Right? I'm not an empath but I am having the impression that they are treating it as if it is a superpower, despite…
It seems to be exagerated because we see images. It is showed to us. When you are hypersensitive, empath, you feel it, and it's difficult to describe. For exemple, I remember one afternoon, being on a couch with a friend watching tv. She had a huge hangover (me not, I didn't drink), and after a moment, I could feel in my body, the same effect as if I had a hangover... (what a scam ahahah). When I enter in a room, I can tell, if there was a fight before for example, because I will feel anger, disconfort in my heart, my body etc... I know when someone is down, unhappy, sad, because I will feel it too if I am physycally close, or by just watching his moves, his words, his behavior, even if he smiles. I can notice a difference with a phone call too. I feel in my body, heart, with my intuition that omething is wrong for example. When I am happy, I am euphoric, when I am down, I am depressed. I feel every emotions in a very intense way. So it was a weakness for me when I was younger, because it was difficult to handdle with all this emotions (and sometimes, emotions that didn't belong to me) but now, I think I like being like that. :) I don't know if I answered to your question ^^ So in the drama, it seems very intense because it's visual, but yes, I will say it's quite accurate :) :)
so the 8.5 for 4 minutes was for the story and it could have been ten if it had less nc scenes of extra modern…
I will tell you after some of BL sensual scenes I really appreciated because don't get me wrong, I like sensual content in dramas or BL, actually it can increase the emotional impact the project has on viewers. But the balance between an amazing sensual scene and a cheap scene is precarious. And definitely not everybody can pretend giving good sex scenes. The problem is (and we can see it on manhwa or BL on internet, where rape, humiliation, compeling people etc.. TOXIC, sometimes illegal sexuality, is a must) that now more and more BL produces sex content, not because sexuality is part of life and some scenes can increase the emotions of the viewer, like his desire, pain, love etc...and allow us to feel more connected tot he hero, but because BL fans ask for it... and it is a pb for me. We can see how a lot of producers try to give THE sensual scene that will be share everywhere on social medias.. even if it doesn't make any sense or bring nothing into the story (I remember the ridiculous scene in Only Friend where Khaotung and First where playing with the smoke of the cigarette.. lol it burns the eyes, the throat, has someone ever did that with his partner ? For pleasure ? Don't think so..) So even if the sex scene doesn't bring ANYTHING to the story, to the characters, even if music, way of recording is definitely not aesthetical, producers will give sex content because it's the best way to do the buzz on internet... So cheap way of thinking ! ( even if the story behind, the characters, the background, the colorimetry, the ost, the way of acting are not good, well no pb, we have those sex content, and a lot of fans are only craving for that) At the opposite, some BL where SO good that didn't need sexual content (1000 stars, 180 degree = 0 scene but amazing or Not me = very very few sex content, but good quality of sensual scene and one of the best BL ever !) And yes, as a woman, I can help myself to think about the actors. Yes, they agreed to do BL shows because in Thailand except a few straight drama actors, the way to be known is doing BL (even if you are not gay) But the way some producers sell their actors really make me feel sad for them ( I don't remember the name of BL which shows a really different aspecs of BL universe and is very interesting) And i don't even speak about the "games"' actors must do to entertain some desperate male/female fan, on TV show or in their "daily life job". I saw the trailer of this one, and if in a BL show, clearly seeing a d*ck in the mouth of a male actor while s*cking it, is not a problem for you, maybe you are part of the problem too. This is BL, not PORN ! Below, some of BL sex scenes I remember really enjoying * Unknown, taiwanese are really good to produce good BL and scenes were simple but intense without selling cheap sex * Don't say no : 1rst ep, solo scene : we didn't see anything except mostly his face,( like in Your name engraved herein in the shower) taking pleasure. well this is as sexy as seeing all the scene but which would have ruined the mood. Sometimes, showing less but showing some details is the best way to increase desire without being cheap like porn * Bokura no Micro na Shuumatsu, the scene with the water was so unexpected, so realistic, the chemistry was so good, colometry too, etc... this was a really good scene * Kinnporsche, the bread scene was really iconic, even doing some comercial, the scene was iconic. Pete and Vegas scene was really good to, just before the limit, and there were details too, the way he grabbed his hips, him biting his lips, the surrender of Pete, the ost, the colorimetry etc... * Step by step : Man clearly was soooo good with those scene, so natural. We didn't see anything but the way he kissed, the sound lips, the gaze etc... was way more sensual than other scenes * Some scenes of ït Babe, the chemistry was really good, the acting so natural but it was not too much (or I don't remmeber well) * Manner of death .... sadly we will not see other scenes like this but the chemitry, the energy... they looked like tey were hungry of each other.. (just seem, Max is definitely straight) * Kiseki dear to me, the 2nd lead was so good, their story, chemestry etc... * Wandee good day =) so healthy relation, not cheap sensual scene * The warp effect =) I am still waiting for a new story with those two, the few scene between them was so natural and Thor surrending is one of the most beautiful and sexiest thing ever *Moonlight chicken was nice * My stand in was just under the limit, but it was a great BL * We best love * Cutie pie.... ep 8. Really, WOW. Everything was perfect, the amazing OST, the chemistry etc... the only things I regret in this BL are : the 2nd season, useless, and the fact they could have done a really perfect project with this chemistry but the storyline, the background, the emotional and psychological of the character were so undevelopped... sadly. I will not talk about Love in the air or Bed friends or Only friends because those BL could have been good but something for me was missing. I almost didn"t watch any BL in 2024 so I will not talk about the "new ones". But, As I said, not everybody can pretend doing good BL, good sensual scene, good story, good chemistry... etc. And BL is a drama, not porn.
Grow up or watch the Disney channel. Or any of the college series where guys in their late 20s act like 12-year-olds.…
"I'm furious that I didn't see that I was part of the problem since ever" - [Not me - 2021] When you don't see the problem, no offense, but you are generally part of it. Anyway.
They need to STOP selling BL actors like porn stars... this is CHEAP, very CHEAP. In Thailand, the only way to be known is by doing BL, even if you are not gay. And selling them to porn scene like that is just digusting 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Honestly I don't understand this low rate... not the drama of the year but I spend good time watching it, Greg Hsu is still good and the team was fun ! Sometimes (often) having huge expectations brings deception ^^
I like k-drama but korean society show me every year more and more sides I really dislike... Fighting... we, international fans, don't pretend to be perfect and we support you ! I hope you will be fully treated for you depression and insomnia, finally...
Go to Michas recovery pack in the discussion section above. 😘It's an open ending where some see a part of him…
I am much more better thank you, even if my heart still trembles when I see videos of TTEOTM on IG and I cannot watch historical dramas for now ^^ Thank you for the invitation <3 <3
Go to Michas recovery pack in the discussion section above. 😘It's an open ending where some see a part of him…
I am episode 16, not as good as TTEOTM, but it's light and sweet ! And still good chemistry and Luo Yun Xi still divine. I really like when he makes facial expressions. It's rather funny or sexy. And she is the same <3
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For exemple, I remember one afternoon, being on a couch with a friend watching tv. She had a huge hangover (me not, I didn't drink), and after a moment, I could feel in my body, the same effect as if I had a hangover... (what a scam ahahah).
When I enter in a room, I can tell, if there was a fight before for example, because I will feel anger, disconfort in my heart, my body etc...
I know when someone is down, unhappy, sad, because I will feel it too if I am physycally close, or by just watching his moves, his words, his behavior, even if he smiles.
I can notice a difference with a phone call too. I feel in my body, heart, with my intuition that omething is wrong for example.
When I am happy, I am euphoric, when I am down, I am depressed.
I feel every emotions in a very intense way.
So it was a weakness for me when I was younger, because it was difficult to handdle with all this emotions (and sometimes, emotions that didn't belong to me) but now, I think I like being like that. :)
I don't know if I answered to your question ^^
So in the drama, it seems very intense because it's visual, but yes, I will say it's quite accurate :) :)
But the balance between an amazing sensual scene and a cheap scene is precarious. And definitely not everybody can pretend giving good sex scenes.
The problem is (and we can see it on manhwa or BL on internet, where rape, humiliation, compeling people etc.. TOXIC, sometimes illegal sexuality, is a must) that now more and more BL produces sex content, not because sexuality is part of life and some scenes can increase the emotions of the viewer, like his desire, pain, love etc...and allow us to feel more connected tot he hero, but because BL fans ask for it... and it is a pb for me.
We can see how a lot of producers try to give THE sensual scene that will be share everywhere on social medias.. even if it doesn't make any sense or bring nothing into the story (I remember the ridiculous scene in Only Friend where Khaotung and First where playing with the smoke of the cigarette.. lol it burns the eyes, the throat, has someone ever did that with his partner ? For pleasure ? Don't think so..)
So even if the sex scene doesn't bring ANYTHING to the story, to the characters, even if music, way of recording is definitely not aesthetical, producers will give sex content because it's the best way to do the buzz on internet... So cheap way of thinking !
( even if the story behind, the characters, the background, the colorimetry, the ost, the way of acting are not good, well no pb, we have those sex content, and a lot of fans are only craving for that)
At the opposite, some BL where SO good that didn't need sexual content (1000 stars, 180 degree = 0 scene but amazing or Not me = very very few sex content, but good quality of sensual scene and one of the best BL ever !)
And yes, as a woman, I can help myself to think about the actors.
Yes, they agreed to do BL shows because in Thailand except a few straight drama actors, the way to be known is doing BL (even if you are not gay)
But the way some producers sell their actors really make me feel sad for them ( I don't remember the name of BL which shows a really different aspecs of BL universe and is very interesting)
And i don't even speak about the "games"' actors must do to entertain some desperate male/female fan, on TV show or in their "daily life job".
I saw the trailer of this one, and if in a BL show, clearly seeing a d*ck in the mouth of a male actor while s*cking it, is not a problem for you, maybe you are part of the problem too.
This is BL, not PORN !
Below, some of BL sex scenes I remember really enjoying
* Unknown, taiwanese are really good to produce good BL and scenes were simple but intense without selling cheap sex
* Don't say no : 1rst ep, solo scene : we didn't see anything except mostly his face,( like in Your name engraved herein in the shower) taking pleasure. well this is as sexy as seeing all the scene but which would have ruined the mood. Sometimes, showing less but showing some details is the best way to increase desire without being cheap like porn
* Bokura no Micro na Shuumatsu, the scene with the water was so unexpected, so realistic, the chemistry was so good, colometry too, etc... this was a really good scene
* Kinnporsche, the bread scene was really iconic, even doing some comercial, the scene was iconic. Pete and Vegas scene was really good to, just before the limit, and there were details too, the way he grabbed his hips, him biting his lips, the surrender of Pete, the ost, the colorimetry etc...
* Step by step : Man clearly was soooo good with those scene, so natural. We didn't see anything but the way he kissed, the sound lips, the gaze etc... was way more sensual than other scenes
* Some scenes of ït Babe, the chemistry was really good, the acting so natural but it was not too much (or I don't remmeber well)
* Manner of death .... sadly we will not see other scenes like this but the chemitry, the energy... they looked like tey were hungry of each other.. (just seem, Max is definitely straight)
* Kiseki dear to me, the 2nd lead was so good, their story, chemestry etc...
* Wandee good day =) so healthy relation, not cheap sensual scene
* The warp effect =) I am still waiting for a new story with those two, the few scene between them was so natural and Thor surrending is one of the most beautiful and sexiest thing ever
*Moonlight chicken was nice
* My stand in was just under the limit, but it was a great BL
* We best love
* Cutie pie.... ep 8. Really, WOW. Everything was perfect, the amazing OST, the chemistry etc... the only things I regret in this BL are : the 2nd season, useless, and the fact they could have done a really perfect project with this chemistry but the storyline, the background, the emotional and psychological of the character were so undevelopped... sadly.
I will not talk about Love in the air or Bed friends or Only friends because those BL could have been good but something for me was missing.
I almost didn"t watch any BL in 2024 so I will not talk about the "new ones".
But, As I said, not everybody can pretend doing good BL, good sensual scene, good story, good chemistry... etc.
And BL is a drama, not porn.
When you don't see the problem, no offense, but you are generally part of it.
Anyway.
Sometimes (often) having huge expectations brings deception ^^
Fighting... we, international fans, don't pretend to be perfect and we support you !
I hope you will be fully treated for you depression and insomnia, finally...
Thank you for the invitation <3 <3
And she is the same <3