He says really hurtful things. He can’t help himself. LMFAO! Other than that, he is being really good to her. She on their other hand is so committed to hiding their relationship and then gets mad when he does what people who hide their relationship do. You can not suddenly think about a thing and expect your partner to do a 360 adjustment.
I honestly think the problem is BOTH of them, not just the FL. Yes, she prioritises her career and wants the relationship hidden, but given their workplace policies, I actually understand her. She works in an environment where dating a superior can create accusations of favouritism and potentially jeopardise her career. She doesn’t want anyone thinking she got her position or her success because she’s sleeping with her boss. She genuinely wants to succeed on her own merits, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
The problem is that they both want more but neither wants to be the one who looks like the fool. They love each other, but they’re both guarded, constantly assuming what the other person is thinking instead of actually communicating it.
And honestly, his harsh way of speaking doesn’t exactly make it easy for her to be 100% vulnerable with him. He wants to be the first person she runs to, but he hasn’t really created that emotional safety. So when things happen, like the assault, it’s not surprising that she tells other people first.
They’re BOTH flawed. She withholds, he withholds; she assumes, he assumes. Nobody wants to put their walls down first, and that’s what makes their relationship so frustrating. 😭
People have started taking sides but the upside of this drama is that both are at fault. Many attack SZT and the…
Exactly. The ML has even be far more open to her than she is TBH. Her thoughts never leaves her head. I get that too because he just opens his mouth and says anything without thinking it through.
Also, it is good they are taking a break. He needs to pursue are correctly. I don’t even think they have been on dates. It is all indoors romance. They need to break up and start afresh. It is needed.
I feel like in their relationship, there is no wrong and right. All their thoughts are valid. The problem is that neither of them have clearly expressed how they genuinely want their relationship to be.
Episode 29 is stressing me out. I hate it when someone keeps secret because they think by doing so they are protecting their partner. Just tell them the truth and give the chance to my informed choices. I hope it doesn’t stretch because it is irritating me.
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You misunderstood me. Prior to that post and comment, I did not notice it but I realised that since I read that posts/comments I have been paying attention to it consciously and unconsciously…. So I am now wishing that I really didn’t see those comments
Fan Yake’s dynamic with Fu Tingyun is so frustrating to watch. Tingyun was a genuine friend to her, yet Yake let envy turn her into the villain. Now she’s married with a child, literally living the life she betrayed her best friend to get, and she’s still obsessed with proving she’s better than Tingyun? It’s crazy how aggressors in dramas (and real life) project their insecurities onto the victim even after winning. She got what she wanted, she needs to give it a rest and leave Tingyun alone.
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The problem is that they both want more but neither wants to be the one who looks like the fool. They love each other, but they’re both guarded, constantly assuming what the other person is thinking instead of actually communicating it.
And honestly, his harsh way of speaking doesn’t exactly make it easy for her to be 100% vulnerable with him. He wants to be the first person she runs to, but he hasn’t really created that emotional safety. So when things happen, like the assault, it’s not surprising that she tells other people first.
They’re BOTH flawed. She withholds, he withholds; she assumes, he assumes. Nobody wants to put their walls down first, and that’s what makes their relationship so frustrating. 😭
Butterflies have overtaken my stomach. I am gasping for breath.
Fan Yake’s dynamic with Fu Tingyun is so frustrating to watch. Tingyun was a genuine friend to her, yet Yake let envy turn her into the villain. Now she’s married with a child, literally living the life she betrayed her best friend to get, and she’s still obsessed with proving she’s better than Tingyun? It’s crazy how aggressors in dramas (and real life) project their insecurities onto the victim even after winning. She got what she wanted, she needs to give it a rest and leave Tingyun alone.