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oh wow hes way too old that would be shit

and yet here you are

mo its very unsettling its her best friend daughter FFS if it was a gay men or straight shiw people would be up in arms

no its not homophobia lots of people shit all over the goblin age gap and lots of people defend it. The age gap here is disgusting and worse its the child of the FLs best friend and ex boyfriend like its pathetic

so toxic bullies but women fall for them anyway forget that misogonystic bullshit leave it in the past. so lame

I kniw but she agreed to be in a romance with that old fart from squid game what the hell is she thinking

amazingly old

what a moronic comment noone asked anyone and its gonna be a total flop

okay cool thats well explained. I think my understanding is enhanced thank you. In the end you do understand her better. Its like she understands why she did it and that it was not whats considered right. Yet somehow you feel shes equally relieved she dodged a bad relationship as she is that she made up with hubby. Shes not evil of course and she does remember and rekindle her love for her husband. Thats good. Maybe its lost in translation but it just seems crass to say that as opposed to im glad I was caught I never loved the other guy anyway it was just the attention etc but she says im glad I was caught because I loved him but he didnt love me thats the writing choice I didnt get. Its like ok I see her but then its like oh Im not sure now. And while that of course doesnt make her evil even though I did call her a cheating bitch 😒 it does rule out any chance of reconciliation IMO. Its like shes still cheating its like shes saying I dont fully regret it because if he loved me too id be gone so coming back to you is my back up my second choice. Which when you consider all the soul searching he went through is a bit cruel.

you know I agree I just dont understand the writers intention with the blog post again your really well written comment just kinda crashes like a tide on that blog post beach. I just cant get my head around it. It just kinda feels like a weird FU to the audience like you know you thought it was this but maybe 🤔......not

your comments are thoughtful and well written. Forgiveness is healthy and holding on to anger and bitterness is not that is true. But in this case the forgiveness was not earned or asked for properly. It is to me a very strange story. It actually feel it is easy to understand her. People do things like that all the time she is quite realistic in that sense. He, however, is not realistic. People who put up with cheating do so out of fear because they are trapped or don"t have the will or the means to leave. They generally don't forgive and move on but when they do they dont do it for someone as undeserving as her the cheater has usually begged and made commitments etc. The writer here is very clearly justifying cheating as a kind of understandable if extreme part of a relationship one that can be over come. That in itself is bad enough but he is also putting the burden of decision on the partner who didnt cheat. He must forgive and move on she just remains her true thoughts being well I'll stay with him and as long as he does better I wont cheat again. Like leave him woman dont torture him.

Trying to understand her is like trying to understand a man who loses it and beats his wife. He was lost he couldnt communicate he lost himself he still.loved her he just forgot. All grand but it does not make it right.

So she is easy to understand people like her are common he is really not easy to understand and the writers choices are really not easy to understand. Its a kind of misandry almost.

Exactly this is just pretentious BS justifying cheating. Reverse the genders watch the rating plummet women are such hypocrites when it comes to cheating and have such a double standard.

ok I see the difference in context re the blog post. But its still not good. The point is she does not say im glad I woke up im glad I realised how wrong I was I was so stupid. She says ah I thought that guy really loved me "as much as I loved him". In other words I was going to leave my husband i was ready to go. She is not saying i knew never loved the guy i just wanted to feel something I was just lost I lost myself. You are saying that the wife or the writer arent. Thats why at the end if the day she is nothing more than a cheating bitch. Mental gymnastics wont change the core fact. She doesnt stop because her husband loves her or she loves her husband she stops because she loves the guy shes cheating with but he doesnt love her.
TEST Reverse the genders how would the husband be viewed.
This is just the usual justifying cheating BS

he said sometimes i wish i hadnt gone back for her (he based his college decisions on following her) he then got a severe life affecting injury saving her from harm which meant he struggled to work. He says all this in a low moment at the funeral of a father who abused the shit out of her. And what she cant talk it out, cut him some slack. He never her intended to hear it. He apologises explains that he met an old friend he may have thoughts like that once in a while but he totally loves her. Please shes an absolute piece of work its just more of the double standard we apply to women vs men regarding ending relationships or cheating. When men do things like this they are selfish horrible just users and cant commit to one woman. When women do it its because of profound growth and realisation self actualising blah blah. Its such hypocrisy. I think of "The Third Charm" "My wife's having an affair this week" "Long Time no Sex" "Yumis Cells" even 2521 all these women cheating or ending relationships because they have unilaterally decided it wont work. The men btw are not to be pitied they just have to accept its actually their fault in the cheating cases. In the other cases they have to accept the woman's wisdom graciously and perhaps have to read a really patronising letter. They then should smile wistfully and forgive and forget.

no she was selfish and cruel for being done with him after that ione ncident after all they'd been through and she knew how much he cared etc totally so like it was cruel and selfish

until.she does it again

yeah men cheat their corny scumbags women cheat their lost in despair need love blah blah

doesnt what she wrote in the blog post that she would of kept doing it if she wasn't caught disavow all the analysis you just made

but its obvious. Like they were together so how could it be the wrong time. She chose to dump him for saying an understandable emotional thing and dumped him after hed bascally based his whole life on being with her. And when she leaves him he tells her he ll wait but she goes and just marries someone else while hes still waiting on her. Hes a Simp and she is totally selfish thats it. He broke hus back for her and in a moment t if weakness expresses a real human feeling not intended for her but instead of trying to understand she just leaves him like how are you suppose to sympathise with or care about a woman like that its not bittersweet its just cruel

LOL Not really they were together. He was devoted said one thing and she just left him and went off and married someone else thats not timing. He loved her she used him. Its not an enjoyable story at all thats my point. Why make an unsatisfying movie about a simp and a selfish woman who uses him and drops him at will. Then she gets married and he is left forlorn and lonely. Maybe some women enjoy the fantasy of having power like that who knows.