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Considering that I couldn't bring myself to watch S2 of Friendzone, so I'm likely not to watch S2 of OF if it does come out.

Seconded.

Nooooo
But I like Boston in his sleeveless🤧

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Lol. If this continues, I might just love Sand. I tend to gravitate towards such characters.🤣

I would chose to trust him and leave, even if it hurts my feelings. This is just the beginning of the relationship and if they can't trust each other now, then how will it work? and if Sand is so easily snatched away and he did end up cheating, then he means he isn't worth it.
Personally, I would rather want to know how he handles it because in life a lot of people ruin their current relationships with their exes when they meet again.
No matter how much you defend your territory, someone who will leave you or cheat will still find a way to do it.

Lol. Personally, I love Mew too much to ever ship him with Top.
That's a disaster waiting to happen and this time, Mew won't survive it. But it's ep 12 next week and it's gonna be happily-ever-after. So I can only grudgingly accept it as long as my Mew's happy.

To be honest, if I were Sand, I'll also keep Ray away from Boeing. Sand knows Boeing better than all of us, as we dont even know their history. We saw what happened when Top allowed Boeing to stay despite Mew being around. That kind of people can also make a move on Ray the next minute.
Oh well, you need to see trouble in SandRay's paradise on twitter and how some fans are hating on Sand. Their ship scattered so fast..
It's almost like as long as anyone does anything remotely wrong to Ray, they will be branded as evil and hated.

I wish they'll cut Sand some slacks.

I am not a fan of any couple. Infact my greatest wish is for BLs to stop recycling couples/ ships. So boring and predictable. I rather like actors individually. I like Khao, First, Neo and now, Mark. Of course, in different order of importance.
As for ForceBook, I never liked any of them and their previous works but Book sold Mew and I like him now. Mewnis my favourite and the only character I actually care about in the whole series. I really don't care what happens to the rest or who ends up with whom 🤣

Exactly why some comments makes me mad.. Khao and Neo were my favourite before OF started. When the series started, I of course like the characters they played but after the repeat crappy behaviours, I will stick with a character I like, instead of the actor. But we're all different afterall.

Imagine if ForceBook had played SandRay roles, I know people wouldn't have been so forgiving of Ray even with the mental illness included.

While I do understand that Ton did alot of shitty things, her reaction to her brother was too mild. If she indeed had suspected her brother lied, the more reason she should have addressed it there.

True. Although, I don't like judging, some reactions can be called hypocritical especially when one person is repeatedly allowed to get away with anything but the moment someone else does what is perceived as wrong, the hate train comes along.

Well, he did say he can offer friendship but is that really true or he was just being polite, we'll never know.
But now that dear Ray has invited him home, I guess this is a better move? This is even more disrespectful cos he has no business doing that when he and Boeing didn't even had a 10min convo, unlike Boeing with Mew whom he repeatedly made insulting remark at.

But is all these enough to hate on Sand? Please... I've seen Ray being forgiven countless times for doing worse the moment he pulls a sad face.😆
Sand is human too and he's gonna make mistakes just like everyone else.

That's what I'm saying. He had already rejected Boeing using his boyfriend. This was during the time they had their conversation and Boeing came into him.
Next, Boeing is now trying to use "needing company to make a move since the initial move did not work", so Sand gave him another reason why he cannot offer an extra bed to him.

Sand said he had a roomate because he indeed have a roomate in his home, therefore, Boeing cannot go to his home. He didn't need to say he had a boyfriend, because Boeing had just met his boyfriend and spoke to him about the said Boyfriend but even that was not enough to dissuade him. Sand has a boyfriend and a roomate. That is two different reasons he gave Boeing.

While I understand that he shouldn't have sent Ray away, but he had told Ray about his ex being around already. Ray can feel bad about being Sent away, and it's allowed but inviting Boeing over to his home is a NO NO.

So I have finally watched the whole ep 11.
So where is the hate for Sand coming from? Sand never introduced Ray as his friend. It was Boeing who mentioned the word "friend", but Ray corrected him by using "boyfriend" and Sand never denied it.

Secondly, WTH was that? Why would Ray invite Boeing home when Sand was dealing with the situation already? Sand was already establishing boundaries with Boeing and gently turning him down, (although if it were me, I wouldn't give an ex my time), still I don't see what Sand did that's so wrong? Sand did not want Ray to witness things get messy with Boeing as he did not know what Boeing wanted to speak to him about.
Maybe not send Ray away when Boeing arrived, possibly, but old emotions yet to be laid to rest must have resurfaced. Honestly, Ray overstepped. They just started a new relationship and prior to this, Ray consistently messed up.. He needs to trust Sand.

P.S: Ray inviting Boeing to his house was like De ja vu, cos Mew did the exact same thing, except that Mew's move was tagged as revenge and he was once again crucified.

As for Cheum and Atom, while I have never disliked Cheum because they barely show her, I am deeply unsatisfied with that scene. So "my wicked little brother " and she proceeds to hug him? Fine and good, but I was expecting her to strangle him next and go off on him for daring to accuse someone of SA and taking of nude photos without consent. How dare they make light of that situation? Being accused of SA when the person is innocent is really terrible, because situations like this makes real victims get ignored and the accused who actually did it gets away with it, while the falsely accused goes to jail or end up stigmatised.
Are they trying to push her reaction to ep 12? That ruins that arc for me and by ep 12, it's a reaction and apology much too late.

Boeing started out as hot and interesting to flat, in like 5mins. Jumping around like a housefly, reeks of desperation cos it seem like he just wanna attach himself to something.

I know. They quickly forgave him and made Mew the villain. It seems like every other character is allowed to mess up time and tims again but not Mew. The unnecessary hate on him, who is chearly struggling internally.
That sudden redemption arc was just crap because instead of giving Mew space and time to process, deal with and heal, Mew was presented with a sudden "good" guy who kerps showing up and applying pressure on him. I don't know how people did not see that it was wrong.

Every other shitty character mess up time and time again but gets forgiven and "understood ". Nah, people are too biased.

Lol. I know. And because Mew is not giving Top what he wants, Mew is seen in a bad light.
What about the struggles Mew is experiencing? Honestly, trust is harder to regain than love. I relate so much with Mew because I went through something similar. I hated how he kept showing up invited asking for forgiveness, even though i had made it clear i will never accept him back. He brought his friends and persuaded my neighbours to plead with. I was scared of going home cos I wasn't certain he won't suddenly show up. For months...

So i don't like how Top ignores Mew's healing, thinking he's the balm to Mew's soul. Top should be ready to accept the new Mew because the naive one is gone. Look at him thinking Mew will sleep with Boeing. I knew Mew won't do that and i also know Mew did not get close to Boeing to revenge on Top. He simply got closer to the enemy to know what he wanted inorder to beat him.at his own game.
Imagine Top showing up at Mew's house without informing him and then giving him attitude claiming that "it won't work between them", then why the heck did you show up?. I just wanted Mew to tell him to F off. Showing up repeatedly like a righteous Knight, playing the victim and making Mew look mean.
On that note, I don't like Mew's parents. Sorry. Ignoring Mew's obvious discomfort with Top repeatedly and even inviting Top behind Mew's back, when they don't know what went wrong between them.
I actually hope more parents pay attention to their children's verbal and nonverbal communication. This is how children who are being bullied and abuse by someone really close to family, and are scared to speak up gets ignored.

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You echoed my thoughts.
I guess Mew was supposed to just develop Amnesia and forget the whole thing happened. Is it so easy to forgive and then forget?
Honestly, the reason why I still don't accept Top's redemption was the way he never backed off nor give Mew some space to actually process and heal.
It's like he hurt someone, suddenly turned 360 degrees and became the good guy, and the person he hurt is supposed to just accept the new him and take him back? How about the pain, love, conflict and confusion Mew is dealing with inside?

Yes, we should and throw in a 2weeks vacation just to relax and let go. Some nice weather, sunshine and healing...