GayinYourArea

"As to you hating being a woman...your statements and attitude regarding your womb and your periods indicates that to be the case"

you misunderstood. i said i celebrate my periods and empty womb. being a woman =/= being with a man and getting preggo. i love being a childless woman

a woman reducing herself to a walking womb hates herself. do men understand that? no! see, i don't hate men. men make me hate them

"So you hate straight men. That's a pretty broad category of people to dismiss as worthy of only of your scorn"

every single one of them is worthy of my scorn

"All that considered, it seems your "preferred" monogamous system doesn't really work very well at all"

again, you misunderstood. i said most women flourish in a monogamous relationship. not all women want monogamy. most do

"Who would be relieved not to have to service a horny husband every night"

you're projecting your horniness onto women

"I say this as someone who would never be in a relationship like that"

i'm a monogamous person. i can't relate

"Plenty of women cheat on their husbands too you know"

do your statistics explain why women cheat? women cheat, because the relationship at home is cooling off. they cheat to find out if they are still desirable. the men they are with make them feel inadequate. it's not the monogamous system that doesn't work very well. it's men who don't work very well

"Unless I'm misinterpreting you and you don't mean to be belligerent"

i wasn't trying to sound aggressive

"Men do a LOT of shit. Or have you forgotten society still generally expects the man to be the primary bread-winner"

men do a lot of that shit in a monogamous system. men provide, they bring something to the table, and women agree to raise their children. men wouldn't have done that shit/taken responsibility in a non-monogamous system that lets them "impregnate" one woman a day and get away with it

"Says who?"

me? what do laws have to do with the general disadvantages of polygamy for women? monogamy outweighs polygamy. polygamy is rare and most women prefer monogamy for the reasons explained above. i didn't say all polygamy should be illegal. i said monogamy is preferred, and men should respect that preference

"It sounds like you're angry that you are a woman"

i'm not angry?

"You sound like, as one of my aunts used to say, a man-hater"

i hate most men. you know, the ones who don't leave women alone? i don't hate gay men

jun mo (jun) isn't uncomfortable. hyun woo (jun) was his first love. he sniffed the shirt and smiled to himself that he will smell like hyun woo (jun), didn't he? a part of him is interested. it's just that the other part is slow and needs time to make sense of that information. it gives a 404, Not Found error

"... the idea of one man and one woman committing to a monogamous relationship and having at most one child per year, is entirely an opposite arrangement from what the male body is DESIGNED to do"

monogamy evolved for women and what the female body is "designed" to do: producing one offspring per 9 month period

"pregnancy" is not a joke. it's not easy on the body. we're talking about the stretch marks, untimely morning sickness, and swollen feet and hands. it pushes the body off-limits, much more than any competitive sport

men don't do shit. they "spread their seed." women do the shit. it'd make sense for women to call the shots and ask for a monogamous system that preserves social "order." men can't expect women to give themselves up and carry their offspring to term without giving anything up in return for the time women spend in activities that provide resources for the offspring. it's toxic to take, take, take, and not give. how women resolve this trade-off has long been tied to monogamy and the cooperation of men to help raise dependents. the value of exclusive cooperation/monogamy outweighs polygamy

men don't want this system? that's a reason for them to go their own way, somewhere far from women. women don't want them or their "it's free real estate" system that puts women at a disadvantage

"... straying is exactly what our bodies tell us to do"

people have the power to determine what to do with themselves. nature says to stray. we can say no to that. as a woman, i've never had the urge to be with a man or have children. every menstrual cycle/period has been a middle finger that tells nature to go fuck itself. the womb prepares for implantation of a developing embryo. i don't let a man put an embryo in that womb. i bleed/get my period. nature loses and i win 😈

"... we are by nature ALREADY disgusting sex pigs"

facts

it's too early to tell what they'll do with the characters. i can tell "romance" will ruin it for me, though

"... any of of them dating is somehow a bad thing"

"it's not a scandal/bad thing" is your opinion. you were free to share your opinion. people should be as free to call it a scandal

a "dating" rumor is a scandal. it's scandalous to spread rumors about celebrities

female celebrities are rumored to be with any man who breathes the same air

the real scandal is people getting off on two adults "dating." they are adults. it's none of anyone's business what they do, right? there's no reason to be happy

they will break up. celebrity "relationships" always break down/fail

dispatch/paparazzi are creepy, invasive and immoral stalkers who spread rumors about the private lives of celebrities. did jisoo and bo hyun share the news themselves? no! they weren't ready and didn't want our congratulatory messages. dispatch/paparazzi shared the news first

the people who are happy with "dating" or "marriage" news are no better than the people who are unhappy. happy or unhappy, it's none of anyone's business

jennie and taehyung didn't confirm the rumors. they are not together, end of story

"couples?" mo tak is single. so moon and ha na made up a story for the parents/grandparents in season 1. they haven't talked about themselves yet (thank fuck). you mean ms. chu/mr. choi and pil kwang/gelly? are they canon?

i'll be blunt here. i don't want "romance." i want to sit down and get my senses blown to bits by fight scenes, loud explosions and pulse-pounding car chases

periods are worse than erections 😩 a week before the period starts, i notice cramps, bloating and headaches (pms symptoms). then the period starts. the first 3-4 days, i bleed heavily and feel nauseous after eating. exercising and using the bathroom are accompanied by severe stomach cramps. the blood messes with my sleep schedule. i stay awake and worry about the possibility of it leaking through to my clothes and bedding

i talked to my doctor and she gave me pain relievers that help. my periods don't keep me in bed all day, yayyyy! still, they suck

and it can be more than 3 days. every woman's cycle is different. mine lasts around 5 to 7 days and it sucks

kind of! you're right that testosterone remains elevated for the duration of sleep. with or without bodily movement/stimulation, men would have three to five erections per night. that's a part of their circadian rhythm. it's called morning boner, because they only notice the last sleep-related erection as they wake up

i've got to give it to you, you've certainly mastered the skill of sarcasm. on a scale of 1 to 10, you’re an 11!

i took their comments literally. they are a bl fan, and they have ... a way with words?

it'd be weird to expect something other than gay relationships in bls. bl is the one genre where gay people aren't invisible or side characters

movement in sleep stimulates the penis. without stimulation, the body still releases higher levels of testosterone in the morning. that's enough to wake up with an erection

the emojis sounded sarcastic? i've seen people using them like that in r/kpoopheads