FrankieD

I miss the bromance that could have been 🥲

This is not bromance. A kiss was needed. Not a tongue kiss but a romantic kiss.

Exactly. They sent him away because his world had revolved around Qian for so long. They feel he is confused and when he goes abroad and meets other people he might come to his senses and fall out of love with
Qian. Sending him abroad was the right thing cos if he comes back and still loves Qian then Qian can be sure that this is true love and not love caused by proximity.

I salute you. You understand this drama very well.

Exactly. Sanpang knows this situation is not easy. How will outsiders who have thought Yuan is Qian’s brother feels seeing them as a couple. Also Qian has gone through hardships all his life and is always under stress and now he has to deal with his gay younger brother who is in love with him. Life would be much easier if Yuan loved someone else and that is where Sanpang is coming from.

I love your comments cos you actually understand this drama and the characters. You don’t see the world through rose colored glasses. Sanpang is part of the family. He and Qian watched Yuan grow up. He has been Qian’s little brother for so long they have even forgotten he is not blood related. How else is Sanpang and Qian supposed to react to Yuan saying he likes Qian romantically?. I love this drama but let us be realistic. If this happened in real life it would be seen as incestous even though there is no blood relation. Their reaction to the news was very realistic.

Sanpang kept saying you can’t love him because he is Wei Qian. Basically saying in summary HE IS YOUR ELDER BROTHER.

Exactly. This drama has portrayed Qian as not interested in romance with females and no attraction to males. So this would be a case of i am not gay i just love you.

Exactly! Right now he only loves Yuan as his brother. He sees him as a younger brother so right now to him Yuan’s confession is insane. Of course when Yuan comes back he might start to see him as a male not a brother but at the moment Qian doesn’t love him romantically.

This comment!! Qian and Sanpang are not homophobic. They have accepted Yuan’s sexuality. What they are finding it hard to grasp is that the one he loves is Qian and that’s because for so long he has been Qian’s little brother. Also, the issue is yet to be resolved so they can’t tell Lili the reason for the conflict.

I love the changes they made in this drama. It is proving to be a good adaptation of the novel.

I love how Taiwan bls are so comfortable with intimacy and good lip action. Korean bls will use kpop idols who give us fish kisses or no kisses.

Yes. Now that you say it that’s what probably came to their mind lol. 😂

😮 I can’t wait to see this. Qian sees him as a kid so him being flirty and more direct can help to correct that impression. But i doubt he will be happy if Qian is happy with someone else. He will probably pretend to be be happy so Qian doesn’t feel bad.

Hmm. It’s hard. The issue is perception. For so long Qian and Sanpang see Yuan as Qian’s brother. That identity is stuck in their mind. To Sanpang, Yuan saying he is in love with Qian is probably a sign of mental illness 😂

It is a happy ending

From the trailer, he will come back hotter, alpha and more mature but his love will also be there perhaps even stronger.

Sanpang is Qian’s close friend, a part of the family. He told Qian in the office that Yuan is also his little brother. He watched Yuan and Lili grow up. He seemed to be against Yuan’s love because he knows Qian has been stressed all his life. This is like piling up more stress for him. Imagine a child you adopted as a brother saying they are in love with you romantically how is Qian supposed to take that. He is worried for Qian’s mental health.

I love your analysis. There is a mental barrier Qian has to overcome. He still sees Yuan as his brother to the extent that he doesn’t even remember they are not blood brothers. Distance is the best for both of them for now. And if Yuan comes back and still loves him, Qian will most likely realize his love is not childish admiration but real love. I love them both.

😂😂 Maybe he has a naturally weak constitution.

Qian’s reaction is very realistic. He is probably blaming himself thinking he didn’t do a good job raising Yuan that’s why he turned out that way. He doesn’t know how to handle Yuan’s feelings right now so he just hides away.

From the trailer when Yuan comes back his hair is parted in the middle. He looks hotter, more confident and is totally irresistible. Can’t wait for when Qian starts loving him the same way.😍