Dreamy

Ep 11 had me bawled non stop 😂
Even my tears keep dropping as a type this 🙈
Eun Woo has really grown as an actor, such stellar acting, my heart hurts for him 😭🤧

Still it's even too hard for her to say her sorry for what he's been through, after knowing his identity she never approach him first to show her genuine care & regret for his suffering, she choose to neglect his & focus on her entitle feelings. Instead she give him a threat for his threat, eye for an eye. She doesn't feel sorry just like his father too.
I believe things will be different if she show him her genuine care, SY is alr even feel conflicting w/out it.

There's a lot of handsome people out there w/ high degree scholarship that's hard to get a job, let alone a drop out, a good career enough to pay his mother's hospital bill doesn't build in one night & even it's never guaranteed, he can't afford to make a gambling out of his mother's life, just saying.
Hospital bills is no joke, most people can be overwhelmed by it even those who has a stable good job. One day hospital exp can cost you 1 month salary (depends on the meds, room & tools being used).

She never said sorry nor expressing it to him though, she keep giving him this "grand advice of her" but never want to approach him & his family at the first place if she doesn't fall for his trick, so for that he know, no she doesn't feel sorry to his family. Her advice doesn't matter & evenmore triggering to him since basically he doesn't have that much choice the moment she murdered his father.

Not heavy for me, it does dealing w/ tragedy but for me it's more intriguing to watch seeing some questionable choice the main leads make that making them grey characters but also relatable, rather than black and white characters we used to have as main leads

Same goes w/ Soo Hyun, shdn't Soo Hyun feel any sense of remorse/sorry that she murdered his father & ruined the kid's life? She may not feel remorse for his father, but she shd feel sorry for his family, wife and kid who's innocent.
His catalyst for revenge isn't due to she murdered his father but more because she doesn't show/ feel any kind of remorse (even to his fam) & persist that murdering his father is justified, which contradicting to her own reason to hv her revenge at the first place. Now she did the same thing to what ML's father did, show no remorse for killing ppl.

Yep but I blame the source of the problem which's her hubby n lil' sis for that. Seon Yul only told her the truth.

It's a ticking bomb, she's bound to know it eventually, better know it now than later, imagine to keep your sissy close beside you & cherish her as she flirt with your hubby. To me SY revenge works in favour for her than harming her.

But when did she talk to him calmly? When she gave him a whole lecture about not having a rough life? Or when she gave him the exact same threat for not messing with her fam? She's never being sorry nor expressing her sorry for his rough life he's been through. He barely hv that much choice after loosing both parent. She need to get down from her high horse, and settle with him in a more humane, sincere approach & show her care more than keep giving him this all mighty advise of hers in which she herself failed to do so.

THIS!!! SH & SY is equally being pained but just as much as SY didn't acknowledge hers, she did the same. And just like how desperate she is for getting a simple apologize from his dad, which she didn't get, she didn't give it to SY either, it's hypocritical indeed, his place is similar to hers yet she didn't recognize nor acknowledge his.

My face is all messed up from all the crying seeing Seon Yul's pain, Eun Woo did such a great job & nailed his scene H to T, I swear if anyone came w/ bad acting comment even after seeing it, sorry but seems it's your hatred & pettiness deluded your eyes & do the talking.

Your stupid revenge, think straight
What?!
She need to stop belittling his suffering & misery
As if she handled it better when it's far from it.
It's ironic that she killed a person due to all those bad words she received yet she did the same thing.
Her intention is good but her choice of words don't.

Lol, but why would ppl who's planning his revenge & still blinded by hatred will hv the will to came forward & understand his enemy's pov? Would that even work w/ SH's before? No. If there's anyone who shd approach first, it shd be SH, given she already did her revenge. But the way she's coping with the news (about SY) isn't any better than SY. She has no plan on meeting the kid whose father she killed & intent doing so, else if SY didn't force her to.
She only think about herself & her grieve, while neglect the kid's coz she was afraid & didn't want to see the aftermath of her revenge.
I believe things would be different if SH came to him first w/ good intention & show her sincere feelings being sorry, hence SY keep asking her, do you want to see the kid which she avoid repeatedly

If that happens then she'll become the worse between the two, even more than the father, coz at least he didn't kill her son intentionally, we're not even sure if he did kill her son, while atm she already kill a person intentionally

But why Seon Yul had to understand Soo Hyun's pov when she gave him 0 reason to do that the moment she's feeling entitled to do her revenge as if she's the only one feeling miserable, she has no regret on killing his father, she doesn't feel ashame & never apologize for messing up his life, yet has the nerve to say don't mess w/ her family as her first response.
Hence, Seon Yul reaction is the common response bitter people would give, "Don't mess w/ her fam? Then don't mess w/ his either."
And honestly, SH shd see SY's pov too & approach him more w/ sincerity, both need to find their middle ground, not only SY's, esp when she's the older one between the two.

Idg why people would think SH's revenge is justified cause her oppose party didn't regret his deed
While SY is not when just like SH's oppose party did, SH also never regret her deed & even spesifically mentioned she'll do that again & *correct me if I'm wrong, but I never heard her sincerely apologizing to SY for getting his life ruined as her collateral damage.
Revenge goes both way, cause & repercussion.
SY is broken, just like SH.
You see how tormented his face, even when he achieve his goals ruining her family.
He just needed more time to amend his heart & mind, just like SH when she's in prison trying to get back her sanity.

"When you begin a journey of revenge, start by digging two graves: one for your enemy, and one for yourself."

These goes for both SH & SY.
You'll never know what kind of price you'll be paying for your revenge.
For SH, it's SY life taken as collateral damage of her revenge.
And to me the one who live in misery is the one who suffer the most than those who dies, hence SY's way of revenge is understandable to me, but I believe when the case came to light (for who the real perpetrator is) these two broken soul will work together & oh how it'll be satisfying to see.

Given how he react & show his frustation throwing things back at his home, then yes, he's def feeling it despite trying so hard to be against it.

If one accuse your own loving parents for something outrageous I believe every child's first instinct would think the other person is the crazy one.
Esp if that person who kill your parent have no remorse & stated she will do that again unregretly.
Remember: unlike viewers, he never witness any of the thing his parent said to SH after the court, but witness what happens in court when he took a deep bow & apologized to her wholeheartedly.
Add every misery you can think of, happens to you one after another, following it right after.
So no, his revenge is just as valid as Soo Hyun's.
Both of their revenge are not justifiable but BOTH UNDERSTANDABLE.

Who gives Soo Hyun's the right to have her revenge but not the other person?
He may or may not took one life deliberately or not (we might figure it out later)
She took one life deliberately
Well, idt what the child did is worse than what SH's did, no where from it.
There'll be no smoke if there's no fire.
He'll hv nothing if they don't give him the amunition.
Blame the one who cheat, not the one who reveal the truth.
It's better to be laid out in the open earlier than later.

Ikr haha, like what gives SH the right to have her revenge while SY doesn't? SY's life wouldn't be this messed up if SH didn't kill his father, she didn't even regret murdering his father, the exact same words that triggers her revenge, hence SY has the right to have his revenge just like SH, regardless neither of it was justified but both understandable from their POV