guys, I don’t think many of you grasp that just understand the source of her hatred was enough of a resolution…
when a mother lose a child unjustly, she will go to extremely length to get that justice back, because it’s the only thing she could do for her child.
so just telling him: you killed our son isn’t enough. especially before he gained an understanding of what it’s truly meant to be a mortal! without that 6yrs of being a mortal, if she has told him, he would just say: it wasnt mean to be, we can have another. n because she understands BJS so well, she needs to go through this plan.
her goal is for him to feel her pain, remember what she said: when it comes to pain, it’s not about the duration, but the intensity!
so no, just telling him n communicating isn’t going to cut it to mend a broken mother’s heart, sadly! 😮💨
guys, I don’t think many of you grasp that just understand the source of her hatred was enough of a resolution for HRY. more on spoiler (pls only read if u have caught up)
I just had a thought, communication is not the solution to everything if you have a partner, it also comes with…
lol, let’s face it, even if he knows the truth, with his view point isn’t changing, he will not feel the pain that she felt. hence this elaborate plan. she doesn’t need him to understand her pain, she needs him to feel her pain, n much worse 🫤 that woman is out for blood (n me screaming for BL for picking this role lol). cant wait for more 🤣🤣🤣
man, Joseph really nailed that bitter-I-pity-myself-sour face 🤣 he acted so well as BJS. I just love seeing that face of him, the face of understanding and accepting his wife is just gunning for his life, yet sad and laughing at his own pitifulness 😩poor BJS! kudo for BL for taking a “not perfect” character. oh she is going to get so much hates 😑 but I’m loving that smile of her 🤣 n omg the sad face in the trailer for 21… she has such a pretty sad face. gj, my divorced couple 🤣
At the end of epi 18, I saw them holding hands strolling at the market, I was like awww so sweet they reconciled.…
lol, she is laying that sweet trap for him. easier to lure them in with sweet than with poison! I was surprised by that handheld, too. but then I also was screaming at every potential traps I saw from 15-18! 🤦♀️so I’m like your wife is really making sure she’s getting you this time 😮💨
1- the love tribulation: I don’t know whether it’s this world setting or if it’s because they were not meant…
it is not yet revealed. it’ll be after ep20 I think. but it’s the main reason for her hatred for him. we are peeling back to that moment lol. that’s why there are foreshadowing in ep15-18. the Lin family: single mom raising a child. the cultivator told the story of a single mom raising a child again. all point towards the main story will be a single mom raising a child
1- the love tribulation: I don’t know whether it’s this world setting or if it’s because they were not meant…
2. she blamed him for taking her power away. she doesn’t blame the mortal for not understanding or accept there is good god/fairy, when all they have experienced so far is hardships. their prayers have fallen on deaf ears. with power, she would be able to save their son, but she couldn’t, n her son die. n he’s as the father n the person who took away her power is therefore at fault. I think she might have prayed for him to come n rescue them but he didn’t come, hence why she put it squarely on him
Finally catching up with the drama and even though I’m enjoying it. I have some question and confusion. 1. I…
1- the love tribulation: I don’t know whether it’s this world setting or if it’s because they were not meant to be doing it. in BJS’s words, they did this behind the heaven’s back, the heaven hasn’t agreed to let them do this lol. sooo they might not do it right or know how to do it right 🤣🤣🤣 this is why I kinda dislike how everyone is so quick on every xianxia is about the 3 lives 😑🤦♀️ in MM, it’s actually just 2. the past lives n the present life. in TTEOTM, it’s just one -.- MingYe n SangJiu’s dream arc is not their lives 🙄🤦♀️. only LSS experience 3 different lives, TTJ only experience 2. in feud, again, 1 life. this life spans from the time they were created as a counter of each other. sure, they live a mortal life, but in no part of their life, they forgot who they are (or live as a separate life as a new identity, completely unaware of their past).
2. this is not yet shown but (I’ll put this in the next comment so I can put it under spoiler)
3. this drama would be finished in 5eps if she would just answer him why. lol, even irl ppl don’t just answer straight away 😅 n most importantly, she has so much angers n she needed him to feel her pains. just answer n saying u killed our son would not be enough. the pain he feels, which he won’t feel, as his humanity isn’t there yet, will be minimum. he probably just said: well, it’s his time 🙄 (🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣)
Uhm, sure she is constantly trying to off him, but I’m not sure if this is called toxic lol. BJS has never hurt…
@Balance7 lawl, maybe I have seen too many xianxia, or maybe going in I know this isn’t going to be a healthy relationship. but so far, apart from her trying to kill him, he’s pretty green 😅n yes, I’m watching, n I saw his struggling to get a reason out of his wife lol 🤣 I don’t label anything n everything toxic, once u clump things like that, you don’t appreciate the different degree of everything. life is multifacets, not just black or white, toxic or non toxic
Uhm, sure she is constantly trying to off him, but I’m not sure if this is called toxic lol. BJS has never hurt…
@Playset9656 lol, because I don’t take it with the western lense lawl. anyway, in xianxia, if u just choking, n don’t internally injure someone, it’s hardly hurting 😅for me, actually stabbing, destroying internally are more toxic than just choking lol.
yup… the sinister of it! giving him friends then take it away. giving him a child then take it away! giving him hope that their relationship is on the mend… oh boy, if only he knows…
the whole time I was watching 15-18: I was screaming omg, trap! your wife is setting u up for failures 😖😖😖 my poor BJS! but there was time when HRY was swayed lol 🫣
so just telling him: you killed our son isn’t enough. especially before he gained an understanding of what it’s truly meant to be a mortal! without that 6yrs of being a mortal, if she has told him, he would just say: it wasnt mean to be, we can have another. n because she understands BJS so well, she needs to go through this plan.
her goal is for him to feel her pain, remember what she said: when it comes to pain, it’s not about the duration, but the intensity!
so no, just telling him n communicating isn’t going to cut it to mend a broken mother’s heart, sadly! 😮💨
2. this is not yet shown but (I’ll put this in the next comment so I can put it under spoiler)
3. this drama would be finished in 5eps if she would just answer him why. lol, even irl ppl don’t just answer straight away 😅 n most importantly, she has so much angers n she needed him to feel her pains. just answer n saying u killed our son would not be enough. the pain he feels, which he won’t feel, as his humanity isn’t there yet, will be minimum. he probably just said: well, it’s his time 🙄 (🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣)
the whole time I was watching 15-18: I was screaming omg, trap! your wife is setting u up for failures 😖😖😖 my poor BJS! but there was time when HRY was swayed lol 🫣