That's because, a lot of people are not active on MDL and others do not bother to update their list. They might be watching the show but would not add it to their watchlist.
Only if you consider BL some kind of inferior work of popular culture compared to non-BL. Do you?
Well, BLs were yet to get the kind of support and sponsorship non-BLs get, hence, the low quality we've been having but things are changing now. Those old productions went against all so many people to produce those low quality shows.
i saw fire in the car, acting all shy and innocent and my mind automatically went "last time you were here, you…
😂😂😂. It's truly hard to see him act so bashful and take him seriously. Now, I'm trying to remember how he was before OF, yet the image is blurry even though I've been following him for a very long time.
Firstly, from my understanding, it's because it's considered rude to ask about it as this relates to actual gay…
Totally. I cringe every time I hear it. Why would one call a man a wife? Assigning roles in MXM relationship is up to those involved but the name calling is so not necessary. At first, people said it's cultural for Thai shows to use wife but I beg to differ. Why the heck is it cultural that the one who bottoms is the one being called wife? Isn't that just trying to make it look like a hetero relationship?
Hey! I know it's not about series but quick question is : do you guys know why some people gets angry when you're…
Firstly, from my understanding, it's because it's considered rude to ask about it as this relates to actual gay people. Normally, we shouldn't even concern ourselves what the position and what people chose to do in the bedroom.. We don't ask a straight couple who tops or bottom, so why do we care about it when it comes to gay whether fictional characters or real people? Secondly, older BLs were known to perpetrate harmful gay stereotypes whereby they attach the top and bottom position to a character's personality. Tall, muscular, dominant, huge and assertive characters were casted as Tops while petite or feminine characters were casted as bottoms and they were portrayed as weak, needing the Tops to always protect them. This in turn created a very bad fixed thinking for a lot of viewers who came to know about gay through BLs. They believed this is how it is and most would rudely and demeaningly refer to guys who bottoms as girlish almost as if they are trying to fit the gay relationships into the heteronormative roles. Some BLs will blatantly use the husband and wife to refer to Tops and Bottoms. Some viewers carry this mindset into reality and shamelessly asks actual gay people. Although, I'm not gay, even I know that you can't tell how a person is in bed just from looking at their personality or appearance. These stereotypes needs to go and thankfully newer BLs are doing much better but we still need to educate younger BLs audience about these things. I think it's healthier to focus on the show itself rather than who do what. Some even gets upset if a dominant guy is casted as a bottom and a cutesy one as a top. Because they expect the Top to be more masculine/macho/stoic and due to this, they hate the story.
There are times when we like the cringiest and cheesiest sh*t. How do I explain my love for the intro/opening theme? I find myself dancing with them and smiling a very cringey smile.😁 Or Is it just me?🤔
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I like it too🤣🤣. The best NC scene I've seen in a long time.
At first, people said it's cultural for Thai shows to use wife but I beg to differ. Why the heck is it cultural that the one who bottoms is the one being called wife? Isn't that just trying to make it look like a hetero relationship?
Someone else who have a better answer might respond but I'm glad you asked.😊
it's because it's considered rude to ask about it as this relates to actual gay people. Normally, we shouldn't even concern ourselves what the position and what people chose to do in the bedroom.. We don't ask a straight couple who tops or bottom, so why do we care about it when it comes to gay whether fictional characters or real people?
Secondly, older BLs were known to perpetrate harmful gay stereotypes whereby they attach the top and bottom position to a character's personality. Tall, muscular, dominant, huge and assertive characters were casted as Tops while petite or feminine characters were casted as bottoms and they were portrayed as weak, needing the Tops to always protect them. This in turn created a very bad fixed thinking for a lot of viewers who came to know about gay through BLs. They believed this is how it is and most would rudely and demeaningly refer to guys who bottoms as girlish almost as if they are trying to fit the gay relationships into the heteronormative roles. Some BLs will blatantly use the husband and wife to refer to Tops and Bottoms. Some viewers carry this mindset into reality and shamelessly asks actual gay people.
Although, I'm not gay, even I know that you can't tell how a person is in bed just from looking at their personality or appearance.
These stereotypes needs to go and thankfully newer BLs are doing much better but we still need to educate younger BLs audience about these things. I think it's healthier to focus on the show itself rather than who do what. Some even gets upset if a dominant guy is casted as a bottom and a cutesy one as a top. Because they expect the Top to be more masculine/macho/stoic and due to this, they hate the story.
Or Is it just me?🤔
Too bad.