So far, I am enjoying this drama really, really well! But I need to drop a quick commentary regarding the ML going to the emperor to get a decree to marry the FL. Before anyone comes for me, this doesn't mean I hate him. I know people love to say "that's how things were done in that era," but that doesn't mean we can't analyze it with critical eyes today. And please, don't confuse this with traditional arranged marriages set up by parents—this is completely different. With family arrangements, everyone understands the social expectations, but a guy unilaterally using absolute power to secure an unchallengeable royal order over a girl’s head is a whole different level of personal force. I know a lot of fans argue that he did it out of protection, and while safety may have played a part, a huge portion of it was driven by pure selfishness. He wanted her, he wanted to ensure no one else stood a chance, and he wanted her regardless of what she actually thought or felt. They hadn't even established mutual affection yet! Even if your intentions are partly protective, making a life-altering decision for someone without getting their consent first is wrong. Going over her head to secure an inescapable imperial decree completely takes away her choice and guarantees he gets what he wants. I'm accepting it because it's a historical drama, but in modern times, forcing an inescapable union on someone without consent is completely toxic and boundary-crossing.
well....this is a turning point in the show. Starting to treat us as the audience and the MC characters as fools.…
I feel like with the duke. He already has a way of doing things. He is going to stick with it because it always works. The idea is not to get him to fall in love with his daughter. The idea is to ruin the FL’s image so that she would never be a marriage prospect. Plus, the lives of commoners worth nothing to this people
Xiu Wan was at fault as well. It would never be acceptable for any unmarried woman to be alone with a man and…
However you spin it, it was not okay, and it will never be okay for women to lose their lives because they got involved with men. How much more, girls who are not yet adults. It is a cruel way for women to live. The grandfather’s deposition was emotionless. Too quick to suggest death before even exploring more options. At the end of the day, it is the men that benefits because even the other Lin women they claim to protect would be killed immediately if they make a mistake. The men never get killed for flimsy reasons.
ML has feelings for XLX because she is intelligent and resourceful but not towards Yuchan who has been with family…
You can’t like very intelligent people you meet romantically. He was already married when Yuchan was serving him. Then she got married, her husband died and she returned. He may not want to marry a widow.
OMG!!! Women's lives were worth nothing in this era. Almost every solution to protecting a family, which is a man’s legacy btw, is death. I feel bad for the 2nd sister. What a disgusting grandfather. Luckily, ML and the 3rd sister were able to save her.
Before anyone comes for me, this doesn't mean I hate him. I know people love to say "that's how things were done in that era," but that doesn't mean we can't analyze it with critical eyes today. And please, don't confuse this with traditional arranged marriages set up by parents—this is completely different. With family arrangements, everyone understands the social expectations, but a guy unilaterally using absolute power to secure an unchallengeable royal order over a girl’s head is a whole different level of personal force.
I know a lot of fans argue that he did it out of protection, and while safety may have played a part, a huge portion of it was driven by pure selfishness. He wanted her, he wanted to ensure no one else stood a chance, and he wanted her regardless of what she actually thought or felt. They hadn't even established mutual affection yet! Even if your intentions are partly protective, making a life-altering decision for someone without getting their consent first is wrong. Going over her head to secure an inescapable imperial decree completely takes away her choice and guarantees he gets what he wants.
I'm accepting it because it's a historical drama, but in modern times, forcing an inescapable union on someone without consent is completely toxic and boundary-crossing.