yeah I found it weird as well that he was harsh in his words towards her! I remember in the og version he was…
Yeah, it’s not like she wouldn’t understand. Seoul is not on a different continent. Maybe she would follow as well.
I’m starting to feel sorry for the guy that likes her. He ll stay beside her, only to get overlooked by these guys who didn’t consider her emotions. :(
Ahhhhh, the only thing I hate in dramas is when they over exaggerate. Thats such a bad cliche!
Just because someone is good at basketball, it doesn’t mean they need to go to the US. Or that they would be great there.
Just because you might go separate ways while studying doesn’t mean you can’t keep in touch. Or that you need to be rude while doing so.
I just don’t understand the logic behind “I will crush you now, so you can forget me. I don’t want you to be hurt, so I will smash you. But then one day I will pretend like nothing happened and expect you to go back to the way we were.. even though I broke you so you could forget it!”
Like.. huh?
It’s not against the show, I like the story so far.. but I just wonder what goes through the writers minds when they do scripts. -.-
He is sick. To say something like that to a person suffering from a disorder? Not only selfish, but utterly disgusting.
Thank you for the lovely feedback! I am more than happy to be a robot than mise.. human like you. :)
All I hope that those amazing emotions won’t make others suffer, so please make sure to read about “consent” and “why is it bad to gaslight people”. Otherwise, you might end up legally charged.
P.s. EH is a human with emotions as well. Why do you disregard her feelings if you have such a deep understanding of them?
What you think is not human, but selfish and narrow minded mindset.
Ohhhh good!I was going insane as no one even considered reporting KJY to police. -.-The dude was openly going…
To make myself clear:
I don’t ship anyone with her. All three of them need help.
1. She has the DID. 2. HO has no confidence, yet there is the attachment issu. 3. KJY became his brother, so he thinks it’s ok for others to lose themselves. He is kind of in a DID situation himself.
So I assume they could be in an open relationship in one of facilities to make all of you happy. The one who still think this is about a romance xD
He is still better than pathetic and toxic ml who caused this disorder in the first place it could've been hard…
I agree that HO wasn’t a better choice. What she needs is a medical professional and not a boyfriend.
The only thing that was a bit more suitable due to the situation is that HO asked who she is first. He tried to be sensible and bring her to the doctor.
And that’s where it should have ended.
He needs a help himself, so I don’t ship them.
The DID was caused by the sister’s disappearance and their break up, but you can’t blame either one of them. It just happens when an individual is in too much of pain.
Especially as she blames herself for the sister’s disappearance. Their break up only pushed her further, but it wasn’t intentional.
However KJY’s repeated attempts of turning her to Hyeri were really dangerous.
As I say, luckily this is a show.. but the DID is seriously serious state and any push towards other personalities is extremely dangerous!
So my comment is not romance wise, just hoping that people won’t be easily manipulated in their lives. :(
I was going insane as no one even considered reporting KJY to police. -.-
The dude was openly going around saying he dated a non existent persona and how he wants her to stay that way. When she was in an emotional wreck, instead of letting her go to the psychiatrist, he constantly repeated the name of her second persona.
If this wasn’t a TV show, it could’ve triggered her and put her in a way worse mental state.
This was both grooming and gaslighting, all covered by a pretty face. So girls were swooning. But if he was less attractive, he would be the most hated character.
I’m starting to feel sorry for the guy that likes her. He ll stay beside her, only to get overlooked by these guys who didn’t consider her emotions. :(
Ahh them writers haha
Just because someone is good at basketball, it doesn’t mean they need to go to the US. Or that they would be great there.
Just because you might go separate ways while studying doesn’t mean you can’t keep in touch. Or that you need to be rude while doing so.
I just don’t understand the logic behind “I will crush you now, so you can forget me. I don’t want you to be hurt, so I will smash you. But then one day I will pretend like nothing happened and expect you to go back to the way we were.. even though I broke you so you could forget it!”
Like.. huh?
It’s not against the show, I like the story so far.. but I just wonder what goes through the writers minds when they do scripts. -.-
All I hope that those amazing emotions won’t make others suffer, so please make sure to read about “consent” and “why is it bad to gaslight people”. Otherwise, you might end up legally charged.
P.s. EH is a human with emotions as well. Why do you disregard her feelings if you have such a deep understanding of them?
What you think is not human, but selfish and narrow minded mindset.
I hope it helps! :)
I m trying to hold on as I love the cast, but the story itself is a headache :(
But now he is there blackmailing her. Ughhh..
Also how can she be his heir, when he is basically immortal?
Ugh I hate the ML now. Bcs of people like him, I don’t want to date :(
I don’t ship anyone with her. All three of them need help.
1. She has the DID.
2. HO has no confidence, yet there is the attachment issu.
3. KJY became his brother, so he thinks it’s ok for others to lose themselves. He is kind of in a DID situation himself.
So I assume they could be in an open relationship in one of facilities to make all of you happy. The one who still think this is about a romance xD
The only thing that was a bit more suitable due to the situation is that HO asked who she is first. He tried to be sensible and bring her to the doctor.
And that’s where it should have ended.
He needs a help himself, so I don’t ship them.
The DID was caused by the sister’s disappearance and their break up, but you can’t blame either one of them. It just happens when an individual is in too much of pain.
Especially as she blames herself for the sister’s disappearance. Their break up only pushed her further, but it wasn’t intentional.
However KJY’s repeated attempts of turning her to Hyeri were really dangerous.
As I say, luckily this is a show.. but the DID is seriously serious state and any push towards other personalities is extremely dangerous!
So my comment is not romance wise, just hoping that people won’t be easily manipulated in their lives. :(
He repeatedly called her by that name and told her to bring her back. Even though Hyeri was never a real person (the one he met).
He said he would like her that way and to go back to that condition. Clearly dictating what he wants and thinks she should be.
I am now worried about your personal safety as you seem easily manipulated:S
Let us know if you need help!
I was going insane as no one even considered reporting KJY to police. -.-
The dude was openly going around saying he dated a non existent persona and how he wants her to stay that way. When she was in an emotional wreck, instead of letting her go to the psychiatrist, he constantly repeated the name of her second persona.
If this wasn’t a TV show, it could’ve triggered her and put her in a way worse mental state.
This was both grooming and gaslighting, all covered by a pretty face. So girls were swooning. But if he was less attractive, he would be the most hated character.
Ugh…
So by discussing it more openly, I hope these shows will encourage them to fight back and protect themselves and their kids.
As kids will be hurt regardless, but still maybe less if they don’t witness a domestic abuse :(
He spent years next to her when it was the hardest and still tried to understand her when she didn’t return her emotions back.
But ofc, it’s always her who is the victim, despite having a power of choice in both situations. :)
If someone leaves you because they were depressed and lonely, you don’t stick.
Especially if you heard they might be finally moving on.
Like dude, don’t pack your ego as “I did it for you”.