What I dislike even more than Da Hae's character is Gwi Joo's character. What an incompetent man and father. Its like all he cares about is having something to obsess over. First, its wanting to save his collegue, then being stuck in the past bc he can't save his wife, then getting obsessed over Da Hae and wanting to go to the past to save her when she's alive in the present, even she told him this. To then deluding himself into "falling in love" with Da Hae by revisiting the kiss scene over and over again.
Meanwhile, his daughter is there, alive, exists, waiting for her father to be there for her like a paternal figure. The beginning of ep 6 pissed me off, he kept the phone call from his daughter's school teacher ringing for MINUTES, felt like slow motion, and slowly caressing FL and putting his jacket on her. Falling in love with a woman and courting a woman isn't what makes you a man. Actually BEING THERE for your woman and children and taking care of them is what makes you a man, he even neglected his passed wife, now doing the same to his daughter, and instead spending 24/7 circling around FL. Like go put that energy into your daughter you man child.
she's a good actress idk what u're talking about, i can tell that u've never watched any of her worksshe's also…
They judge her based on "Korean standards" of what a beautiful idol/actress looks like. Ofc she is very pretty, even more than the average korean. But her beauty doesn't match the conventional unrealistic looks for an a Korean actress if that makes sense. Like normally actresses like her get the second female lead role, they're mad that someone like her gets main lead role lol
I also had a very traumatic past of abuse, bullying and lost my parents. Did I turn into a psychopathic manipulator…
You're acting so hurt like I offended a real person, its fictional character. You don't need to control people's perceptions of her character to the way you think her character deserves to be perceived. You're free to deny a real person's experience just to sympathize with a fictional non-existing person. Just please stop trying to control people's perceptions, that's not normal or healthy.
Even if it's that well portrayed here, the lack of inhibition isn't just be "true to himself". It's the inability…
He's hiding how he really feels, usually there's a time people pleasers will explode and can't take it anymore. That's why its important to grow out of the people pleasing phase.
His condition allows him to feel how free he can be if he just expresses how he really feels since he keeps denying doing so. Its important to stay respectful ofc but still not lying just to not hurt other's feelings, bc it'll only hurt your feelings in the end.
For example, had he not had this "people pleasing-pause" condition, he wouldn't have called FL out for using his personal diary to create the reality show, and he would have bottled it up and hated her.
honestly im wondering if i should watch it bc of the FL. I was hoping they would cast someone more good looking...not…
Its a good thing they didn't choose a top actress because what they do now is act like a doll with limited expressions, but she really nailed her role here
Shame on yall trying to shame fl’s character early on :)
Don't shame people, its a fictional story. Its normal to dislike ill behavior. They don't dislike the actress but her fictional character. Also your comment is pure projection. You "shame" people" and assume they're also "shaming" the fl's character.
do da hae was bullied mercilessly as a child and was LOCKED IN A FREAKING ROOM and was not able to escape when…
I also had a very traumatic past of abuse, bullying and lost my parents. Did I turn into a psychopathic manipulator that takes advantage of people? No, I choose to stay a good person anyways. Having a traumatic past doesn't justify ill behavior.
I so appreciate the people who dislike this drama because of the plotting or pace or lack of chemistry between…
Only thing making me dislike it is the story, and Do da Hee's scheming character. Not because the drama is bad or the actors are bad, but because the story is so well done and actors are so good at their job that characters infuriate me. Its a good thing. We "dislike" it because its so good!
What gets on my nerves even more is the gaslighting, man.. she gaslights so much and when the main lead was so…
You do realize gaslighting isn't just part of a mental illness right? Gaslighting happens everyday, being gaslighted by our parents, our coworkers, friends, etc. Sure she knows that her behavior is bad, but doesn't stop her from gaslighting everyone around her so she doesn't get caught in her fraudester act.
What is Gaslighting? Gaslighting is psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feelings, instincts, and even their sanity. It is one of the worst forms of dirty fighting, and it is used by both men and women. Gaslighting includes a variety of techniques, such as:
Pretending not to understand when you do. Labeling your partner’s thoughts as crazy or imagined. Questioning the other person’s memory of events when they remember correctly. Pretending to forget what actually occurred when you actually remember. Denying promises that you know you made. Trivializing the other person’s feelings as being too sensitive when their reaction is somewhat normal.
I'm in Asia, so maybe it will be different. But it appear in my netflix 1,5 hours after the countdown in MDL end.…
I'm literally responding to everyone's comments here bc I have adhd and its 2 am and so many hours until it'll potentially post to Netflix, and I can't be bothered to watch something else lmao
Same, I don’t watch dating shows. Why would I want to watch it now in a Kdrama.
I watch korean dating reality shows and familiar with their settings, so it was funny seeing them recreate similar themes and games like normal reality shows. What weirds me out is that in an actual dating reality show, cameras follow you every where and the staff aren't there all the time, yet here ML somehow can get private time with FL at night
That's 10 years younger than me! XD Need to go desensitize my love brain cells lmao
Meanwhile, his daughter is there, alive, exists, waiting for her father to be there for her like a paternal figure. The beginning of ep 6 pissed me off, he kept the phone call from his daughter's school teacher ringing for MINUTES, felt like slow motion, and slowly caressing FL and putting his jacket on her. Falling in love with a woman and courting a woman isn't what makes you a man. Actually BEING THERE for your woman and children and taking care of them is what makes you a man, he even neglected his passed wife, now doing the same to his daughter, and instead spending 24/7 circling around FL. Like go put that energy into your daughter you man child.
His condition allows him to feel how free he can be if he just expresses how he really feels since he keeps denying doing so. Its important to stay respectful ofc but still not lying just to not hurt other's feelings, bc it'll only hurt your feelings in the end.
For example, had he not had this "people pleasing-pause" condition, he wouldn't have called FL out for using his personal diary to create the reality show, and he would have bottled it up and hated her.
What is Gaslighting?
Gaslighting is psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feelings, instincts, and even their sanity. It is one of the worst forms of dirty fighting, and it is used by both men and women. Gaslighting includes a variety of techniques, such as:
Pretending not to understand when you do.
Labeling your partner’s thoughts as crazy or imagined.
Questioning the other person’s memory of events when they remember correctly.
Pretending to forget what actually occurred when you actually remember.
Denying promises that you know you made.
Trivializing the other person’s feelings as being too sensitive when their reaction is somewhat normal.