Itâs completely normal/appropriate for FL to react the way she did over a close friend.
Itâs just the show failed to showcase that close bond between FL and SML. The writers simply didnât do enough to convince us of their friendship. It didnât help when they made SML have romantic feelings for FL the entire time. I mean you canât really call it a friendship if one of you feel more. They definitely shouldâve kept things between FL and SML vague. Like with Blossom
This is fiction. You can ship your ships. If that is FL with Ye Xian cuz you find Winwin attractive, so be it?? There is no need to play mental gymnastics.
We are over a third of the way through the drama and ML is more like a glorified guest character. Only shows up in the last two minutes of each episode in case we forget
The issue with SML having main role in a non-love-triangle-centric drama is that this character typically has no storyline aside from being one of FLâs love interest/suitor.
We already saw that in Sunbae Universe where entirety of SML screentime was him wooing FL and going on dates with her. And look how that turned out.
That said, we donât have a small child for FL to have ML babysit so she can go on dates with SML unlike Sunbae Universe.
Your giving no follow up on your review is bad thing. So? How did it go for you?
We can agree to disagree. Although I strongly feel if ML isnât in the picture and/or if ML character isnât the main âmale leadâ, FL one hundred percent wouldâve gotten together with SML.
Also, if you ever come across my comments on other dramas on this site, youâll have a clearer picture on how I feel about delulu SMLs with their one sided love for FL and second lead syndrome itself - (Cheer Up 2022 e.g.)
Your giving no follow up on your review is bad thing. So? How did it go for you?
Letâs put it this way.
Have you ever watched a romance/romcom and thought âwell, FL& ML are going to like each other and end up with each other cuz they happen to be playing the main roles in a romance/romcomâ?
There was nothing natural about how the leads fell for each other. FL got to see how much pain ML is in and she feels pity for him. That was somehow twisted into her loving him. ML also fell for him for no real reason as well. Again, mistaking pity for love.
And guess what? With FL&SML the show actually took time to build up their dynamic/relationship in a natural and organic manner. FL actually meets SML first and they quickly strike up a friendship. They did lots of hanging out in the first few episode. Lots of screen time for just the two together. Of course, SML fell for FL at first sight so all their spending time together SML definitely saw that as their romance blossoming. SML character is also pitiful cuz essentially ML just came in and stole FL from him. ML is definitely a villain in SML story.
To summarize, at first the show gives you 101 reasons why FL&SML should be together only to then bring in ML and forced a romance between ML&FL. At least, thatâs what I got from putting everything into context.
Can you truly befriend someone that you, yourself said âlustedâ for you and fell in love with you after youâve rejected/declined their advances?
Itâs one thing if youâre going to stay single and you donât mind befriending them, but youâre going into a committed relationship with someone else.
What would your partner/spouse think, and would they be OK with it?
And who is to say that person settled on being your friend cuz they want to stay close to you in hopes of being next in line?
Even then what if your relationship gets a bit rocky and they use it to their advantage with ulterior motives?
Even if your intentions are genuine in only wanting to be their friend, you canât really know theirs. Only time will tell but the flip side of that is lots of people cheat on their partners with other people around them since itâs convenient
I honestly donât understand the amount of hate the sunbae gets here. From what I saw, he was simply trying from…
1.) Sunbae berated Tae Hyung for not protecting his beloved Hyun Jin as if he has any say in what goes on inside of a family (ml+fl+baby). Sunbae made it sound like Tae Hyung is at fault for the situation.
2.) Sunbae belittled Tae Hyung when he said he knows how to offer love since he comes from a loving family when talking to Hyun Jin
3.) Sunbae doesnât care about WooJoo. He uses WooJoo to get closer to Hyun Jin and spend more time with her. Case in point - EP 10 WooJoo recital. Letâs not pretend we donât know why Sunbae didnât tell Hyun Jin about seeing Tae Hyung.
It is WooJooâs big day, and WooJoo shouldâve gotten to see his uncle. Sunbae did not care about that. He didnât want Tae Hyung to interrupt his date with Hyun Jin because thatâs what the day was for him.
4.) After losing both his parents at a young age WooJoo now needs stability and consistency more than ever. WooJoo quickly bonded with his uncle and it was beautiful seeing how well their dynamic works. WooJoo needed Tae Hyung just as much as Tae Hyung needed WooJoo.
Sunbae sees that with his own two eyes, yet he was desperately trying to drive Tae Hyung away so he can be in a one horse race for Hyun Jin (sunbae did so successfully for a time).
Itâs just the show failed to showcase that close bond between FL and SML. The writers simply didnât do enough to convince us of their friendship. It didnât help when they made SML have romantic feelings for FL the entire time. I mean you canât really call it a friendship if one of you feel more. They definitely shouldâve kept things between FL and SML vague. Like with Blossom
If that is FL with Ye Xian cuz you find Winwin attractive, so be it?? There is no need to play mental gymnastics.
Also, some yums do be yucky tho
Is he not just acting his age? Young enough to not know how to regulate his emotions so he often lash out? Or is there more nuance to his character?
EDIT : I personally think the actor is doing a good job portraying the character
We are over a third of the way through the drama and ML is more like a glorified guest character. Only shows up in the last two minutes of each episode in case we forget
How pathetic is that
Although I doubt SML will offer anything other than the guy that gets the short end in that love triangle
We already saw that in Sunbae Universe where entirety of SML screentime was him wooing FL and going on dates with her. And look how that turned out.
That said, we donât have a small child for FL to have ML babysit so she can go on dates with SML unlike Sunbae Universe.
Also, if you ever come across my comments on other dramas on this site, youâll have a clearer picture on how I feel about delulu SMLs with their one sided love for FL and second lead syndrome itself - (Cheer Up 2022 e.g.)
Have you ever watched a romance/romcom and thought âwell, FL& ML are going to like each other and end up with each other cuz they happen to be playing the main roles in a romance/romcomâ?
There was nothing natural about how the leads fell for each other. FL got to see how much pain ML is in and she feels pity for him. That was somehow twisted into her loving him. ML also fell for him for no real reason as well. Again, mistaking pity for love.
And guess what? With FL&SML the show actually took time to build up their dynamic/relationship in a natural and organic manner. FL actually meets SML first and they quickly strike up a friendship. They did lots of hanging out in the first few episode. Lots of screen time for just the two together. Of course, SML fell for FL at first sight so all their spending time together SML definitely saw that as their romance blossoming. SML character is also pitiful cuz essentially ML just came in and stole FL from him. ML is definitely a villain in SML story.
To summarize, at first the show gives you 101 reasons why FL&SML should be together only to then bring in ML and forced a romance between ML&FL. At least, thatâs what I got from putting everything into context.
Itâs one thing if youâre going to stay single and you donât mind befriending them, but youâre going into a committed relationship with someone else.
What would your partner/spouse think, and would they be OK with it?
And who is to say that person settled on being your friend cuz they want to stay close to you in hopes of being next in line?
Even then what if your relationship gets a bit rocky and they use it to their advantage with ulterior motives?
Even if your intentions are genuine in only wanting to be their friend, you canât really know theirs. Only time will tell but the flip side of that is lots of people cheat on their partners with other people around them since itâs convenient
Good luck this time around đđ€
2.) Sunbae belittled Tae Hyung when he said he knows how to offer love since he comes from a loving family when talking to Hyun Jin
3.) Sunbae doesnât care about WooJoo. He uses WooJoo to get closer to Hyun Jin and spend more time with her. Case in point - EP 10 WooJoo recital. Letâs not pretend we donât know why Sunbae didnât tell Hyun Jin about seeing Tae Hyung.
It is WooJooâs big day, and WooJoo shouldâve gotten to see his uncle. Sunbae did not care about that. He didnât want Tae Hyung to interrupt his date with Hyun Jin because thatâs what the day was for him.
4.) After losing both his parents at a young age WooJoo now needs stability and consistency more than ever. WooJoo quickly bonded with his uncle and it was beautiful seeing how well their dynamic works. WooJoo needed Tae Hyung just as much as Tae Hyung needed WooJoo.
Sunbae sees that with his own two eyes,
yet he was desperately trying to drive Tae Hyung away so he can be in a one horse race for Hyun Jin (sunbae did so successfully for a time).
FL has been constantly rejecting SML, and he took advantage of her while she was drunk. (+ sml initiated btw)
DRUNK PEOPLE CANNOT GIVE CONSENT!
Apparently many people here and on YouTube loved it because that kiss was HOT according to them đ
The rest literally says in-laws having to take care of the nephew after a tragedy.