I started watching this when it came out and only watched i think like 2 episodes when i realize that Zhi Xi would…
She took her sister's credit, her sister donated half her heart to 1 of the emperor. She knew her sister was in love with that emperor and because they dont permit love in heaven she tries to help her sister but ends up hurting her instead. She blames her sister for all her short comings. After her sister dies she tries to makeup for everything. Helped her sister in the second half of the show by donating half her heart and dies trying to rescue her.
geez, whatâs your problem. Iâm glad you knew what her rant about Jing is about. i didnât so i asked her to make sure i understood what she was saying. she said i didnât and so Iâve apologized for it. i donât understand why you gotta instigate and make a big deal out of nothing.
i read your post and what all 3 men.. all you talked and complained about is Jing. and all i did was defend him.. whatâs wrong with that?
he the best chest player doesnât mean he understands and can solve every problem that the world throws at him. sometimes people have to learn through experience. he doesnât have Television or the internet where he can just ask about a problem and get a solution. Iâm glad you know what to do with your family when they do something bad to you. glad its easy for you to get rid of someone like his grandmother who had sacrificed so much for him and the only mistake she did was tricking him to marry the person she wants him to marry. or kill someone like his brother who loved him for hundreds of years, but did what he did because of what Jingâs mother had done to him. maybe you donât value your family like Jing does thatâs why you donât understand his predicament. i value mine, if theyâve done something bad to me i wouldnât be able to just kill them off because no matter what theyâre still my family. you know what Jingâs fiancee was doing to him because youâre an outsider watching everything thatâs happening, while he saw a girl who just wants to marry him and tried her hardest to make that happen. he was suspicious of her, suspicious of her wanting to marry him for his wealth and power, but how would he know sheâs working with his brother trying to kill him, when he hasnât seen any signs or intent of any of that happening. although heâs a god he canât predict the future or predict what bad things people will do to him.
oh wow.. now you have something to say about the other menâŚ
XLâs love is the most selfless? how is it selfless when he always asked for something for everything he does. what did he do for XY after all those times he sucked her blood to heal? what did he do for her after all those times she made poison for him? what did he do for her when she helped him get free medicine and getting it back from CX? she even got tortured because of this. when Jing went to XL to get XL to help him go rescue XY, XL didnât even agree right away, he was hesitant about it when she helped him so much. when she asked him to remove the bug from CX to himself, that wasnât free. she had to promised him sheâll do something for him in the future or else her love will become pain and her happiness will be bitter. XL serving a bunch of rebels even though they hate him sure sounds like Jing. i guess heâs as dumb as Jing, at least Jingâs family loved him at one point. how is he dignified when he hit and abus women?
anyways, its time to move on⌠if you want to instigate more then go right aheadâŚ
Your rant about Jing is very very long. When i thought i understood your question, you tell me im not. Maybe its too complex for to understand.
I asked you if you read the book, i didnt tell you to read it. I just wanted to see if your analysis about Jing was from the whole story or just from season 1. Because later CX will do everything he can to keep XY by his side even if itll hurt her. Thats her family who was doing that to her. If she didnt learn to be forgiving and kind from jing then what do you think she should have done to him? kill him like the way you want jing to kill his brother and grandma? At that point CX's the king of the whole vast wilderness. Remember she doesnt care for the greater good. If she killed her cousin the world will become chaotic and disarray. You may think Jing's way is a double edge sword, but XY think it's worth her love
Agreed. And I think that because Jing is so passive about dealing with his family - who just goes and quietly…
Jing took really good care of her when they were in Qing Shui town. He did everything: cooked, cleaned, tucked her in, cared for her when she was sick or hurt, learned medicine, packaged medicine, find her when shes missing, etc. He did whatever he could and still you wouldnt be satisfied, while you ignore all the torments XL gave her at the time. You talk about baggage, wasnt it XL who dragged XY into his? Getting meds for the soldier and using her to get them back from CX. When she was introuble Jing had to ask or self he wouldnt even think about helping. Then used her again to lure CX. He even tried to rape her. But still Jing's the worse.
Jing would never pull her into his family's baggage thats why he asked for 15 yrs, when he's done taking care of everything he'll return to her as Ye Shi Qi. Everything meaning his family, family business, and fiancee. Hes onl y kind and forgiving towards his family.
If Jing didnt come in time after she was assassinated and pour all his power into her then even XL wouldnt havd been able to rescue her. CX said this in ep33, 7:42. So he also helped XL in the process. Jing was onlyseeking death when he thought she died.
How is he selfish when he was helping CX he did everything he could to help CX acieve his goals. He did all this for XY and never took credit. He still helped CX even after they broke up
Sorry, i read your whole comment but couldnt remember everything, i did reread it but its so long when i trailed off i could only remember a few things..
What you're asking is why she picked Jing when he didnt keep his promised and he hurt her in the process? While her cousin loves her as much and is doing all this for her. And XL also loved her as much used one of his life to save her.
It was Jing who slowly shattered the hard shell around her heart. No matter how many test she puts on him he doesnt mind proving himself over and over again to show her that he loves her. Theyve both suffered emotional trauma, but jing kept on moving forward and he influenced her to move forward too. Once the hard shell is shattered, shes totally in love with him, so itll be difficult for her to forget him.
Although CX and XL loves her as much as jing, they didn't tell her. Even with their actions she didnt see it. XY wants someone to put her first above everything. CX may have done all this for her but he got too busy for her. He promised to make wine for her but didnt while Jing sends her cases of them. Jing is also doing everything he can to help CX achieve his goals. XY knows hes doing it for her. Later CX will do many hurtful things to XY just to keeps her by his side.
XL may have saved her but he traded something for it. He made XY think their relationship is just a transaction. And how can she love him when hes her family's enemy. He tried to kill CX many times and later will kill someone closed to her. Jing would never used her to make a deal and will never hurt her family or anyone closed to her because that'll only hurt her.
Although Jing was tricked by his family, its his family. They loved and protected him for a lot longer than when they hate him, for hundreds of years. Especially his grandmother who hadnt done anything wrong but asked him to marry YY. She struggled and sacrificed alot for the family, so how can he not trust her. Hes only forgiving and kind towards his family. Plus XY knew how dangerous YY was, she saw how many time YY tried to kill CX and how she did it, but she never told Jing. Because of her inaction she lost the man she loved. So XY cant totally blame Jing for not taking the threat seriously if she didnt tell him how or why the threat was serious.
Jing helped CX the whole time he was seeking the throne. He took every threat that came at CX seriouly. He sent help when CX needed it. He destroyed palaces to get CX to move to the central plains, he cooked the books when CX was under suspension, he used his family business accounts to help feed and train CX 20,000 army for almost 40 yrs. Nice guys don't do these kinda stuff
Why is it so hard to believe that she can love a nice guy? Everyone around her are ruthless and vicious even her, she doesnt want someone like her.
Well thats why i said wait till season 2. Lets just say he sacrificed most of his tails to get the girl.
Why blame Jing for getting the girl, XY doesnt have to keep her promise, she can just move on if she wants, she did it before, when they were in Hiyan. Jing was busy traveling and persuading FL to support CX and asked FL to send someone to help CX because Jing predicted the 2 uncles would try to kill him. Thats why XY was mad and she was already hanging out with Bei. If her cousin didnt ask her for Jing then she wouldnt have seen him. Jing didnt even say anything or remind her of the promise when she almost left with Bei. She's the one who turned around on her own. Plus you know what when they woke up from the comma, 15 yrs already passed, XY was free to look for other men. if she thought Jing was weak and didnt like him, then nothing was holding her back anymore. Dont know why you guys keep blaming Jing. They also broke up even more reason for her to seek other men, and she did! Did you guys forget shes engaged to FL? No one is stopping CX or XL to confess to XY. XY has already said she doesnt like being lonely so she'll give a chance to the first person who tells her they like her and want to be with her. The reason why she likes Jing is not because hes the first guy who confessed and made her promised not to like other men. She likes him because if in the future she does something bad like betray him, he will still love her, forgive her and not abandon her.
Why are you stooping to their level? Please donât put down another actor for another actor. They all worked…
just because the fan said some unflattering things about the character why did the actor get the heat? and whats wrong with people calling XL a bad boy? i dont get it
I don't think Tushan Jing had not broken his promise with Xiao Yao. He knew he was set up and felt confused about…
Yup I read the whole novel and I read it many times. I know she loved Jing and CX (Chapter 47) because the author clearly wrote that she loved them in the novel but she didnât do that for XL. I can give you the chapters to all the scenes mentioned and you can do a word search on the chapter to reread those scenes if you want.
Even words used to describe how XY feels about the men she loved like blush, nervous, happy feeling, turned beet red, heart racing, heart thundering, heat throbbing were hardly described on XY for XL. She blushed once for XL but that was because she was with him and she remember the intimate things XL did to her when they were in the sea clam (chapter 43). Her heart is hard Jing had to soften it many times before he was able to break the hard shell around her it (chapter 22). This also indicates her feelings towards that person and in the novel XL only soften it once (chapter 4).
she told XL that she couldnât make poison for him anymore after she got married, so that crystal ball was made because it was the last (chapter 31), thatâs why it was special. She never told him to come for her. She never met XL at the dragon bone prison, that was her and Jingâs spot. Thatâs where he confessed to her (chapter 8), asked her for 15 yrs. (chapter 8), rescued her (chapter 13 ), and where she kissed him (chapter 13). When Ah Nian pushed XY for XL after the princess ceremony, she pushed XY from a cliff not prison. XY then went into the ocean and XL tried to kiss her but she refused. When she ran out of air he took her to the surface above the water and thatâs where they talked (this was in the novel, but in the drama he took her to an island). He then made her swim back where she met Jing (chapter 13). This was the only time XY and XL interacted in Gao Xing.
Bei died because XL said he died (chapter 32). He didnât have to die if XY told him she wanted to stay with him. Before XL asked XY who she wanted to spend her life with (Chapter 32) he asked her if she wanted to marry Ye Shi Qi and she said yes. Then he asked her who she wanted to spend her entire life with and she didnât answer. He tried to use his powers to look into her heart but her mind was too strong willed and she refused to answer it (chapter 32). It didnât necessarily mean it was XL, she probably blocked it because the person she was thinking about already has a wife and son. Why would she want to marry Jing but spend the rest of her life with XL? If XL could go into XYâs heart to see who she loved then why is he doing this now? If she ever loved him then he wouldâve already felt it.
it did turn into heartbreak bug. Did you not see him in pain grabbing his chest when he made XY swim back and Jing rescued her and carried her to the Dragon bone prison(chapter 13)? However XY didnât feel the pain when the bug was attacking XL, she only felt the bug attacking her when she saw Jing at CXâs wedding. She asked XL if he felt the pain when her heart ache he said yes (chapter 26).
She did try to put the bug into XL but it didnât go in. When she tried to pu the bug in CX, it went in because she loved him and he loved her at the time (chapter 5). However it wasnât stable because CX didnât whole heartly accepted it, CX didnât know Xiao Liu was XY at that time and CX hated Xiao Liu for hurting Ah Nian. When XY transferred the bug to XL he whole heartly accepted it and showed the bug he loved XY but XY didnât have to do that on her end because it was already in her(chapter 13). When the bugs were in them only XL felt what XY felt, but she couldnât feel XL felt, probably because he loved her but she didnât. Iâve looked in the novel for more explanations but thereâs not much(chapter 37). The drama didnât explain it well either.
if the book explained XYâs feelings for XL well then I wouldnât be asking you. I thought XY liked Bei more than XL because thatâs what it looked like from her dream(chapter 27). Even in the show when Bei was in her room healing and she remembered all those times theyâve interacted with one another but when she remembered XL pushing her off the tree, you can tell from her face that she hated him. If you donât want to type then its fine, not going to force you to do something you donât want. Iâm not asking you to give me all the good examples of XYâs feelings for XL I just want at one good one. The ones youâve mentioned Iâve already countered.
I never said she only loved Jing, Iâve said she loved Jing and CX. I also mentioned she liked Bei. If its clearly shown throughout the novel then it why canât you give me 1 good example of it. It you want to convince people Jing isnât XYâs second option then let me give you a few good examples.
1. The reason XY loves to eat snack is not because she like the taste but because of how it made her felt, when she broke up with Jing she stopped buying them (chapter 31). 2. When they broke up she spit out a mouth full of blood because she found out FFYY was pregnant. Just with that reaction you can tell how much Jing meant to her(chapter 25). 3. She had nightmares and insomnia at night and daze off during the day. Thatâs because shes thinking of him and the stuff they did together in the past. It occurred a lot and for a long time (chapter 25, 26, 27,29,30,31). 4. She promised him she wouldnât let any man into her heart (chapter 8). 5. She only acts girly when sheâs with Jing (drama). 6. Tried to kill her cousin, a very important person to her, to avenge Jing (chapter 47). 7. Tried to kill herself to be with Jing (chapter 47). 8. Becoming royale mother, back then she would rather not get her powers back than stay here (chapter 49). 9. When she saw Jing at CXâs wedding after theyâve broken up her heart ached (chapter 26). 10. When she went shopping and bumped into Jing she ran off crying (chapter 29). 11. Jing was the only guy she ever kissed (Chapter 20). When XY and XL were under water and their lips touched because she needed a breath of air that doesnât count as a kiss because she didnât react to it (chapter 7) 12. The hard shell encasing her heart was broken by Jing (chapter 22) 13. Sheâs always jealous of the women around Jing. Jingâs the only person she ever felt jealous for (chapter 4, 14, 16 and 19). 14. XY sang a song of longing for her lover only for Jing. (chapter 20)
Just passing by to say that, this is a really good drama. Though itâs not heavily on romance(slow burn Iâd…
Bravo! Just because Jing is forgiving towards his family doesnt make him weak. Hes like that only towards his family. XY likes him because she knows she's ruthless like her family and she needs someone like Jing to not abandon her.
I don't think Tushan Jing had not broken his promise with Xiao Yao. He knew he was set up and felt confused about…
According to the book she was in love at that time, to her cousin. You think she was falling for XL? Well, I donât know if she was falling for him or not but I know that he softened her hard heart once and thatâs probably why she told him about the dream speech. It softened when he took her to the ocean.
Wait everyday she sat on the jagged rocks outside the Dragon Bone Prison and looked out over the deep blue ocean? Isnât that where she made the 15 yrs promise with Jing and isnât that where he rescued her and took her to talk and she kissed him? Are you sure she isnât thinking of Jing and staring in the direction where Jing is at? Isnât Haoling surrounded by water or mostly surrounded by water? If sheâs thinking about XL shouldnât she go else where and stare at the ocean from there?
âSeven day later since XL doesnât come for herâ did she asked XL to meet her or get her?
I think she did like Bae but not XL. Didnât she have that dream where she saw Jing playing with his son and was so sad she ran, she ran from Qing Qui to Qing Shui town. When she reached the river she jumped in and started swimming. She swam towards the ocean and saw Bae surfaced and started swimming towards him, but when he changed into XL she stopped and swam to the shores I tears.
If XY was waiting for XL for 7 days then why didnât XY stay with him after he took her away from her wedding? Why did she go to Qing Qui to find Jing? He was still married and had a kid.
No need to apologize for the rude people. I know what you mean. When I read people bashing on Jing or the actor who plays Jing I get upset too but at least I apologize when they tell me Iâm rude. Sometimes when Iâm mad I comment with my emotion, I donât mean or notice it just happens that way.
I don't think Tushan Jing had not broken his promise with Xiao Yao. He knew he was set up and felt confused about…
DUDE CALM DOWN! Some of Yaoliu fans are so freaken crazy.
"Do you really think the heir and leader to the great trading clan of the three kingdoms didn't know how dangerous Fang Feng YY , his own freaking fiancee, was and needed some hick doctor in the backwoods of the Great Wilderness who had never been to the big city to tell him that?"
YES!! Let me quote that part from the book for you!
Jing: "Back then he thought FFYY was innocent and it was the Tu Shan clan that wronged her. He didnât want to hurt her but then he forgot that by doing so then he ended up hurting XY" XY said it herself: âFFYY was always polite and well-mannered in front of you, gentle and sweet, but I knew from the very beginning that she was calculating and deadly. I also knew you were soft hearted and felt apologetic to her. FFYY was sure to use your personality and your regret against you. but I did nothing, I didnât even warn you. I stood to the side and watched. My childhood made me pessimistic about human emotions, I feel like nothing will last forever and no one can be relied on. I never truly believed in you and I didnât want to make the effort first. So when what I expected happened, I felt like it was exactly as I predicted! I know people can't be trusted! But I didnât know that what we put in is what we get back."
Here let me give you the chapter incase you donât believe me and want to at least try and open the book, chapter 33.
"Give Jing an iota of credit and stop blaming XY because she didn't prevent him from making one bad decision after another. He's a grown a$$ man. That was all on Jing."
What bad decision is that? Trust his grandmother who loved him, raised him, and sacrificed so much for him and his brother?
Iâm not blaming XY for no reason, sheâs the one who blamed herself and said it herself that it was her fault too! Let me also quote that part for you. "I promised to walk the road with you but I was always pessimistically waiting. It was like if we went to climb a mountain and agreed to do it together, but when I saw you heading down the wrong path, I didnât stop you and let you continue the wrong way. So I saw a drop and didnât help you from falling instead stood to the side watching coldlyâŚ. Every night I think about whoâs at fault and knew that I was wrong. My own pessimistic personality and attitude, my own distrust of others, it caused me to lose the man I like.â
"XY wasn't testing so much as repeatedly giving Jing a chance, for some reason. If you want to to call it a test, fine. XY wouldn't have had to repeatedly test him, if he hadn't kept FAILING."
Yes test! She said it herself in ep14 4:21. âIâve been testing you, hoping to make you back off. So, I can leave without any concerns. But youâŚ.â
She was testing him because she liked him! Keep failing? Helping her run from CX and being an enemy of both Hiyan and Haoling for XY was him failing? Not communicating with her for a long time because he was helping her cousin not get killed and gain power for the throne was him failing?
âI seriously have to wonder if we're watching the same show. CX spent all of his life, 100s of years NOT giving up on XY. And XY didn't have to test XL, because XL never made her promises. The idea of him beating her to death is ludicrous, especially given his great virtue and great flaw is soul deep loyalty, and he's I clearly in love with her, as sharing the Poison Love Bug proves.â I do too! When I said beat her to death I didnât mean it literally. I meant heâll do something extreme like break her legs or something similar. Donât tell me you donât think heâll do those things either because of his âgreat virtue and great flaw in soul deep loyaltyâ. So what if heâs in love with her. He was in love with her since the beginning and he still tortured her. When I said CX would have given up on it because his heart is as hard as hers. I meant he would give up on liking her. Thatâs why I said his heart is as hard as hers. She keeps testing Jing because she wants him to fail and she would stop giving herself hope.
if you donât know how to maturely discuss things with other then donât. if you canât reasonably tell me why Iâm wrong and just yell and scream like a headless chicken then thatâs on you. People like you are the reason why this comment section suck.
i read your post and what all 3 men.. all you talked and complained about is Jing. and all i did was defend him.. whatâs wrong with that?
he the best chest player doesnât mean he understands and can solve every problem that the world throws at him. sometimes people have to learn through experience. he doesnât have Television or the internet where he can just ask about a problem and get a solution.
Iâm glad you know what to do with your family when they do something bad to you. glad its easy for you to get rid of someone like his grandmother who had sacrificed so much for him and the only mistake she did was tricking him to marry the person she wants him to marry. or kill someone like his brother who loved him for hundreds of years, but did what he did because of what Jingâs mother had done to him. maybe you donât value your family like Jing does thatâs why you donât understand his predicament. i value mine, if theyâve done something bad to me i wouldnât be able to just kill them off because no matter what theyâre still my family.
you know what Jingâs fiancee was doing to him because youâre an outsider watching everything thatâs happening, while he saw a girl who just wants to marry him and tried her hardest to make that happen. he was suspicious of her, suspicious of her wanting to marry him for his wealth and power, but how would he know sheâs working with his brother trying to kill him, when he hasnât seen any signs or intent of any of that happening. although heâs a god he canât predict the future or predict what bad things people will do to him.
oh wow.. now you have something to say about the other menâŚ
XLâs love is the most selfless? how is it selfless when he always asked for something for everything he does. what did he do for XY after all those times he sucked her blood to heal? what did he do for her after all those times she made poison for him? what did he do for her when she helped him get free medicine and getting it back from CX? she even got tortured because of this. when Jing went to XL to get XL to help him go rescue XY, XL didnât even agree right away, he was hesitant about it when she helped him so much. when she asked him to remove the bug from CX to himself, that wasnât free. she had to promised him sheâll do something for him in the future or else her love will become pain and her happiness will be bitter. XL serving a bunch of rebels even though they hate him sure sounds like Jing. i guess heâs as dumb as Jing, at least Jingâs family loved him at one point. how is he dignified when he hit and abus women?
anyways, its time to move on⌠if you want to instigate more then go right aheadâŚ
I asked you if you read the book, i didnt tell you to read it. I just wanted to see if your analysis about Jing was from the whole story or just from season 1. Because later CX will do everything he can to keep XY by his side even if itll hurt her. Thats her family who was doing that to her. If she didnt learn to be forgiving and kind from jing then what do you think she should have done to him? kill him like the way you want jing to kill his brother and grandma? At that point CX's the king of the whole vast wilderness. Remember she doesnt care for the greater good. If she killed her cousin the world will become chaotic and disarray. You may think Jing's way is a double edge sword, but XY think it's worth her love
Jing would never pull her into his family's baggage thats why he asked for 15 yrs, when he's done taking care of everything he'll return to her as Ye Shi Qi. Everything meaning his family, family business, and fiancee. Hes onl y kind and forgiving towards his family.
If Jing didnt come in time after she was assassinated and pour all his power into her then even XL wouldnt havd been able to rescue her. CX said this in ep33, 7:42. So he also helped XL in the process. Jing was onlyseeking death when he thought she died.
How is he selfish when he was helping CX he did everything he could to help CX acieve his goals. He did all this for XY and never took credit. He still helped CX even after they broke up
What you're asking is why she picked Jing when he didnt keep his promised and he hurt her in the process? While her cousin loves her as much and is doing all this for her. And XL also loved her as much used one of his life to save her.
It was Jing who slowly shattered the hard shell around her heart. No matter how many test she puts on him he doesnt mind proving himself over and over again to show her that he loves her. Theyve both suffered emotional trauma, but jing kept on moving forward and he influenced her to move forward too. Once the hard shell is shattered, shes totally in love with him, so itll be difficult for her to forget him.
Although CX and XL loves her as much as jing, they didn't tell her. Even with their actions she didnt see it. XY wants someone to put her first above everything. CX may have done all this for her but he got too busy for her. He promised to make wine for her but didnt while Jing sends her cases of them. Jing is also doing everything he can to help CX achieve his goals. XY knows hes doing it for her. Later CX will do many hurtful things to XY just to keeps her by his side.
XL may have saved her but he traded something for it. He made XY think their relationship is just a transaction. And how can she love him when hes her family's enemy. He tried to kill CX many times and later will kill someone closed to her. Jing would never used her to make a deal and will never hurt her family or anyone closed to her because that'll only hurt her.
Although Jing was tricked by his family, its his family. They loved and protected him for a lot longer than when they hate him, for hundreds of years. Especially his grandmother who hadnt done anything wrong but asked him to marry YY. She struggled and sacrificed alot for the family, so how can he not trust her. Hes only forgiving and kind towards his family. Plus XY knew how dangerous YY was, she saw how many time YY tried to kill CX and how she did it, but she never told Jing. Because of her inaction she lost the man she loved. So XY cant totally blame Jing for not taking the threat seriously if she didnt tell him how or why the threat was serious.
Jing helped CX the whole time he was seeking the throne. He took every threat that came at CX seriouly. He sent help when CX needed it. He destroyed palaces to get CX to move to the central plains, he cooked the books when CX was under suspension, he used his family business accounts to help feed and train CX 20,000 army for almost 40 yrs. Nice guys don't do these kinda stuff
Why is it so hard to believe that she can love a nice guy? Everyone around her are ruthless and vicious even her, she doesnt want someone like her.
Why blame Jing for getting the girl, XY doesnt have to keep her promise, she can just move on if she wants, she did it before, when they were in Hiyan. Jing was busy traveling and persuading FL to support CX and asked FL to send someone to help CX because Jing predicted the 2 uncles would try to kill him. Thats why XY was mad and she was already hanging out with Bei. If her cousin didnt ask her for Jing then she wouldnt have seen him. Jing didnt even say anything or remind her of the promise when she almost left with Bei. She's the one who turned around on her own.
Plus you know what when they woke up from the comma, 15 yrs already passed, XY was free to look for other men. if she thought Jing was weak and didnt like him, then nothing was holding her back anymore. Dont know why you guys keep blaming Jing. They also broke up even more reason for her to seek other men, and she did! Did you guys forget shes engaged to FL? No one is stopping CX or XL to confess to XY. XY has already said she doesnt like being lonely so she'll give a chance to the first person who tells her they like her and want to be with her.
The reason why she likes Jing is not because hes the first guy who confessed and made her promised not to like other men. She likes him because if in the future she does something bad like betray him, he will still love her, forgive her and not abandon her.
Even words used to describe how XY feels about the men she loved like blush, nervous, happy feeling, turned beet red, heart racing, heart thundering, heat throbbing were hardly described on XY for XL. She blushed once for XL but that was because she was with him and she remember the intimate things XL did to her when they were in the sea clam (chapter 43). Her heart is hard Jing had to soften it many times before he was able to break the hard shell around her it (chapter 22). This also indicates her feelings towards that person and in the novel XL only soften it once (chapter 4).
she told XL that she couldnât make poison for him anymore after she got married, so that crystal ball was made because it was the last (chapter 31), thatâs why it was special. She never told him to come for her. She never met XL at the dragon bone prison, that was her and Jingâs spot. Thatâs where he confessed to her (chapter 8), asked her for 15 yrs. (chapter 8), rescued her (chapter 13 ), and where she kissed him (chapter 13). When Ah Nian pushed XY for XL after the princess ceremony, she pushed XY from a cliff not prison. XY then went into the ocean and XL tried to kiss her but she refused. When she ran out of air he took her to the surface above the water and thatâs where they talked (this was in the novel, but in the drama he took her to an island). He then made her swim back where she met Jing (chapter 13). This was the only time XY and XL interacted in Gao Xing.
Bei died because XL said he died (chapter 32). He didnât have to die if XY told him she wanted to stay with him. Before XL asked XY who she wanted to spend her life with (Chapter 32) he asked her if she wanted to marry Ye Shi Qi and she said yes. Then he asked her who she wanted to spend her entire life with and she didnât answer. He tried to use his powers to look into her heart but her mind was too strong willed and she refused to answer it (chapter 32). It didnât necessarily mean it was XL, she probably blocked it because the person she was thinking about already has a wife and son. Why would she want to marry Jing but spend the rest of her life with XL? If XL could go into XYâs heart to see who she loved then why is he doing this now? If she ever loved him then he wouldâve already felt it.
it did turn into heartbreak bug. Did you not see him in pain grabbing his chest when he made XY swim back and Jing rescued her and carried her to the Dragon bone prison(chapter 13)? However XY didnât feel the pain when the bug was attacking XL, she only felt the bug attacking her when she saw Jing at CXâs wedding. She asked XL if he felt the pain when her heart ache he said yes (chapter 26).
She did try to put the bug into XL but it didnât go in. When she tried to pu the bug in CX, it went in because she loved him and he loved her at the time (chapter 5). However it wasnât stable because CX didnât whole heartly accepted it, CX didnât know Xiao Liu was XY at that time and CX hated Xiao Liu for hurting Ah Nian. When XY transferred the bug to XL he whole heartly accepted it and showed the bug he loved XY but XY didnât have to do that on her end because it was already in her(chapter 13). When the bugs were in them only XL felt what XY felt, but she couldnât feel XL felt, probably because he loved her but she didnât. Iâve looked in the novel for more explanations but thereâs not much(chapter 37). The drama didnât explain it well either.
if the book explained XYâs feelings for XL well then I wouldnât be asking you. I thought XY liked Bei more than XL because thatâs what it looked like from her dream(chapter 27). Even in the show when Bei was in her room healing and she remembered all those times theyâve interacted with one another but when she remembered XL pushing her off the tree, you can tell from her face that she hated him. If you donât want to type then its fine, not going to force you to do something you donât want. Iâm not asking you to give me all the good examples of XYâs feelings for XL I just want at one good one. The ones youâve mentioned Iâve already countered.
I never said she only loved Jing, Iâve said she loved Jing and CX. I also mentioned she liked Bei. If its clearly shown throughout the novel then it why canât you give me 1 good example of it. It you want to convince people Jing isnât XYâs second option then let me give you a few good examples.
1. The reason XY loves to eat snack is not because she like the taste but because of how it made her felt, when she broke up with Jing she stopped buying them (chapter 31).
2. When they broke up she spit out a mouth full of blood because she found out FFYY was pregnant. Just with that reaction you can tell how much Jing meant to her(chapter 25).
3. She had nightmares and insomnia at night and daze off during the day. Thatâs because shes thinking of him and the stuff they did together in the past. It occurred a lot and for a long time (chapter 25, 26, 27,29,30,31).
4. She promised him she wouldnât let any man into her heart (chapter 8).
5. She only acts girly when sheâs with Jing (drama).
6. Tried to kill her cousin, a very important person to her, to avenge Jing (chapter 47).
7. Tried to kill herself to be with Jing (chapter 47).
8. Becoming royale mother, back then she would rather not get her powers back than stay here (chapter 49).
9. When she saw Jing at CXâs wedding after theyâve broken up her heart ached (chapter 26).
10. When she went shopping and bumped into Jing she ran off crying (chapter 29).
11. Jing was the only guy she ever kissed (Chapter 20). When XY and XL were under water and their lips touched because she needed a breath of air that doesnât count as a kiss because she didnât react to it (chapter 7)
12. The hard shell encasing her heart was broken by Jing (chapter 22)
13. Sheâs always jealous of the women around Jing. Jingâs the only person she ever felt jealous for (chapter 4, 14, 16 and 19).
14. XY sang a song of longing for her lover only for Jing. (chapter 20)
Wait everyday she sat on the jagged rocks outside the Dragon Bone Prison and looked out over the deep blue ocean? Isnât that where she made the 15 yrs promise with Jing and isnât that where he rescued her and took her to talk and she kissed him? Are you sure she isnât thinking of Jing and staring in the direction where Jing is at? Isnât Haoling surrounded by water or mostly surrounded by water? If sheâs thinking about XL shouldnât she go else where and stare at the ocean from there?
âSeven day later since XL doesnât come for herâ did she asked XL to meet her or get her?
I think she did like Bae but not XL. Didnât she have that dream where she saw Jing playing with his son and was so sad she ran, she ran from Qing Qui to Qing Shui town. When she reached the river she jumped in and started swimming. She swam towards the ocean and saw Bae surfaced and started swimming towards him, but when he changed into XL she stopped and swam to the shores I tears.
If XY was waiting for XL for 7 days then why didnât XY stay with him after he took her away from her wedding? Why did she go to Qing Qui to find Jing? He was still married and had a kid.
No need to apologize for the rude people. I know what you mean. When I read people bashing on Jing or the actor who plays Jing I get upset too but at least I apologize when they tell me Iâm rude. Sometimes when Iâm mad I comment with my emotion, I donât mean or notice it just happens that way.
"Do you really think the heir and leader to the great trading clan of the three kingdoms didn't know how dangerous Fang Feng YY , his own freaking fiancee, was and needed some hick doctor in the backwoods of the Great Wilderness who had never been to the big city to tell him that?"
YES!! Let me quote that part from the book for you!
Jing:
"Back then he thought FFYY was innocent and it was the Tu Shan clan that wronged her. He didnât want to hurt her but then he forgot that by doing so then he ended up hurting XY"
XY said it herself:
âFFYY was always polite and well-mannered in front of you, gentle and sweet, but I knew from the very beginning that she was calculating and deadly. I also knew you were soft hearted and felt apologetic to her. FFYY was sure to use your personality and your regret against you. but I did nothing, I didnât even warn you. I stood to the side and watched. My childhood made me pessimistic about human emotions, I feel like nothing will last forever and no one can be relied on. I never truly believed in you and I didnât want to make the effort first. So when what I expected happened, I felt like it was exactly as I predicted! I know people can't be trusted! But I didnât know that what we put in is what we get back."
Here let me give you the chapter incase you donât believe me and want to at least try and open the book, chapter 33.
"Give Jing an iota of credit and stop blaming XY because she didn't prevent him from making one bad decision after another. He's a grown a$$ man. That was all on Jing."
What bad decision is that? Trust his grandmother who loved him, raised him, and sacrificed so much for him and his brother?
Iâm not blaming XY for no reason, sheâs the one who blamed herself and said it herself that it was her fault too! Let me also quote that part for you.
"I promised to walk the road with you but I was always pessimistically waiting. It was like if we went to climb a mountain and agreed to do it together, but when I saw you heading down the wrong path, I didnât stop you and let you continue the wrong way. So I saw a drop and didnât help you from falling instead stood to the side watching coldlyâŚ. Every night I think about whoâs at fault and knew that I was wrong. My own pessimistic personality and attitude, my own distrust of others, it caused me to lose the man I like.â
"XY wasn't testing so much as repeatedly giving Jing a chance, for some reason. If you want to to call it a test, fine. XY wouldn't have had to repeatedly test him, if he hadn't kept FAILING."
Yes test! She said it herself in ep14 4:21. âIâve been testing you, hoping to make you back off. So, I can leave without any concerns. But youâŚ.â
She was testing him because she liked him! Keep failing? Helping her run from CX and being an enemy of both Hiyan and Haoling for XY was him failing? Not communicating with her for a long time because he was helping her cousin not get killed and gain power for the throne was him failing?
âI seriously have to wonder if we're watching the same show. CX spent all of his life, 100s of years NOT giving up on XY. And XY didn't have to test XL, because XL never made her promises. The idea of him beating her to death is ludicrous, especially given his great virtue and great flaw is soul deep loyalty, and he's I clearly in love with her, as sharing the Poison Love Bug proves.â
I do too!
When I said beat her to death I didnât mean it literally. I meant heâll do something extreme like break her legs or something similar. Donât tell me you donât think heâll do those things either because of his âgreat virtue and great flaw in soul deep loyaltyâ. So what if heâs in love with her. He was in love with her since the beginning and he still tortured her.
When I said CX would have given up on it because his heart is as hard as hers. I meant he would give up on liking her. Thatâs why I said his heart is as hard as hers. She keeps testing Jing because she wants him to fail and she would stop giving herself hope.
if you donât know how to maturely discuss things with other then donât. if you canât reasonably tell me why Iâm wrong and just yell and scream like a headless chicken then thatâs on you. People like you are the reason why this comment section suck.