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Sleeping with each other is a giant step in their relationship. They never got physical before, so for Min it's the sign that everything will be alright and for Junho it's a last goodbye. So I would say it makes a big difference,not the same at all

That's the worst part. What a horrible, horrible thing to do to someone you love. If he died without even saying goodbye how would Min ever be supposed to move on? Also with no closure if he actually died, because Min would never really know, could only assume.

But at the same time it's supposed to be romantic because he died for him, not wanting even the possibility to hurt Min. It's honestly beyond me!

I don't understand the ending at all and the character motivation even less. If he knew he wanted to die anyway why the hell would he sleep with him? I thought he wanted to protect him from everything.
Shouldn't he be the one knowing how hard is to lose your true love? That's so cruel and so out of nowhere. Weird to me.

And like yes, I do get the drama aspect but dude the whole cruck of his character was his past trauma of losing the love of his life and now he's doing the exact same thing to Min like huh?! Why?!

You have your opinion and I have mine. You didn't even try to understand my point or argument so this is pointless. You think what you think and I think what I think

He said no when Tharn talked to him. Then they never discussed it again and Tharn decided by himself to ask Type without talking to him again. Type never had a moment in the series where he was by himself and thought about it or try and have a compromise with Tharn. It was simply never discussed again. And then suddenly it's fine? Nah that's a whole issue

That's hardly overthinking. Not accepting someone's decision to not wanna get married is cruel and shows how little he actually cares about Type's wishes when they contradict with his

No problem. It's still a very taboo topic and being curious is the best way to understand anything. I'm glad I could explain a few things :)

Absolutely no! The problem with Anastasia was that she didn't seem interested in even trying anything bdsm related which is already a red flag. She was clearly interested in Christian but that's it. There are so many scenes which are unacceptable in any ds relationship. For example he hit her and then left her crying for him. A real dom would never do that. I still get so angry and heartbroken just thinking about it.
He also ignored her safe word and continued a punishment. Absolutely unacceptable.
Every relationship is different of course so there's no 'right way' to get into bdsm. Maybe one partner can be interested in trying something with the other and that's how it starts. Very often, even before you go into a 'serious' relationship you research about it because it generally seems interesting or you're naturally curious.

Of course like explained in the movie, a relationship is not a must. Sometimes it's simply two people wanting to engage in ds acts. No feelings involved.

The most important thing is trust and consent. If you try out some bdsm related things and find yourself not enjoying it at all then simply don't. It's all about what both parties enjoy and are comfortable with.


In 50 shades it almost seems as if Anastasia tries to 'heal' Christian so he doesn't need to be a dom anymore. She also asks why they just can't do 'normal stuff'. All of these things are very clear signs that she isn't a sub and is not interested in being one. Which is more than fine, but since she loves Christian she still does ds related stuff.
It's a very... Distorted and toxic picture of bdsm.

A 10/10 recommendation for sure.
The only thing missing for me personally was one or two more scenes of aftercare. I know there was one but I still wish for one or two more. Except that an amazing entry to the bdsm world, respectful, fully consensual.
Everything you need.

Fifty shades of grey is anything but an accurate representation of the bdsm community honestly

They had such a strong premise and a strong start, it's sad all the rush ended after they arrived at the main location. They could have done SO MUCH and did nothing, it's sad.

Honestly a comfort show of mine. Not perfect but consistent and sweet.
I also really like the ending. Not overly cheesy or cringey just... Real life in a good way

Just delete the stupid jealousy storyline and instead have them learn from each other and accept their differences. Phap can't work in an office and Maze will never be as free spirited as Phap. That's fine.
Them finding a comprise within each other would have been so meaningful

The typical 'let's drag it out for 8 episodes instead of having a one minute conversation and actually mature topics'. The premise was so good, I was so disappointed it got dragged into this stereotypical jealousy plot

And that with THREE screenwriters. Maybe each of them got four episodes and never showed their script to the other two? ^^

We even had a flashback! With multiple scenes explaining they're siblings and STILL Phap gets riled up by Nueng? It's so weird to me. Like why show us a flashback when it's not even IN THE MAIN STORY. So that we know but the main guy Phap doesn't?! But that makes zero sense

So was there a mistranslation of Phap not getting the siblings thing? Because honestly that's the only way any of the jealousy would make any sense. Because if it wasn't the whole plot is one big hole

I think a big point is that Type very vocally said he does NOT want to get married. And instead of respecting that or trying to discuss a compromise Tharn acted as if Type's feelings don't matter and asked him anyway.
That made me genuinely angry.

Sorry but homphobia in itself is still not funny, sorry to break it to yall.

I just don't get how we're supposed to feel anything for them as a couple while they kiss when a scene earlier Jungwoo LITERALLY got Dogun fired out of spite?!
How narcissistic is he? Seriously.