportive to her son’s mistress because she’s pregnant out of wedlock! I was hoping that the mother-in-law would had at least tried to be understanding to her son’s wife feelings. As much as I think BHR shouldn’t had lost her energy and temper on her cheating husband and disloyal in-laws … they do not deserve her… I was glad that the writer let the actress express the hurt a woman would feel under the same circumstances.

I totally agree with you.

Hi Waverlyroot. Thanks for your comments. I personally dislike c-k-j-dramas that have this very difficult topic and/or harems because it just don’t end up being a happy ending for the leads. With that said, this show has me feeling hurt for each of the wives and their children and predicting what the ending will be! In the meantime, I will agree to disagree with the circumstances and justifications that you commented above for the husband’s to be unfaithful in this show.

I agree that the professor’s mistress is using him and is not in love with him. They will end up alone.

The doctor will end up divorce and with his mother in law!

The lawyer will end up divorce and alone after he finds out his mistress just used him to get pregnant and does not love him. The mistress will have a miscarriage and end up alone. The lawyer’s parents will find out that the mistress was just after their money at the end and will end up with no daughter in law and grandchildren.

The professor’s ex-wife will end up with Sung-Ho and she and her children will be happy again.

The lawyer’s wife will divorce her cheating husband and end up with Dong-Ma. Dong-Ma will end up falling in love with her and she will end up having his children.

The doctor’s wife will divorce her cheating husband and will not repeat her mom’s mistakes. She and her mom will finally ave a good relationship for the remaining years that her mom has alone with her daughter.

All three mistresses will end up getting married to cheaters!

Wonder if any of my above predictions/wishes come true ^_^

Think a lot of us are in agreement that infidelity is wrong no matter what! Regardless if we can agree to disagree that this show is glamorizing the cheating husbands and their mistresses… the writer has so far dedicated 22 episodes (1st season-16 eps & 2nd season 6 eps) on showcasing these cheaters … can we all agree that we would like to see the writer dedicate the remaining 10 episodes to the survival of the wives and their children. It would also be nice to see what happened to the doctor’s wife’s cheating father! It would not be realistic to only see the doctor’s wife mother regretting not letting the cheating husband and daughter have a relationship. If her cheating father wanted to have a relationship with his daughter, he could’ve looked for her.

In my opinion… the lawyer is the most despicable of the three adulteress husband! Even if his wife was the worst, he chose not to be honest with her and communicate what his wants and needs were before letting his lust pregnant the shameless mistress. He hasn’t shown any guilt, remorse, shame, or regret for hurting his wife as of ep 6… shame on the writer and actor! I have a lot to say about the shameless mistress but the husband is the one that made a commitment to his wife! This drama that is promoting and glamorizes adulterous affairs is not good for my sensibility. I do hope the writer shows how devastating these adulterous affairs affected the wives and children for the rest of their lives. Even if the wives move on, how can revenge or a new found love take away the scars left? I’m so upset, that I can’t get myself to watch any other drama with Sung Hoon! I know that means his a good actor to make me this upset … but it will be a long time before I watch him again!!