NDS is a liar, who never tells the truth until he is caught.
Young NDS cheats on test, then gives medal to older boy.
Why did you give the medal to him? Oh because I feel bad for him, his mom is getting angry at him.
This is a Lie, and he never gets caught.
Young NDS purposely fails college
Why did you do that NDS?
Because I feel bad for my colleague peers appearing stupid.
This is a Lie,and he never gets caught.
Adult NDS fools SDM into thinking he is the NDS from 15 years ago.
He doesn't get caught until the very end.
The fact of the matter when NDS lie, he never is the one to admit it. He waits for the person being lied to either figure it out or corner him. So if SDM never figures it out, he will never tell her.
He has gotten so comfortable with lying that lying for 15 years to his parents is just a thing he does. Lying about the scrunchie, was just nothing to him.
HJP has been hurt several times when he was young, that he avoids situations that can cause him more pain.
NDS hasn't been hurt much or at all, but he is afraid to even feel some pain, so he tries to avoid it completely.
To make an analogy:
HJP has had all his front teeth removed by the dentist by way of dental surgery, so he knows it hurts like heck, so he brushes his teeth everyday, and goes to regular dentist checkups to avoid dental surgery.
NDS is afraid of the thought of dental surgery. So he never even goes to the dentist. Opting to just pretend that he has good teeth. But when he eventually gets teeth infection, he will have to do dental surgery, and it's going to hurt a lot lot more.
Okay. Did grandma lose a single cent because of Ji Pyeong? No. Did the smart guy lose his medal because of Do…
I guess cheating in the Olympics is ok also, as long as it was accidental cheating.
Also, for all we know HJP was going to give grandma a cut of the money, but he never gave the chance. He lashed out to her due to a misunderstanding, and she gives him all the money. Then he's too ashamed to even stay with her.
Fact of the matter is NDS is not a remorseful person. He makes a mistake, blames other people, the wind, fate and etc.. then he does the same mistake again.
HJP on the other hand, is remorseful, he feels guilt like a normal person, and he makes amends.
more on double standards:a HJP fan complained about DS telling HJP that dalmi was the only "thing" he had, saying…
What I saw instead is a spoiled NDS not appreciating the things he has.
As a parent, who has worked hard for my son, or as best friends who has been there for NDS since day 1. Hearing that we don't matter is crushing.
And for NDS to say, he has that one thing only in his life, is disappointing, because it shows he doesn't appreciate the other things in his life. And his parents even imply this.
If they wanted HJP to serve as the guy that makes NDS look better, they should have establish that no later than episode 3 or 4.
Creating a path for HJP to pretty much skydive into douchebag territory so that NDS can look like the sensitive vulnerable giant, is lazy writing and unfair to the fans who invested in HJP for 9 episodes.
Your trying to convince fans, that the HJP they love for 9 episodes, is suddenly going to be a jerk for the remaining 7 ? Good luck with that.
I totally get some people. They want to be with a guy like NDS who: 1. Believes in you whole heartedly, trusting…
Let's run down your list for fun.
1. Sure he believes in you when things go right, what happens when things go wrong. What if SDM keeps dropping the ball as a CEO, will that so called trust still be there?
2. This is a basic pre-requisite of a boyfriend, your implying, only NDS can possibly listen to their girlfriend's problems.
3. NDS has shown that he has the ability to look down on people. Just the way he looks down, disrespects HJP. Have you ever heard the saying. If someone is able to lie to another person, don't pretend that they are unable to lie to you.
4. So when a rich jerk guy buys the girlfriend nice things, buys the grandma a new corn dog stand, that shows he cares right?
5. Sure, he is smart, I will give him that.
6. Ok, he's handsome too.
7. Nope, if he wanted to grow and learn, he wouldn't be where he is.
8. Only passionate since SDM is pushing him. So basically, when he and SDM fights, where will that passion go? Plus he hasn't shown his so called passion for 6 episodes now.
9. Loves you now. Ever heard of Cloud 9? It's a thing.
So far what I see is your ideal guy is Smart and Handsome. good to know.
You think NDS is not unstable and a rock. Yet he crumbles like sand in the beach. He is able to harbor a lie for 15 years, and is willing to keep up a lie, even when prodded several times to tell the truth, including the end of Ep. 9..
1. Crumbles when scolded 2. Lies because he is afraid to be scolded 3. Is capable of lying without showing much remorse. 4. Is able to bottle up his guilt for 15 years. 5. Says yes to the girl on every aspect because he is afraid they will fight, or she will leave. 6. Is basically not good at managing conflicts.
Like, is this seriously the ideal guy for many? Low self esteem I can handle, but rationalizing your bad behavior because of low self esteem, I just can't.
I would break up with a guy like this in a heartbeat. I don't need to be taking care of a literal child in his 20's.
This is what the future of NDS and SDM looks like...
SDM: Dosan why did you cheat on me and have an affair?
NDS: Because Dalmi, you only told me you love me 2 times a week, so my low self-esteem kicked in. You know I need you to praise me everyday right? or else I will do dumb things due to my low self esteem.
For all those people who said NDS never blamed his parents. Here is a little crash course.
Episode 9 Timestamp 55:13
"I always feel like I always disappoint you no matter how hard I try, and how well I do. This has been killing me inside."
This is blame. Even if he didn't directly say, dad i'm like this because of you, it doesn't matter, this is blame.
You are essentially telling your parents, nothing I ever do is good enough for you, and so I decided to cheat and lie all this time. Also, because you are so strict with me, I have no self esteem, it's your fault I am like this.
Just watch, NDS will heap blame on HJP in ep 10.
Because that is exactly the kind of person he is, never one to accept his mistakes, and own up to them.
HJP fights with grandma, but within maybe a few hours, he owns up to it, and does the "right" thing.
NDS is a liar, who never tells the truth until he is caught.
Young NDS cheats on test, then gives medal to older boy.
Why did you give the medal to him? Oh because I feel bad for him, his mom is getting angry at him.
This is a Lie, and he never gets caught.
Young NDS purposely fails college
Why did you do that NDS?
Because I feel bad for my colleague peers appearing stupid.
This is a Lie,and he never gets caught.
Adult NDS fools SDM into thinking he is the NDS from 15 years ago.
He doesn't get caught until the very end.
The fact of the matter when NDS lie, he never is the one to admit it. He waits for the person being lied to either figure it out or corner him. So if SDM never figures it out, he will never tell her.
He has gotten so comfortable with lying that lying for 15 years to his parents is just a thing he does. Lying about the scrunchie, was just nothing to him.
NDS is afraid of success.
HJP has been hurt several times when he was young, that he avoids situations that can cause him more pain.
NDS hasn't been hurt much or at all, but he is afraid to even feel some pain, so he tries to avoid it completely.
To make an analogy:
HJP has had all his front teeth removed by the dentist by way of dental surgery, so he knows it hurts like heck, so he brushes his teeth everyday, and goes to regular dentist checkups to avoid dental surgery.
NDS is afraid of the thought of dental surgery. So he never even goes to the dentist. Opting to just pretend that he has good teeth. But when he eventually gets teeth infection, he will have to do dental surgery, and it's going to hurt a lot lot more.
NDS may be brilliant, sensitive, caring and soft, but he lacks empathy.
Also, for all we know HJP was going to give grandma a cut of the money, but he never gave the chance. He lashed out to her due to a misunderstanding, and she gives him all the money. Then he's too ashamed to even stay with her.
Fact of the matter is NDS is not a remorseful person. He makes a mistake, blames other people, the wind, fate and etc.. then he does the same mistake again.
HJP on the other hand, is remorseful, he feels guilt like a normal person, and he makes amends.
Big diff here.
As a parent, who has worked hard for my son, or as best friends who has been there for NDS since day 1. Hearing that we don't matter is crushing.
And for NDS to say, he has that one thing only in his life, is disappointing, because it shows he doesn't appreciate the other things in his life. And his parents even imply this.
Creating a path for HJP to pretty much skydive into douchebag territory so that NDS can look like the sensitive vulnerable giant, is lazy writing and unfair to the fans who invested in HJP for 9 episodes.
Your trying to convince fans, that the HJP they love for 9 episodes, is suddenly going to be a jerk for the remaining 7 ? Good luck with that.
1. Sure he believes in you when things go right, what happens when things go wrong. What if SDM keeps dropping the ball as a CEO, will that so called trust still be there?
2. This is a basic pre-requisite of a boyfriend, your implying, only NDS can possibly listen to their girlfriend's problems.
3. NDS has shown that he has the ability to look down on people. Just the way he looks down, disrespects HJP. Have you ever heard the saying. If someone is able to lie to another person, don't pretend that they are unable to lie to you.
4. So when a rich jerk guy buys the girlfriend nice things, buys the grandma a new corn dog stand, that shows he cares right?
5. Sure, he is smart, I will give him that.
6. Ok, he's handsome too.
7. Nope, if he wanted to grow and learn, he wouldn't be where he is.
8. Only passionate since SDM is pushing him. So basically, when he and SDM fights, where will that passion go? Plus he hasn't shown his so called passion for 6 episodes now.
9. Loves you now. Ever heard of Cloud 9? It's a thing.
So far what I see is your ideal guy is Smart and Handsome. good to know.
You think NDS is not unstable and a rock. Yet he crumbles like sand in the beach. He is able to harbor a lie for 15 years, and is willing to keep up a lie, even when prodded several times to tell the truth, including the end of Ep. 9..
If a guy has 5 flawed things, and 5 good things, you ignore the 5 flawed things because he has 5 good things?
So let's say a guy is sweet, successful, handsome and thoughtful.
Well, I don't care if he has tendency to cheat, a bit of a misogynist, and hates children, because he's handsome, successful, thoughtful, and sweet?
Wow, just wow.
Please tell me this is not how girls in this generation really think, I am ashamed.
So I should ignore, possible red flags that are blaring out distress signals, because he's smart, cute, and can crochet me a whole outfit?
Oh boy...
But no more Grandma HJP endgame for me.
They want to be with a guy like NDS who:
1. Crumbles when scolded
2. Lies because he is afraid to be scolded
3. Is capable of lying without showing much remorse.
4. Is able to bottle up his guilt for 15 years.
5. Says yes to the girl on every aspect because he is afraid they will fight, or she will leave.
6. Is basically not good at managing conflicts.
Like, is this seriously the ideal guy for many? Low self esteem I can handle, but rationalizing your bad behavior because of low self esteem, I just can't.
I would break up with a guy like this in a heartbeat. I don't need to be taking care of a literal child in his 20's.
This is what the future of NDS and SDM looks like...
SDM: Dosan why did you cheat on me and have an affair?
NDS: Because Dalmi, you only told me you love me 2 times a week, so my low self-esteem kicked in. You know I need you to praise me everyday right? or else I will do dumb things due to my low self esteem.
Episode 9 Timestamp 55:13
"I always feel like I always disappoint you no matter how hard I try, and how well I do. This has been killing me inside."
This is blame. Even if he didn't directly say, dad i'm like this because of you, it doesn't matter, this is blame.
You are essentially telling your parents, nothing I ever do is good enough for you, and so I decided to cheat and lie all this time. Also, because you are so strict with me, I have no self esteem, it's your fault I am like this.
Just watch, NDS will heap blame on HJP in ep 10.
Because that is exactly the kind of person he is, never one to accept his mistakes, and own up to them.
HJP fights with grandma, but within maybe a few hours, he owns up to it, and does the "right" thing.