why Seo Jun keeps saying Suho is a killer and murderer?
Because he needs to blame someone to feel better. In fact, Suho is unrelated to the whole thing, his father is the CEO or something, clearly Suho tried to reach him before the accident, and is disappointed in him, and the relationship with him has gone to shit ever since. But Seojun still wants to target his hatred at Suho anyway without hearing his part.
EDIT: I'm not hating on Seojun or anything, this is a very common coping mechanism for people that lose someone they care about, "It's not my fault, I did everything I could, no one else cared as much as I did, etc"
Going to rent here because of the hypocrisy of you all :- Hi all the new commentators who only showed up now -…
Sorry but does you being here every week validates your opinion and invalidates everyone elses? Taking a moral high ground like that is kinda toxic. But whatever.
IOTNBO was lighthearted from the start, it had a bit of drama but it never took itself too seriously, so everything was phasable. The whole show was more of a fairy tale. This show was supposed to be realistic and it butchered the last few episodes, that's why people are angry.
I rate my shows on the average enjoyment across all episodes, not on how many flutters and cute moments it gave me. Ep 1-12 were a solid 9, but it only went downhill from there, final episode I wouldn't even rate 5/10. To my enjoyment, this drama is a 7/10 and it would be unfair to give it any higher rating because of my bias to the cast, or because "it was a happy ending".
I won't even rant about my reasoning, cause I don't want to spoiler tag this comment. You can try to ctrl F my user name and see if u find my other comments if you care enough, not that I expect you to.
Finally, how about you grow some brains, and stop assuming you're correct, and everyone else is a hater, accept that people have different opinions & perspectives.
Exactly! Idk if most of the viewers here are kids. In real life, if you lost someone you loved dearly, you’ll…
Uhh first off, the childish thing is only liking a happy ending. I read the long story above, and I can relate as well since my aunt did the exact same thing. I was like 13 when they told me she passed out. At first I had a blank reaction, like, "okay, guess I won't be getting any more toys for my birthday.." a few days later it settled in while I was in the shower, that I won't SEE her anymore, not only the toys. So I started crying, silently.
This hit me hard for a few months since she was a very close aunt, she treated me like her second son, and I loved her *almost* as much as I loved my mom. Months passed, years passed, I got over it, I can now remember her happy moments, her good moments, my birthday parties which she always made sure to set up herself when my parents were busy, and I understand that she didn't want us to worry when we were kids. KIDS.
In this case, Rara is an adult, she's even older than Jun and they're in an intimate relationship. You do NOT hide that many secrets from your S/O, let alone cancer illness. (Not to mention Jun was traumatised by his friend's death. He knows the pain, and he inflicted it on his loved one while he was still alive.)
But that's not even the issue here, his lie about his illness wasn't the only problem, the second problem is that he popped back after 5 years, unrealistically, with baffling expressions and reactions. No one knew he was alive, for FIVE years. The old man apparently took the secret to his grave instead of using his years of wisdom to contact Jun or tell them the truth himself.
Third problem, Jun's parents never redeemed themselves, they needed their son on deathbed to decide he can control his own life.
Finally, the drama was PERFECT with a sad ending, we saw Rara's growth in the past 5 years, both emotionally and financially, but they took a big dump on all of it but making him show up.
Sad endings are rare in kdramas, and they're usually badly written (or tragic where everyone dies and things like that) but this one could've been the best sad ending I've seen in kdrama, and they ruined it. That's why we're angry, not because we're "kids".
Better ways they could've ended this:1- NEVER add the whole stupid leukemia plot.2- Make him disappear for less…
AHH yes, that was the 4th ending I was going to write and forgot it while writing the other 3, yes, I would be so much happier with a sad ending where he passes away. It rarely happens in kdramas but I never disliked a drama because one of the main couple passed away.
P.S: Rara was clearly over him, she smiled while talking about him, it was a beautiful sad ending.
The ending was absurd, I'm surprised some people would even approve of it.I'm making another comment now after…
Better ways they could've ended this: 1- NEVER add the whole stupid leukemia plot. 2- Make him disappear for less time. Maybe he ends up returning to recieve treatment with Rara because he missed her, or the old man reveals the secret before dying. or the mother, it could've been a great redeeming plot for her. 3- Make their meeting more emotional for Jun?? The whole leukemia thing was stupid but what it made all worse is the fact he came back as if it's been only a week for him. She was bathing in tears and he's laughing it off.
EDIT: credit to morpheus for pointing it out. 4- Just let Jun die. Rara was already over his death, she could smile while talking about him with her new family. There was so much character growth that happened in the last 5 years and they just made it crumble.
What a disaster... lolEDIT: I dropped my rating of this drama from 9 to 7 just for the ending.
I'd rather the last few minutes never happened, was a decent ending even with Jun dead, Rara grew into a fine character and was already smiling while speaking about the loss, they didn't need to bring him back. Why did Jun's mother lie to her? She seemed to like her in the last meeting... Did Jun tell her to wear a black dress and deliver the news to her? Then this makes Jun even worse. Was he in a coma for 5 years?! His body looks too fine for that to be the case, the heck!
In fact, Suho is unrelated to the whole thing, his father is the CEO or something, clearly Suho tried to reach him before the accident, and is disappointed in him, and the relationship with him has gone to shit ever since.
But Seojun still wants to target his hatred at Suho anyway without hearing his part.
EDIT: I'm not hating on Seojun or anything, this is a very common coping mechanism for people that lose someone they care about, "It's not my fault, I did everything I could, no one else cared as much as I did, etc"
IOTNBO was lighthearted from the start, it had a bit of drama but it never took itself too seriously, so everything was phasable. The whole show was more of a fairy tale. This show was supposed to be realistic and it butchered the last few episodes, that's why people are angry.
I rate my shows on the average enjoyment across all episodes, not on how many flutters and cute moments it gave me. Ep 1-12 were a solid 9, but it only went downhill from there, final episode I wouldn't even rate 5/10. To my enjoyment, this drama is a 7/10 and it would be unfair to give it any higher rating because of my bias to the cast, or because "it was a happy ending".
I won't even rant about my reasoning, cause I don't want to spoiler tag this comment. You can try to ctrl F my user name and see if u find my other comments if you care enough, not that I expect you to.
Finally, how about you grow some brains, and stop assuming you're correct, and everyone else is a hater, accept that people have different opinions & perspectives.
I read the long story above, and I can relate as well since my aunt did the exact same thing. I was like 13 when they told me she passed out. At first I had a blank reaction, like, "okay, guess I won't be getting any more toys for my birthday.." a few days later it settled in while I was in the shower, that I won't SEE her anymore, not only the toys. So I started crying, silently.
This hit me hard for a few months since she was a very close aunt, she treated me like her second son, and I loved her *almost* as much as I loved my mom.
Months passed, years passed, I got over it, I can now remember her happy moments, her good moments, my birthday parties which she always made sure to set up herself when my parents were busy, and I understand that she didn't want us to worry when we were kids. KIDS.
In this case, Rara is an adult, she's even older than Jun and they're in an intimate relationship. You do NOT hide that many secrets from your S/O, let alone cancer illness.
(Not to mention Jun was traumatised by his friend's death. He knows the pain, and he inflicted it on his loved one while he was still alive.)
But that's not even the issue here, his lie about his illness wasn't the only problem, the second problem is that he popped back after 5 years, unrealistically, with baffling expressions and reactions. No one knew he was alive, for FIVE years.
The old man apparently took the secret to his grave instead of using his years of wisdom to contact Jun or tell them the truth himself.
Third problem, Jun's parents never redeemed themselves, they needed their son on deathbed to decide he can control his own life.
Finally, the drama was PERFECT with a sad ending, we saw Rara's growth in the past 5 years, both emotionally and financially, but they took a big dump on all of it but making him show up.
Sad endings are rare in kdramas, and they're usually badly written (or tragic where everyone dies and things like that) but this one could've been the best sad ending I've seen in kdrama, and they ruined it. That's why we're angry, not because we're "kids".
-28y.o. male kdrama addict.
It rarely happens in kdramas but I never disliked a drama because one of the main couple passed away.
P.S: Rara was clearly over him, she smiled while talking about him, it was a beautiful sad ending.
1- NEVER add the whole stupid leukemia plot.
2- Make him disappear for less time. Maybe he ends up returning to recieve treatment with Rara because he missed her, or the old man reveals the secret before dying. or the mother, it could've been a great redeeming plot for her.
3- Make their meeting more emotional for Jun?? The whole leukemia thing was stupid but what it made all worse is the fact he came back as if it's been only a week for him. She was bathing in tears and he's laughing it off.
EDIT: credit to morpheus for pointing it out.
4- Just let Jun die.
Rara was already over his death, she could smile while talking about him with her new family. There was so much character growth that happened in the last 5 years and they just made it crumble.
I'm making another comment now after some thoughts settled in.
On a serious note I pretty much agree with everything you wrote.
Why did Jun's mother lie to her? She seemed to like her in the last meeting... Did Jun tell her to wear a black dress and deliver the news to her? Then this makes Jun even worse.
Was he in a coma for 5 years?! His body looks too fine for that to be the case, the heck!
EDIT: I dropped my rating of this drama from 9 to 7 just for the ending.