Those 2 brothers are sick! Not even fun to watch in a red flag kind of way. They're just constantly humiliating and assaulting women... oof these last 2 episodes were hard to get through.
I completely understand that people don't like ZX, that's your right, and given his behavior, it's understandable…
....All he had to do was communicate that to her. "Hey NXG, I do like you. I just don't think I'm ready for a relationship right now. Can you give me some time?" NXG was able to communicate her feelings perfectly when LY confessed to her. She deserves someone who gives her the same consideration.
What use is it to put your love life on hold, if the person you want has no idea that you are doing that or why you are doing that or when you plan to stop doing that?
The only thing he lost is NXG. He has a good job and is making decent money. He also has his own family. He could've had a girlfriend like at least 3 times now and he fumbled all 3 of them with his own actions and decisions. He feels bad enough for himself, I don't think he needs anyone else to feel bad for him lol.
It’s funny because if NXG didnt have a new boyfriend, ZX would actually still be taking his sweet time and feel…
Like he finds out they're not actually dating yet during the ski holiday and instead of immediately running to her and actually following true, he decides to do nothing...again. Then he goes home and does nothing...again. Dude you have her number, you can reach out any time. Do something...
That guy’s a lost cause. I don’t think he’ll ever see his own faults. He’ll probably go on believing NXG…
loool I lost it when he said the world and NXG were being unfair to him! Like bro what?!
This beautiful, rich girl likes you and even confesses to you and you reject her and then play games with her for an eternity, but somehow she is being unfair?? He needs to grow up.
I am with you! I am glad that he learned his lesson...that will teach him to be more assertive but he has to build…
Has he learned his lesson though?
In their last conversation he is still blaming her and the world for being unfair to him. He has done no reflection at all on his own behaviour, even though his behaviour is the main reason that they're not together right now.
I think he does love himself first, he wanted his career and success first, he thought he deserved NXG to wait…
He is still blaming her for something that is entirely his fault. Who cares that he is a nice guy if he isn't nice to the person that matters? He's been treating her awfully and yes that does make him a bad guy for now. in my opinion at least.
I agree that the episode was lacking direction-wiseI noticed the weakness in some earlier episodes too
I understand what you mean. I was really annoyed with him also at the start when he was giving her a hard time about something she didn't even remember. For me that changed when he made the decision to put whatever he was holding against her aside and he started treating her wonderfully.
I do also think that he was fully prepared to let it go. Like he said, he wanted her still and then later realized that her personality and concern for him didn't match with the actions of the person he was meeting 2 years ago. Her dad bringing it up as a 'gotcha' moment forced him to address it again and the realization of what actually happened made him need some reflection. I doubt it is going to be much of an issue in their relationship from now on.
I haven't read the novel either, so I'm not sure what the mistress' fate will be. I also hope she gets her comeuppance loool. The father isn't innocent in this though, so I hope he gets some karma too..🤭🤭🤭
I agree that the episode was lacking direction-wiseI noticed the weakness in some earlier episodes too
I agree that it is a bit overdramatic. On the other hand, he only went there that day because of the date. The person he was travelling to then didn't even bother to come and see how he was doing. Even worse, that person then doesn't even seem to remember him or what happened to him when they meet again.
His entire life changed for the worse that day, so it is understandable that he would be so hyper focused on the circumstances of that day and I can also understand why he would be a bit resentful towards her. It's not entirely rational, but human emotions rarely are.
It must also be a bit of a mindf*ck to then realize that he went there and got in an accident, which ruined his life, to go and meet someone he wasn't even interested in meeting.
After watching today's episodes, I am seeing some similarities between Zhuang Xu and Nie Cheng Yuan. -- They both…
"I think both would be happiest with a wife who stays at home, does the chores, and looks after the children."
The ironic thing is that neither Zhuang Xu and Nie Cheng Yuan would actually be happy in this scenario either. They crave and want women like NXG and her mother, but they have such big inferiority complexes in regards to women being more capable or in a higher hierarchy than them. So they want them, but also severely resent them.
That is why NCY couldn't handle his wife discussing company business with him and also why he is now living with that other woman, but judges and seems to dislike both her and her daughter.
I wonder why people see 2ML in such extremes. He can be someone who's good in some things and bad in some things…
If he was hurting only himself, I would've given him so grace, but he hasn't.
He thoroughly messed with Fls self esteem, made it so she got slandered and gossiped about even though she did everything right, didn't communicate or seriously pursue her (because a part of him did believe Rongs lies), then blamed her for not waiting around for him. Even now when little cousin gave him an opportunity (should I let her know you came by), he still chooses to sulk and brood instead of acting. His immaturity has really hurt someone and he's still not acknowledging that. Thats why hes the bad guy still.
What use is it to put your love life on hold, if the person you want has no idea that you are doing that or why you are doing that or when you plan to stop doing that?
The only thing he lost is NXG. He has a good job and is making decent money. He also has his own family. He could've had a girlfriend like at least 3 times now and he fumbled all 3 of them with his own actions and decisions. He feels bad enough for himself, I don't think he needs anyone else to feel bad for him lol.
But this is also just my opinion 🙏
He's such an absurd character.
This beautiful, rich girl likes you and even confesses to you and you reject her and then play games with her for an eternity, but somehow she is being unfair?? He needs to grow up.
In their last conversation he is still blaming her and the world for being unfair to him. He has done no reflection at all on his own behaviour, even though his behaviour is the main reason that they're not together right now.
I do also think that he was fully prepared to let it go. Like he said, he wanted her still and then later realized that her personality and concern for him didn't match with the actions of the person he was meeting 2 years ago. Her dad bringing it up as a 'gotcha' moment forced him to address it again and the realization of what actually happened made him need some reflection. I doubt it is going to be much of an issue in their relationship from now on.
I haven't read the novel either, so I'm not sure what the mistress' fate will be. I also hope she gets her comeuppance loool. The father isn't innocent in this though, so I hope he gets some karma too..🤭🤭🤭
His entire life changed for the worse that day, so it is understandable that he would be so hyper focused on the circumstances of that day and I can also understand why he would be a bit resentful towards her. It's not entirely rational, but human emotions rarely are.
It must also be a bit of a mindf*ck to then realize that he went there and got in an accident, which ruined his life, to go and meet someone he wasn't even interested in meeting.
The ironic thing is that neither Zhuang Xu and Nie Cheng Yuan would actually be happy in
this scenario either. They crave and want women like NXG and her mother, but they have such big inferiority complexes in regards to women being more capable or in a higher hierarchy than them. So they want them, but also severely resent them.
That is why NCY couldn't handle his wife discussing company business with him and also why he is now living with that other woman, but judges and seems to dislike both her and her daughter.
He thoroughly messed with Fls self esteem, made it so she got slandered and gossiped about even though she did everything right, didn't communicate or seriously pursue her (because a part of him did believe Rongs lies), then blamed her for not waiting around for him. Even now when little cousin gave him an opportunity (should I let her know you came by), he still chooses to sulk and brood instead of acting. His immaturity has really hurt someone and he's still not acknowledging that. Thats why hes the bad guy still.