I really liked the series cause it has something happening in every ep. FL falls in love too easily towards a man who showed kindness to a stranger like her but she fears that if she falls hard then she won't be able to stand up again so she keeps running away again and again, she becomes more concerned about how she is making him feel cause she is falling deeper for him and the ML whose family is complicated just wants to protect and live in his own world, he doesn't want to stir up trouble for others and doesn't want anyone to stir up trouble for him but he is too kind to look away from the stranger who caused chaos in his world but who is also very pitiful and miserable, the calm and cool headed him finds himself driven insane by her. I liked the way he gets to meet dorami and the time they spent together. I also liked the way they wrapped up the series in the end. It wasn't just about plot but I liked seon ho and youn jung's acting too. Anyways, I felt happy and satisfied after watching this series.
Maybe you have never been a fan of an idol or maybe you are a delusional one too that's why you aren't being able to see such a simple point. Also I never said anything about preying I was just talking about the mentality of some fans behind those harassments. Anyways I'm tired of writing long explanations too so yeah whatever.
Are you arguing just for the sake of arguing? Since you didn't understand my point let me give you an example. As you are watching this series you must have seen the two stalker girls in the 1st, 2nd and 3rd ep where they initially claimed that they loved him a lot and wanted to take care of him, just like these both there are many many delusional fans who goes through any length just to make their idol notice them, they believe that if they do the things like what those girls did their idol will eventually fall in love with them. They spent money to meet him, stalked him, entered his house thinking that they had a chance with him but on the other hand female lead actually got a chance to be close with her idol but she never thought and never had any intention of making him fall in love with her, given his situation where no one trusted him and he started trusting her she could have easily gotten close to him intentionally but she didn't cause she respected his feelings. I was talking about the difference between those stalker fans and the fans like female lead who respects her idol as a person and wants him to be happy. An idol and a fan can date but there are boundaries between them that should never be crossed unless wanting to be like those stalker girls. If every fan starts crossing these boundaries then the life of that idol would be like living hell. It's up to him to decide whom he wants to date. Female lead respects that boundary and in the end they didn't date each other as an idol and fan but dated each other like do laik and sena.
See I told you that you missed the point. He can be with a fan of even with a man if he is happy. It's not like he can date all of his fans so what I said is I'm happy that female lead represents the fans who feels happy seeing her idol being happy and didn't take advantage of her idol's vulnerable situation like some saeseng fans would do. There are many fans out there who wishes nothing but the happiness of their idol from afar. They give their blessings from afar no matter who their idol date if it means that he is happy.
Of course he can date whoever he wants. What I appreciate is the female lead not taking advantage of his vulnerable situation and actively getting close to him because of being his fangirl. There are many fans who only wish for their idol to be happy, wants to see them grow, see them date whoever they want and just be happy from afar. But there are also so many delusional fans who thinks that they have a chance if they get into contact with their idol. There are crazy fans who follow the idols around thinking that their idol will eventually fall in love with them if they keep appearing infront of their idol. So I appreciate the way female lead represents the fangirls who only wish for their idol's happiness and that's how the love of fan should be.
No matter how the murder plot doesn't make sense etc but I appreciate the way she didn't actively pursue him as his fangirl. I mean I appreciate the message of wanting to see your idol being happy from far away.
I'm not anti-therapy, I have had therapy, but it isn't culturally appropriate for everyone. Not everyone who has…
I agree with you as an asian. I think western people don't think that encouraging someone to seek therapy is something bad (and if it does help it's not bad) but in Asia if someone keeps insisting the other person to seek therapy then it actually has the opposite effect rather than making the person who is suffering feel like they are getting support and care from the person who is insisting.
Why is the rating of this series lower than I expected? I want to know what the people that are watching this series think about it. Please do tell if it's worth watching?
what?? so the youtube one is cut? i was watching it there, WETV is not available to me without vpn but when i…
Yes the yt one is not complete. There was a scene which I considered as important in making fah realise his feelings for phoon in the novel but it wasn't shown in the cut ver on yt so I thought that they didn't include it at all and commented about it there and then someone replied that the scene is included in uncut version. In uncut version there's also the scene where fah gets to know that the one who was sending him letters and snacks is phoon. I felt really glad that I watched the uncut version or I would have missed it.
I feel so so so happy after watching uncut versionđ. At first I used to watch the cut one on yt and felt disappointed to see some main things not included in it but the uncut version follows the novel dittođ I loved it!
are we talking about the fake daughter and motheri thought fl father and that woman were together right?
No they are not a couple. FL's father always keep saying that the fake mother is just his best friend and nothing else and that their relationship is pure and he is just helping his best friend cause she doesn't have much time left. They used to date each other when they were young but she left FL's father to marry someone with a good job and good salary but later her husband died in an accident so now that fake mother and daughter are using past sentiment and living off FL's father.
Though FL's father has divorced he keeps saying that the relationship between him and that fake best friend is pure so it's disgusting to watch them clinging to each other like husband and wife.
I got kim su hyeon and I actually feel happy cause even though obsessive (and violently protective at times) he was so charming in the series and his chemistry with daon was off the charts (before he got obsessive and violent, I mean when they were friends in university).
After watching it I was like 'huh?' cause it ended so quickly! I was swept away along with the dance they were doing and in a blink of an eye the movie ended. I want more of it!
An idol and a fan can date but there are boundaries between them that should never be crossed unless wanting to be like those stalker girls. If every fan starts crossing these boundaries then the life of that idol would be like living hell. It's up to him to decide whom he wants to date. Female lead respects that boundary and in the end they didn't date each other as an idol and fan but dated each other like do laik and sena.
Though FL's father has divorced he keeps saying that the relationship between him and that fake best friend is pure so it's disgusting to watch them clinging to each other like husband and wife.