If this is about his marriage, You're an awful person! this man has the right to marry whoever he wants without…
"none of you delulu, crazy "straight" fetishizers have brains"
fixed it
"... because i don't think actors should have to hide their personal lives?"
privacy is the price of fame. fame resembles an enormous, global washing machine in which rumors swirl around in motion. everyone gossips about celebrities. and celebrities let them. they are some of the biggest liars. everything they do or say is directed towards fame. they don't publicize their "dating lives" for no reason. you see a male idol/celebrity with a woman? or a female idol/celebrity with a man? that's fake news; a publicity stunt. their "straight" lifestyle is forged in a marketing boardroom to get the attention of the public. they aren't satisfied or happy. they convince others to convince themselves of a lie
a "personal life" should be kept personal. private. hidden. when shared on the internet, when brought out on the streets, it's not personal anymore. it's public
a "public life" gives the public a front-row seat to the show and invites our opinions. positive and negative opinions. the public is allowed to dislike idols/celebrities and their partners. don't blame the public. blame the idols/celebrities who make their "personal lives" a public matter and put forth no conscientious effort to serve our interest
"... so i responded to defend him"
your perception of morality or freedom is distorted. you see fault in bl fans, not in yourselves
the people most affected by celebrities "dating" or "getting married" are "straight" fetishizers
entertainment agencies market their celebrities as "girlfriends" or "boyfriends" available to the fans of the opposite gender. the marketed fantasy is that they are their fans' partners. that they are "not gay." you're projecting your delusions onto bl fans
"... when bl actors turn out to be straight"
they aren't "straight." noone is. people identify as "straight"
"the only ones crying are people like you because you're fantasy has been spoiled"
i'm enjoying myself. seeing "straight" fetishizers cry over a non-issue brings me joy
Ep. 9. Was the dead person in the barrel at Sopyung Lake whose student ID card was retrieved with the name Lee…
i believe that wasn't ha neul's body. it was the body of the man who wanted to strangle ha neul?
ha neul was told to "forget his name and live like he's already dead." kai remembered what ha neul felt at the time. he's ha neul
he told dong joo that he might not be, to buy himself time? he's not ready to show himself. people would mistreat him and send him to "repentance room" (prison). he'd have to relive some of his worst memories
the same people who tell kang san and ha neul that they shouldn't hate, judge or punish criminals (their abusers), would hate, judge and punish ha neul. they can't be trusted
kang san asked dong joo, "didn't god give me superpowers to punish all the jerks out there?"
if this "god" gave kang san the superpowers to punish people, his law that "murder can be justified" conflicts with the human law that "murder can't be justified." all authority comes from this "god." it shouldn't be "evil" or "criminal" for kang san or ha neul to punish people
If you mean King The Land, I don't and won't watch it, these romcoms are not for me. This is really great and…
all you'd get from king the land is a cinematic facepalm. it's better to skip it. people watch for the leads. they can't lie that they watch for the plot. there's no plot, and i'm not kidding. it wouldn't have been popular if the leads weren't popular and conventionally good-looking idols
Crazy people throwing tantrum because someone get his own happines π€£π€£
a happy person wouldn't share their "relationship" statuses on the internet. celebrities are not happy people. they make their miserable "personal lives" public for validation. it's the validation that makes them happy. they trick others into thinking they are happy to trick themselves into thinking they are happy
dear celebrities, keep your "dating" and "marriage" news to yourselves. i don't want to see that in my timeline
Yuk Dong Joo and Lee Myung Seok has a hilarious tolerate- hate relationship. I want a spin-off series focusing…
i see you're a person of culture π
dong joo and myung seok are like an old married couple. they have feelings for each other but are not consistent in expressing them. a spin-off is what they need to make up/out-
It's great when people find love and happiness! Specially the celebrities who are prone to have lots of preassure…
celebrities should keep their "personal lives" to themselves. if they weren't public property, their "personal lives" wouldn't have been public and in our faces. there would have been no "dating" or "marriage" news. paparazzi, news agencies and fans treat celebrities like public property. you treat celebrities like public property!
If this is about his marriage, You're an awful person! this man has the right to marry whoever he wants without…
you're an awful person. you and your anti-bl agenda make me sick to my stomach
"... has the right to marry"
the freedom of choice for celebrities is accompanied by the freedom of expression for their fans. one side (celebrities) acting without consequence isn't sustainable or healthy. fans have a right to voice their opinions and disagree with the choices of celebrities to "date" or "marry." grow up and accept that
"... crazy fetishizers"
"straight" dramas/movies fetishize men, women and the "straight" lifestyle, and you're okay with them
"fetishize" and "fetishization" are meaningless buzzwords that attempt to invalidate and belittle "non-straight" media. the media fetishization of the "straight" lifestyle isn't associated with the neuroticism associated with bl or gl. that's homophobic
there are bad apples in every fandom. it's not fair to single out the bl fandom. your faulty, gross generalizations and widespread negative views of bl fans stem from long-existing systems of misogyny and homophobia
"... the fandom is just too toxic and nasty"
fans of "straight" media exhibit more problematic behaviors. they lack respect for privacy and spread "dating" rumors based on insignificant interactions between men and women. for example, king the land's junho and yoona were embroiled in "dating" rumors. they said they are just coworkers: https://archive.is/tpYwW
we don't spread dating rumors about bl actors. the rumors that do surface aren't taken seriously or given credence. reconsider the content you consume and distance yourselves from the toxic, nasty "straight" fandom
"... because a person who acted in a bl isn't really gay"
i've seen many gay men "married with children" who came out in their 40s or 50s. you assume a man with a woman is "totally not gay." we will assume he is gay
Do you honestly think that all actors in BL film's/drama's are gay in real life? What on earth has him appearing…
everyone is gay. there's a global closet and the majority of the population (an estimated 95+%) hide in it. bl actors are more open about it. they get into and inhabit gay characters. by doing that, they experience the same emotions as their gay characters and temporarily blur the lines between "acting" and "real life." they may not be dating their male love interests off-stage, but they are on-stage
fans of "straight" media exhibit more problematic, delulu behaviors. they lack respect for privacy and spread "dating" rumors based on insignificant interactions between men and women. for example, king the land's junho and yoona were embroiled in "dating" rumors. they said they are just coworkers: https://archive.is/tpYwW
we don't spread dating rumors about bl actors. the rumors that do surface aren't taken seriously or given credence. teach the "straight" fandom to "differentiate between acting and real life," will you?
i've seen many gay men "married with children" who came out in their 40s or 50s. you get to assume a man is "totally not gay" if he's with a woman. we should get to assume a man is gay, even if he's with a woman
wishing for a time skip where they show san young and hong sae happily married or even just datingππππ
wishing for a time skip where they show san young and hae sang holding a funeral service for a deceased hong sae, then we won't get any comments like yoursππππ
fixed it
"... because i don't think actors should have to hide their personal lives?"
privacy is the price of fame. fame resembles an enormous, global washing machine in which rumors swirl around in motion. everyone gossips about celebrities. and celebrities let them. they are some of the biggest liars. everything they do or say is directed towards fame. they don't publicize their "dating lives" for no reason. you see a male idol/celebrity with a woman? or a female idol/celebrity with a man? that's fake news; a publicity stunt. their "straight" lifestyle is forged in a marketing boardroom to get the attention of the public. they aren't satisfied or happy. they convince others to convince themselves of a lie
a "personal life" should be kept personal. private. hidden. when shared on the internet, when brought out on the streets, it's not personal anymore. it's public
a "public life" gives the public a front-row seat to the show and invites our opinions. positive and negative opinions. the public is allowed to dislike idols/celebrities and their partners. don't blame the public. blame the idols/celebrities who make their "personal lives" a public matter and put forth no conscientious effort to serve our interest
"... so i responded to defend him"
your perception of morality or freedom is distorted. you see fault in bl fans, not in yourselves
the people most affected by celebrities "dating" or "getting married" are "straight" fetishizers
entertainment agencies market their celebrities as "girlfriends" or "boyfriends" available to the fans of the opposite gender. the marketed fantasy is that they are their fans' partners. that they are "not gay." you're projecting your delusions onto bl fans
"... when bl actors turn out to be straight"
they aren't "straight." noone is. people identify as "straight"
"the only ones crying are people like you because you're fantasy has been spoiled"
i'm enjoying myself. seeing "straight" fetishizers cry over a non-issue brings me joy
ha neul was told to "forget his name and live like he's already dead." kai remembered what ha neul felt at the time. he's ha neul
he told dong joo that he might not be, to buy himself time? he's not ready to show himself. people would mistreat him and send him to "repentance room" (prison). he'd have to relive some of his worst memories
the same people who tell kang san and ha neul that they shouldn't hate, judge or punish criminals (their abusers), would hate, judge and punish ha neul. they can't be trusted
kang san asked dong joo, "didn't god give me superpowers to punish all the jerks out there?"
if this "god" gave kang san the superpowers to punish people, his law that "murder can be justified" conflicts with the human law that "murder can't be justified." all authority comes from this "god." it shouldn't be "evil" or "criminal" for kang san or ha neul to punish people
episode 1: https://www.viki.com/videos/1236173v-jun-jun-episode-1
episode 2: https://www.viki.com/videos/1236174v-jun-jun-episode-2
kisskh links
episode 1: https://kisskh.co/Drama/Jun---Jun/Episode-1?id=7724&ep=130847&page=0&pageSize=100
episode 2: https://kisskh.co/Drama/Jun---Jun/Episode-2?id=7724&ep=130863&page=0&pageSize=100
dear celebrities, keep your "dating" and "marriage" news to yourselves. i don't want to see that in my timeline
dong joo and myung seok are like an old married couple. they have feelings for each other but are not consistent in expressing them. a spin-off is what they need to make up/out-
"... has the right to marry"
the freedom of choice for celebrities is accompanied by the freedom of expression for their fans. one side (celebrities) acting without consequence isn't sustainable or healthy. fans have a right to voice their opinions and disagree with the choices of celebrities to "date" or "marry." grow up and accept that
"... crazy fetishizers"
"straight" dramas/movies fetishize men, women and the "straight" lifestyle, and you're okay with them
"fetishize" and "fetishization" are meaningless buzzwords that attempt to invalidate and belittle "non-straight" media. the media fetishization of the "straight" lifestyle isn't associated with the neuroticism associated with bl or gl. that's homophobic
there are bad apples in every fandom. it's not fair to single out the bl fandom. your faulty, gross generalizations and widespread negative views of bl fans stem from long-existing systems of misogyny and homophobia
"... the fandom is just too toxic and nasty"
fans of "straight" media exhibit more problematic behaviors. they lack respect for privacy and spread "dating" rumors based on insignificant interactions between men and women. for example, king the land's junho and yoona were embroiled in "dating" rumors. they said they are just coworkers: https://archive.is/tpYwW
https://imgur.com/RkHqHoF
we don't spread dating rumors about bl actors. the rumors that do surface aren't taken seriously or given credence. reconsider the content you consume and distance yourselves from the toxic, nasty "straight" fandom
"... because a person who acted in a bl isn't really gay"
i've seen many gay men "married with children" who came out in their 40s or 50s. you assume a man with a woman is "totally not gay." we will assume he is gay
fans of "straight" media exhibit more problematic, delulu behaviors. they lack respect for privacy and spread "dating" rumors based on insignificant interactions between men and women. for example, king the land's junho and yoona were embroiled in "dating" rumors. they said they are just coworkers: https://archive.is/tpYwW
https://imgur.com/RkHqHoF
we don't spread dating rumors about bl actors. the rumors that do surface aren't taken seriously or given credence. teach the "straight" fandom to "differentiate between acting and real life," will you?
i've seen many gay men "married with children" who came out in their 40s or 50s. you get to assume a man is "totally not gay" if he's with a woman. we should get to assume a man is gay, even if he's with a woman