Kinara

YEP that ‘FL privilege’ I am seeing in these recent dramas has been getting on my nerves. And they act as though everything is the ML’s fault. How can that be when you need 2 hands to clap?

Yeah again we had a very wishy washy FL . She was very good at making assumptions and coming to conclusions .

I think somewhere around 22-24

Well the FL is not the same as what was in high school. She lost her spirit after all that trauma went through. It looks like she lost her self confidence and spark. And she has unresolved issues with the ML.

She is a really good actress. We really hated her in all her negative roles :)

These are such personal choices

All of this is personal choice . It all depends on an individual’s expectations of a marriage and how important loyalty and honesty is important to the couple involved. So just making some blanket statements is not right

Yes if I were in the wife’s position i would not make him take care of me . Plus I would make him leave me. In this case it looked like it was the coach’s choice to take care of the wife and he was very happy when he was applauded for it and given awards etc. and then what - he went and had an affair with a student- a clandestine one that too- and against the rules. And he was helpless??? Give me a break. No matter what the reason is if I were in the wife’s shoes I would not forgive an affair . Also if I were the wife - I probably would refuse treatment and will not want to be kept alive . That is my personal choice always. But a lot of people don’t like to do that .

Yes it is difficult for caregivers but it is also difficul for the people who need care. They are even more helpless. This kind of stuff takes a toll both on the patients and caregivers . The caregivers can think about their happiness and do stuff - but an affair is a big no.

I really like the ML’s character - He is a very steadfast person. The FL is eccentric from the beginning but I think the ‘break up’ really did a number on her. Also it was clear that the SFL interfered with their relationship when they were dating in high school and there was a misunderstanding. But I don’t think they should have made the FL the way she was later in life. Her older self seems to be someone what has no self confidence and is kind of dead- she lost all her spirit. But the ML also seems to have lost a part of himself after he lost her. Yeah and the FL is immature

I will never sympathize with an affair no matter what the circumstances are. And in this case she was ill. It must have hurt her a lot. So do not discount her feelings. It must have hurt a lot more because she was an invalid. So I will not sympathize with the coach or Deng Man.

I am in the States too! Happy New Year 🎊🎈🎈🥂

Just started Love your Enemy- liking it so far- on episode 3. I am also watching when the phone rings

Yeah I find the SFL annoying - she is always putting the FL down. She is also a preying mantis- it does not help. And the SML is like this kid stalker 🤮. Can’t stand him

I just started this and it is hilarious! On episode 2

Well YZ provoked him enough to show his true self. It was needed to unveil him

It’s titled ‘ love song in winter ‘ and the really cold winter is her 😂

Well he has gone beyond that point of no return now. It’s sad to see how much WP has manipulated Yu Bofeng. Right now he is ready to be WP’s weapon and hates both JCY and YZ. I think WP hit all his vulnerabilities beautifully. He is WP’s puppet now from head to toe

It’s sad that JCY learns about his mom in this way. Well they are on to WP now.

No worries! I am really puzzled as to why they created the FL this way. There is so much disconnect between the leads. It’s like someone said - they are in a fish bowl but there is a thin glass wall between them and Thea are just swimming in their space . If you know what I mean. Communication between them is still not that great