when you try to get someoneâs attention by behaving as you normally would and it doesnât work, you flip your behavior 180 degrees. Knowing everything, for the FL, it mattered that her husband love her and that there be trust in their love well, even if not complete trust, at least give their relationship a chance. But the ML wants to maintain just an employeeâboss relationship, which she doesnât want. She desires family and love, something sheâs yearned for all her life. He wants to trap her and keep her in that dynamic, while she wants the relationship to grow. She was never threatening him about his past, but he is threatening her regarding her career. So, she is responding with a tit-for-tat attitude.
And it isnât about women itâs about human psychology
1. If you try to make someone do something against their will, youâll meet resistance. 2. If a person doesnât respond to a direct approach, you change your approach.
Spoilerâď¸I just came across a ig reel that said that ML has a first love who is dead and he is still in love…
Just use a spoiler tag instead of that.
Anyway, the whole audience already knows the story for the most part, but people are still watching to see how the process unfolds. Itâs the first show where viewers are actually eagerly waiting for the separation/divorce.
I donât understand why the comment section is celebrating the 3 million. If the FL uses even 1 euro of his earnings or his resources in any way, then the MLâs claim will be proven true that sheâs a gold digger and opportunist. Personally, I liked her atitude, but if she donates it to charity or gives it to someone else, then her point will still stand that she didnât marry the ML for his money or financial gain, but only out of goodwill.
I saw a teaser for next episode and i felt so bad for Xu Yan. Shen HaoMing is Stupid . ShenHaoMing X Stupid =…
We can see that the FLâs lie came from her yearning to create a perfect family and experience the love she never had. On the other hand, the MLâs lie was only for the sake of an artificial marriage. And she never tried to harm him or take advantage of him or his family.
1. Episode 14 is when they officially get together.2. After episode 14, there is no breakup, just some misunderstandings…
The first episode makes it clear that her husband is involved but did he actually die accidentally while trying to kill his wife, or did he fake his death? Because I donât want him to come back into the lead coupleâs life.
Here we're waiting for the divorce era more than anyone wait for romance erađđđ
Here, the real romance will begin only after the divorce, because both of them have built walls around themselves and can no longer reach each other. Divorce will break down that wall, allowing them to step out of their masks and be free. Once they reveal their true selves, the genuine feelings theyâve kept locked away in their hearts will also be set free. After all, love exists in freedom.
But I think it is a big deal in China, having illegitimate children and especially as teenagers in a prominent…
I used to think China wasnât a conservative or orthodox country because, in their dramas, Iâve seen couples living together without being traditionally or legally married. They even show things like live-in relationships, BF-GF and one-night stands, reflecting a more open/western culture. So, wouldnât they also consider the possibility of having children before marriage? Either donât allow this kind of culture at all, or be prepared to deal with everything that comes with it. Of course, itâs a different matter if a mistake happens at a young age(underage in some country its punishable crime in front of society and law), when someone isnât mature enough to handle things properly in that case, hiding it might be justified.
My uncle has been in a live-in relationship with my aunt in Germany for 11 years, and they have two children. In their society, this kind of relationship is given the same respect as a legal marriage.
My friend was in a live-in relationship with his girlfriend, who was 3â4 months pregnant. She fell in love with someone else and wanted to have an abortion. My friend requested her to give birth to the child and hand the baby over to him he told her, âJust give me 7â8 more months of your life, and I wonât stop you from moving on.â They had a mutual understanding, and after giving birth, she left his life. Today, the child is 11â12 years old, and the father and son are living their lives proudly, without facing any demeaning comments from society.
Sadly, having a child before marriage is common nowadays like you said. Imo it shouldn't be though. But in ML…
This could be a real, logical reason, and I agree with it. But in the drama, itâs never mentioned that the marriage happened for this reason. Instead, theyâre portraying the child before marriage as a scandal that needed to be hidden which is exactly what my entire argument is based on. Based on all that Iâve seen so farâŚ
Where I live many wouldn't care about having a child before marriage, but over there they do seem to still care,…
Whatâs the MLâs age did he have a child while still underage? And when it comes to rich families, marriages are usually about mutual benefit, so thereâs no real need to control the partner, since both know that if one falls, the other falls too. In reality, marriages in rich families often involve exploiting each otherâs strength, resources and weaknesses. The ML is doing the same thing with the FL something he could have just done with a wealthy lady as well. so i don't see any different marrying rich or poor matter it.
Having a child before marriage is normal these days BUT he said not every woman will accept his son. So he thinks…
Even a wealthy woman would accept it, because in rich families the past doesnât really matter. Having a child before marriage isnât an issue whether itâs a live-in relationship, a love marriage, an arranged marriage, a one-night stand, or even something as serious as an extramarital affair, rape , murder, scandal, or crime, it all gets managed and swept under the rug. Often the world never finds out, and even if it does, it hardly makes any difference. These days, there are plenty of such examples in rich families.
when you try to get someoneâs attention by behaving as you normally would and it doesnât work, you flip your behavior 180 degrees. Knowing everything, for the FL, it mattered that her husband love her and that there be trust in their love well, even if not complete trust, at least give their relationship a chance. But the ML wants to maintain just an employeeâboss relationship, which she doesnât want. She desires family and love, something sheâs yearned for all her life. He wants to trap her and keep her in that dynamic, while she wants the relationship to grow. She was never threatening him about his past, but he is threatening her regarding her career. So, she is responding with a tit-for-tat attitude.
And it isnât about women itâs about human psychology
1. If you try to make someone do something against their will, youâll meet resistance.
2. If a person doesnât respond to a direct approach, you change your approach.
thats what FL is doing
Anyway, the whole audience already knows the story for the most part, but people are still watching to see how the process unfolds. Itâs the first show where viewers are actually eagerly waiting for the separation/divorce.
My uncle has been in a live-in relationship with my aunt in Germany for 11 years, and they have two children. In their society, this kind of relationship is given the same respect as a legal marriage.
My friend was in a live-in relationship with his girlfriend, who was 3â4 months pregnant. She fell in love with someone else and wanted to have an abortion. My friend requested her to give birth to the child and hand the baby over to him he told her, âJust give me 7â8 more months of your life, and I wonât stop you from moving on.â They had a mutual understanding, and after giving birth, she left his life. Today, the child is 11â12 years old, and the father and son are living their lives proudly, without facing any demeaning comments from society.