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Anyone who knows the songs Ryang Eum sings (both the ballad in the tavern and song in front of the chinese Emperor) pls put it under my comment, cause there's a user looking for them.
Thanks!
@OmniaAyman
https://kisskh.at/733821-lovers#comment-14468405

try searching it on youtube with the name ryang eum. i remember watching some clips both with that song and with the ballad he sang in the tavern in the earliest episodes. In the comment section on youtube you ll find titles/language by Koreans (auto translate and there you go).
Here, both songs were also mentioned but you need to scroll down maaaaaaaaaaany comments to find then, so youtube is a faster method

Objectively speaking, nothing would be that tragic if there wasnt so much lack of communication-mostly from ML's side. The time they lost, had to do mostly with his preference to behave like a freakin casanova in front of her and since then things went downhill

He is indeed gay and very much in love

Even so, i still consider it as a character failure. A man smart enough to stop a war and manipulate, could find a way. But i ll digest it for the sake of my mental health lol
There's still so much angst for me to digest, i cant i just cant! (thanks for the explanation)

Nope. She already knew that he hates marriage, before even get to know him. She heard villagers conversation about him and his "bad" reputation, so she was fully aware of his mindset before he says anything. We also saw his latest story with a girl and a present he gave her, cant remember the exact moment, i think it was on ep 2 maybe

While he was in the enemy's camp he was sending miniature letters to give information.
Why the h@ didnt he write a letter to her to say he is ALIVE????

Agree. If somehow the story lose connection with reality and logic, im out of here. First thing i was attracted to that story, was the fact that he was not willing to sacrifice anything for a general vague idea such as "patriotism" but if he cross the limit of sacrifice (which is already happening) just to forget a woman, oh well! Hope that the second part goes smoothly

Yeap im still enjoying! I do it with every drama. If something attracts me, i dont have to relate to the characters or like them, i m still enjoying it!
Some of my fav dramas have characters i wanted to punch straight ahead hahahahahah
There are other dramas of course, where i fall in love literally with either the mains or secondary heroes, well in that case i get crazy!

Agree 100%
though both ML and FL are not my cup of tea as characters

I started watching exclusively for the actress. I love her acting and her drama choices. If you decide to watch it, be patient with the ML and just enjoy how dorky he is. I hated him at first but i changed halfway.

Im still the winner! (I binge the greatest love now, its light interesting a bit weird, ML is the ultimate dork, but its addictive. Its got that oldie vibe, and even though the story is weak i didnt skip a scene which is rare for me.

I dont wanna spread despair
but im afraid that since almost half of the drama is already out and the couple has too little screen time together-not to mention being together as partners etc-
there's a high chance that the whole drama will go on that road:
2 lovers walking their own ways, doing things for each other but never being actually together.
I mean, if i was a writer and wanted to create a 100% addictive, endlessly torturing, desperate love story, i 'd do it that way.
Shoot me for my thoughts.
I totally deserve it.

Please your attention:
kudos to me, who picked "Destined with you" as a filler drama until the whole My dearest finish all 10ep, and after watching ep1, i noticed that DWY, is NOW airing and only 4 ep are already out.
Respect pls

Carrie Bradshaw of Joseon era hahaahhahah

i know what you mean
pf...
misogynists/racists/ and all other kinds of haters,
are like that by default. A drama's comment section is only
one more chance for them to spill out their sh@t
Projections...
But it also has to do with the idealization of love especially with fictional characters. Fans of realism want to see real people experiencing real emotions and real emotions are often vague, gray zoned,multilayered.
Fans of fiction and idealism, wanna see pinky chubby cupid babies, perfect males who sacrifice everything and females who have only purpose to gain a man's heart

In heavy slow burn romances like My dearest, the audience is mostly women. And a good majority of women, care only for the ML's benefit-cause the truth is that they watch the drama for the ML and his ideal portrayal of character-be it his charms, his heroism, his whatever. I can see their point, cause after all dramas are here to entertain us in every way someone needs to be entertained. But from my personal conversations with viewers, i ve come to the above conclusion, at least for this part of the audience

Personally i dont give a damn about any fictional hero/heroine to the point of defending him/her but misogynistic comments, anywhere seen, deserve to be banned both with the commenters (same goes for racist comments, misanthropistic comments, homophobic etc). No need for freedom of speech to haters. They just need to be blocked and isolated, both on the internet and real life.
Ok in real life, an additional punch would be a good idea too.

oh really? did they come here too? pf
They always find excuses to spill out their misogynism, be it on a heroine or in general

Hard work for battle and fighting lovers! Thank god im on the romance side and my lists are full of crappy /non crappy/good/masterpieces of the genre hahahhaha