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Love Me korean drama review
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Love Me
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by JadeScrollsInMoonlight Clap Clap Clap Award1
24 days ago
12 of 12 episodes seen
Completed 3
Overall 8.0
Story 8.0
Acting/Cast 8.0
Music 4.0
Rewatch Value 6.0

“A Gentle Cure for a Condition That Was Never a Disease”

❄️☕Why I Went In With Caution:
Before diving deep into my review, let me make this clear first—just in case it causes any misunderstanding later. I absolutely loved this drama 🤍 It came to me like a warm hug during the cold January winter. I didn’t have high expectations, especially considering the recent state of K-dramas… they don’t really feel like K-dramas anymore. Honestly, 2025 hasn’t been a great year for them so far. Right from the start, projects like When the Stars Gossip felt like a premonition of what was ahead.


❄️☕Why This Drama Still Surprised Me
This one genuinely surprised me by bringing the healing K-drama vibe back. I love Seo Hyun-jin—I’ve followed her work for a long time. Yet, ironically, over the past few years I ended up dropping three of her dramas midway: Why Her, You Are My Spring, and The Trunk. All three had storylines I loved and had waited ages for, but for various reasons, I couldn’t finish them.

I’ve also seen many loneliness-themed, dysfunctional family dramas lose their way or turn oddly messy. As someone who loves this genre, it often becomes painful to continue. This, however, was a decent one after a long time.

Watching dramas at the pace I once did has taken a toll on me. Consuming so many shows in such a short span has aged me—both physically and mentally—as a viewer. I get tired easily now, can’t binge 16–40 hours straight, and end up dropping far more dramas than I used to. Mentally, I’ve seen so many tropes and complex plots that very little amazes me anymore. Finding a drama that truly surprises me has become rare.


❄️☕Why Finishing This Drama Actually Matters:
So the fact that I completed this one says a lot. I watched nearly 90% of it at 1x speed instead of my usual 2x, binged it in two days, didn’t skip scenes, and even rewound several moments to watch them again. That alone feels like a personal achievement.
While the content, storyline, characters, themes, pacing, and presentation were all right up my alley, I won’t shy away from voicing the questions and critiques that kept circling in my head throughout the show.


❄️☕What the Drama Does Beautifully With Loneliness
This drama really is like a hug—a cup of warm tea on a snowy evening. Especially when you’re sad, broken, alone… or even when you’re not. It explores loneliness so quietly, and the image of Jin-kyung sitting alone in her dark living room, silently watching TV, comes back again and again. It feels so familiar—like the everyday reality of so many office-working people now.
That depiction alone is comforting. It reminds you that you’re not the only one living like this, not the only one feeling this kind of emptiness. There’s something reassuring in knowing that someone out there understands your loneliness and portrays it so bare and raw.

It feels like a gentle pat on the back, like someone saying, “It’s okay.” That in one way or another, we’re all alone—and that someone, somewhere, knows it and empathises.

It comforts you with the idea of your “pair” waiting somewhere in this world, the importance of human connection and companionship. Because even when we say it’s okay to feel lonely, we often need someone beside us to say it out loud. And as Won-yeong once said, we can pretend in daylight—but in the darkness of night, it becomes painfully clear how deeply loneliness engulfs us, how impossible it is to ignore.


❄️☕Where My Discomfort Begins: Loneliness as a “Problem”:
Still, I kept questioning whether the drama exaggerated loneliness as something inherently tragic or defective. For me it felt less like loneliness itself was the issue and more like Jin-kyung’s relationship with it. Her pain didn’t come from being alone, but from the guilt—or maybe the shame—attached to it.


❄️☕The Idea of “Your Person” — Comforting or Limiting?:
The narrative leans into a comforting, yet slightly delusional idea: that everyone will eventually find their “pair,” someone who enters their life and suddenly lights everything up. But real life doesn’t always work that way. Many people live lives that are not just decent, but deeply fulfilling, without a romantic partner. Happiness isn’t a locked room waiting for the right person to hand you the key.


❄️☕Solitude, Shame, and the Industry’s Subtle Messaging:
It made me wonder—do we really need to become “brighter” just because someone arrives? And who decided that being bright, by some external standard, was even necessary? Solitude doesn’t automatically mean darkness. Sometimes it’s just quiet. Sometimes it’s expansive. Sometimes it’s even freeing.

Loneliness, like anything else, becomes harmful only in excess or when it turns into shame. The problem isn’t being alone—it’s being taught that you shouldn’t be.

At one point, I even wondered if the industry promotes romantic companionship the way luxury brands market themselves—so intensely that people start seeing it as a need rather than a want, and feel ashamed for not possessing it.
Of course, it is a story. It requires these elements. I know it’s not presenting an ideal, but rather a story of imperfection.


❄️☕Accepting the Story for What It Is:
However in the end, whatever the idea was, it was presented beautifully. Wrapped up so gently that most of my earlier questions and criticisms quietly dissolved. My anxious brain calmed down and humbly bent down to embrace the conclusion, almost as if the drama had followed my train of thought and decided to answer it in its own way.

Jin Kyung says towards the end:

"Happiness is quiet.
Misery is loud.
In that sense, maybe happiness is a lot like loneliness—
different in shape, color, and size for each of us.
The loneliness we all feel is different, but if you trace it back to its source, they say you’ll find love at the very end. When you crave something you can’t have, when you’re left waiting, that emptiness turns into loneliness.
Seen that way, maybe being lonely isn’t so bad after all.
It just hasn’t been fulfilled yet—and at the very least, it proves how much love still exists in my heart."
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