manmanyiyi

Wow. I cannot believe people think she's cruel and should have trusted in the ML more and not pushing him so hard. Like, in her angle, he's a running wanted murderer, a suspected serial killer, a violence sociopath who might not even have emotions, let alone to love anyone, a liar for 14 years, and that blood was found in his locked up basement.

If she had trusted the ML any more than what's shown here (such as bringing a gun at the potential confrontation scene), she's just dumb and an idiot who can't protect herself and completely blinded by love to ignore any potential danger.

She gave him A LOT of benefit of doubt already. For her to trust what she's seeing, and finding all the facts? If she isn't, she would have just bring him in immediately. Yet she's still investigating. If she had trusted him any more than what's shown here she's an idiot blinded by love.

I cannot believe there are people who would call her cruel....... imagine that's your friend, or someone you know, without knowing the guy's side of story, I would be calling 911 for my friend immediately let alone to try to push him to tell the truth himself. And for her to wanting to find out the truth instead of bringing him in right away?

She's doing beyond what a normal person would have done. For god's sake he's a runaway wanted murderer and suspected serial killer who is also a violence sociopath who had found blood in the locked up basement and lied to her for 14 years.

Stand from her angle not the audience angle.

She's beyond "reasonable" she's extremely considerate already lol imagine your girl friend married to a wanted murderer and he's been lying to her for 14 years and turns out likely to be sociopath that actually have no emotions and then finding bloods in the locked up basement? I mean, like, hell, I'd be calling 911 for her and if she doesn't bring the kid and run right away I would slap her in the face lol

Agreed 100%, they used multiple cases in ep1-5 to show us how good of a detective she is to the audience and that she never falls into the stereotypes and always ask the right questions.

More like he is able to take care of lives weaker than him

I personally agree she needed a fresh new start

It’s because she never gave him a chance to explain or talk it out. She simply thinks he’s a jerk like that. She had no faith or trust in him and in herself. As a true friend or sister, to just disappear like that, not giving a chance for communication simply did not respect the other person.

It’s not only the mom but his action hurt all of his family. “Are we nothing to him?” “He wants to escape from us that badly?” It’s fine to want to leave and live your own life, but take the responsibility as a child and own up the decision. Face the potential arguments and at least be brave to try to have your family understand where you are coming from before leaving. Leaving the mess to his sister to deal with, and leaving his family without telling anyone is a very hurtful action and inmatured. Especially the way he worded “I don’t want to end up like dad”.

He is not abusive to MY but this kind of behavior if you take out the lens of this being a drama, and us as viewers understanding all of their pasts, the relationship being portrayed on screen, in a way reminds me a bit in the typical abusive relationship dynamics (something happens, he can't think straight, he pushes her away, yelled, and get mad, after he thinks clearly, he comes back and being so sweet to her, and then he yells again and comes back again. And for her to start questioning herself "did I do something wrong again?" "It must have been me, my fault"? That's usually how abusive relationship goes, where she starts feeling him getting mad is going to be her fault even when it isn't.) Maybe it's the director or the writer slightly missing the mark/scripts to portray it better. I understand why he reacts this way given his background and history, but at the same time, it's a pretty unhealthy relationship they have right now.

I actually understand that completely and took that into account for my personal opinion. That's why I thought he is such a tough one for her because of how unhealthy and unbalanced the relationship currently is still (at this moment). Of coz, I know they are all moving towards a better place and healing each other, and that he is slowly opening up and letting others into their world, and that he always pushes others out in his whole life. I can understand from his POV, but it does take others A LOT of efforts to heal him. They are made for each other for sure lol No one can handle each of them in reality. I hope the writer would spend some quality remaining screen time to show him learning that his action is hurting those nearby and lets not forget, she still needs help too lol

Hmmmm, you have to understand you can't compare the two of them. I have family member who is like ST so I understand how their world is just simply different than ours. Our social codes are different than theirs and it's not something they physically and mentally can control.

To me, it's no one to blame in that situation. KT has had all his life being treated as a "caregiver" and he never got the parental love he wishes for. He is tired, questioning his value and his mom's love for him. It's reasonable for him to wish ST to be gone. Caregivers are extremely tiring, he was only so young and did such a good job, and being able to actually love his brother, with the complex emotion.

For ST, he heard his brother wanting him dead and actually for a moment did it. Let alone he has the disorder. It must be so shocking to him that he can only visually remember this part, and not the part where KT came back, he left KT dying and himself walking away.

But in this situation, both of them are not to be blamed. They each have their own reasons for their actions. Whereas, a lot of the yelling from KT to MY is simply him not knowing how to cope, and letting out that temper on her by yelling and pushing her away.

Of coz, she doesn't need to be babied but it doesn't mean his action is right. And I ain't gonna protect her lol. They are all flawed and I don't expect everyone of them to be a perfect human being because all of them are trying to be a better person and it takes time.

KT has done other "flawed" things that I don't find an issue because it's understandable. But this, constantly letting out his temper on her, if it's the first time, second time, third time, forth time, fine, he is learning to be better as well. But this is a lot of time already and it's ep12 but I still don't see improvement.

Tell me, why did he need to yell at her when he ran to check on her when the patient was missing? Was that necessary? What did she do personally to him on that matter for him to be yelling? I can understand he is worried, extremely worried, but why the yelling? It's also not the first time when something happens, his first reaction is to throw her tandem and then after he clears his mind he comes back to her to be the sweetest boyfriend ever for this cycle to keep looping.

I am not sensible to KT but this specific plot is bothering me. That's it.

Agreed. I almost thought wait why is the yelling? She has done nothing wrong?

And in ep 12, its like her self esteem is so low to ask "did I bother you again?" She has to constantly question herself and wonder why is he mad again and why is he pushing her away again. He keeps giving sugar and then slap her in the face, repeatedly in the relationship.

I wish the writer can change this part more cos this is such an amazing drama and the level of me caring for all of them. Wish I don't have to feel bad at times when loving KT. Lol

I was never mad at any of them tho. I always felt for all of them especially the complex relationship between the brother. I never felt like MY, ST or KT should do things differently as those are all real emotions and it's understandable. I also don't get how people would be mad at ST even. He didn't "remember it wrong" because KT did actually thought about leaving his brother to death and MY witnessed the weakest and darkest moment of KT. It's all for the better with them finally facing the problems instead of running away. Except for this particular trait of KT lol I don't know how to describe it but like MY really did nothing wrong lol She's almost like his punching bag whenever something happens. I hope he realizes how his action hurts her a lot soon :)

I love this drama a lot and I genuinely care for all the characters. But I really hate how he always yell at her for no reasons. Any time something happens, his first reaction is to push her away by yelling at her and letting out his temper on her. How many times he has hurt her but he didn't even feel sorry. It's almost abusive in a way to the point she questions herself "am I bothering you" "why is he mad again?" and she isn't her anymore. And he would come back and give her the "sugar" just so suddenly he would "slap her in her face" the next day. Imagine if this is actually your significant other? He cares for her yes, and she has helped him so much, but I just really don't like this one part where the writer made him be such an "asshole" to her whenever something happens. (Edited: I know why he acts the way he is acting tho. And I feel sorry for how much the world has throw at him because I know how tiring being a caregiver is, especially when all their lives, their world has only been the two of them. Also I felt bad to why the doctors and nurses aren't helping him when he broke down, because honestly he REALLY needs help as well. So no, I don't hate him nor mad at him. It's more about how the writer is writing some of the scenes.)

For me, this is a sad ending. Just for one fact, he hasn't even tried to accept his new team in the reality like how he did with the 88 gangs. He hasn't even tried and be open minded, how does he know he wouldn't connect to his new team? It took him a long while to accept his 88 gang so it's sad that he didn't give himself time to try.

Reported.

And by the way, if this is what happened when you have a different opinion than the majority, grow up and just walk away from MY comment on an open board.

Yea - I don't think there's any romance at this moment, there's so much going on lol He's in a whole different world for god's sake lolll hahha

I felt that and when I wiki her she literally has a nickname as son Ye Jin junior lol

As of what they laid out up til ep4, no he wasn't in both worlds. He was "framed" in both worlds.