i totally agree with you, i'm survivor too, and i lived with my abusive father when my mother did not care about…
For me, it was exactly the same like in the drama. I left him note too, but i felt bad for him so i told him where i gonna be. I was with my mother and sister in her place, because my mother was going through divorce with my abusive father at that time. I was really curious how are they gonna portrait her character, and i was in shook because i was the same like her, my relationship with my partner was the same. He saw me happy in our early relationship, but longer we where toghether, he didn't know what was happening with me. He was questioning himself like Sang Yan, why Are you crying, whats happening to you, why don't you tell me, why are you having nightmares..So yes, they did it wel with this drama, and characters too. And i love it, really..
i totally agree with you, i'm survivor too, and i lived with my abusive father when my mother did not care about…
Its hard to live with that mutch trauma, so i know how she feels, i was there too and older i get, i think of that times every day. It's gonna be there with you your whole life. So i don't get these bad comments about her decisions leaving him And making him waiting again. It's his decisions to wait for her, it's her decisions to heal herself, and she needs that. After two years living with my partner and not telling him nothing about it, it was showing, we haved really bad times, and he was hurt. So talking, healing yourself, working with your trauma is really important for you and your life partner if you don't want to hurt yourself and him too. Thank you for your kind words 🤍
For the people who’ve seen ep 25 and still questioning why she left sangyan? GOD I totally get it even more…
i totally agree with you, i'm survivor too, and i lived with my abusive father when my mother did not care about me. I left my boyfriend for two monts, (we lived together) after 2 years when we where toghether, he didn't know anything about my father, SA and stalking from the man who did that to me. But he waited for me. I talked it out with my mother (now we have the best relationship, like mother and daughter and best friends), cut ties with my father, he lives alone and i didn't see him like 4 years maybe? And my boyfriend? We are living together now 7 years. The older i get, the worst Is my trauma. But i'm in state, when i'm finally able to talk about it openly, he suports me in every posible way. So yes, i agree with her, because i know how she feel and how is it living with trauma.
Would you mind telling me the ending of the novel? I really don't mind spoilers.
So here i go, novel ends in happy way. They got married after they got bact to the China. But in epilogue, Li Zhan's psychological problems become more and more serious. When their son was 9 years old, he took his own life with homemade gun..and Song Ran, she died when she was visiting a war. She was hit by a stray bullet while saving a child. In epilogue, there are interviews with people who knew them, as well as their son's interview, who tells how they died.
Epilogue ends with words "This book is dedicaded to every person in the world who cherishes life."
About ending - Novel SPOILIER ..I’m confused. I read the novel on Wattpad, and to be honest, I only read the…
novel ends with happy ending, but epilogue is differend. the whole novel with an epilogue is on wattpad. I don't wanna give you spoiler, so you have your own choice to read that epilogue or not.
I just saw a major spoiler about the ending in the novel. ☹️
that's exactly what I'm talking about, I don't mind spoilers, I like to read other people's opinions on the series I'm currently watching, but I noticed that almost half of the people here are spitting out spoilers like nothing..ending of novel Is good, but in epilogue Is the end different. Sometimes, when they do the ending according to novel, they don't do it according to the epilogue. so we have nothing else to do but wait until the last ep and see how Its gonna end.
Guys, I know how this series will end, but the others who haven't read the novel don't know. So if you're going to write like this about how it ends, or what happens in the epilogue, please be so kind and mark it as a spoiler omg! 🤦♀️ this whole page Is lately full of debates about how it will end, think a little about the others who want to enjoy without spoilers.
Epilogue ends with words "This book is dedicaded to every person in the world who cherishes life."