Sher1264

I think things were different for some of the older actors - no internet back then for people to make such a ruckus over their favorite actor or idol being in a relationship - people are just too crazy nowadays with that. and kowtowing to netizens makes me want to pull my hair out at times - they are allowing their lives to be dictated by fans. I say live your life!

he just angers me when he says thing s like "..it makes me hate you" - using the word hate when speaking about your kid is just wrong. I might dislike things my son does but i would never even think of saying i hated him - especially to his face like KS did to SJ.

The one thing this has shown is that despite all of the bantering and picking at each other that SW and SJ do - they do love each other and care about each other deeply - SJ said she only had one brother and she didn't want any other brother except SW. It might have sounded childish but to me it shows how much she loves her big brother. He's the only brother for her. BUT we know she likes EH - she has said she thinks EH is cute and when she finds out he is also her big brother i think she will come around quickly and accept him - it will be harder for her to accept EA. Those two will be like oil and water but i bet they will be besties by the ed of the drama.

not to mention how actors and actresses do not make their relationships public - nor get married early - they establish their careers and maintain a low profile for years - into their late 30s early 40s before marrying - so to have these two become engaged when she hasn't even established her career yet is just strange.

I honestly don’t think KS looked for those kids as much as he has said he did. I think KS has his own secrets to be revealed. It’s painfully obvious he doesn’t want the kids living in his house.

Oh I don’t think we will get a wedding until towards the end of this drama and maybe not even a wedding but maybe they will be engaged - you know it will all end well. But I do believe the families will meet for the engagement - and I think JA will go to voice her disapproval and then when she sees who the parents are - I think it will be like a bomb 💣 going off. 🧨🌋💥

It’s going to get really bad once the families realize who each other are - and I think EH is going to resent SW for a while before he finds out he is ES’s boyfriend - and really he has no reason to resent him. HY is delusional - you can’t force someone to love you. I don’t get why EH isn’t mad that HY is going to try to break up a relationship between to people just because she wants the guy for herself. If someone I liked said that I would be out of there so fast! That’s not a red flag, that’s like a red 🚨 going off in my head shouting “danger! Danger!” ‼️ The writers have given us no reason for EH’s reaction to the things witchie-poo says - that’s a stalker talking. As a cop he should be telling her outright that what she is doing is harassment.

I said at the beginning of this drama that I wondered if they would have DG and JA fall back in love - but as the drama progressed, and I saw how useless DG is - I immediately knew that was not going to happen - I do not believe JA will ever be swayed by DG again. I do believe, DG would be swayed - because that is how wishy-washy he is. He has talked about JA a lot in the course of this drama and it’s always been with a positive vibe - he can’t understand how she would ever abandon her kids…but we have JA talking negatively about DG - there is no love lost on her side and I can now see why. If the writers want to completely finish destroying DG’s character (I don’t like him now and I doubt I ever will) they will have him start falling for JA again - it won’t surprise me if he does - that’s the kind of useless jerk he is.

I didn’t see JA’s showing any kind of affection for him - I thought she looked stunned when he said it - I really thought she was gonna slap him too. And she tells KS everything - she told him the truth - DG on the other hand twisted it all around to CY ( just like CY does to DG too every time she meets with JA) and he didn’t tell CY how he slipped and called JA Yeobo. I guarantee KS will confront DG about that in front of CY when these two families meet. It’s gonna get nastier imo.

I don’t think EH will find out SW is ES’s boyfriend until they all meet at the engagement meeting. It’s gonna be a big blow up when they all realize who each other are.

And I do agree with you that they need to wait on SW and SJ to come to terms with having other siblings. And JA even admitted she was going to tell DG that they needed to give her kids more time and to hold off on EA moving in - then DG started asking her to let it go because it would be too painful to CY to be apart from “her” kids - I don’t blame JA for her negative reaction. This is the problem with DG and CY - they should feel blessed they had those kids for 30 years and will continue to be a part of their lives, and be gracious in letting go for JA to get to know them if that is what the kids want - instead they continue to rub salt into her huge wound and lay guilt trips on both EH and EA. Of course JA’s hackles are going to raise and she is going to snap right back - anyone would. DG has a lot of nerve comparing what JA went through for 30 years to CY not being able to see them everyday at the dinner table. CY can meet with them everyday if she wanted to. JA didn’t even know where they were or if they were even alive for 30 years. There is no comparison.

And that “excuse” was pure 💩.

He will definitely look at his dad and CY differently. He will also remember he asked his dad why he divorced his mom and remember how his dad didn’t want to answer the question.

Witchie-poo after hearing ES tell her she was going to audition: "I told you that you couldn't"

This woman thinks she can TELL her employees what decisions they can and cannot make? I was so happy ES told her that CEO Kim recommended she go for it - that look of hatred HY has is just evil.

he is a useless, wishy-washy, cowardly jerk.

I agree - the engagement is happening too fast - this is because, once again, the writers spent too much time on the villainous SFL. Now they have to hurry things along - same thing happened in the last daily drama - right around ep 70 - then everything got rushed only to have the last 3-4 weeks dealing with a not dead wife returning to claim her daughter - for nefarious reasons - I can see this drama is running the same course.

his dad too laid a lot of guilt on him as well "your "mom" will be upset if you spend a lot of time with your birth mother..."

Wasn't CY the one being sympathetic at the beginning when EH told him about JA crying over her missing kids for 30 years? CY: "As a mom I cannot imagine her pain. That is terrible." But because it is JA, now she is acting like JA should never get to see EH or EA. "Those are MY kids." Um, NO they are NOT, technically. You didn't give birth to them. I get how she is feeling - she raised them for 30 years - but she is still a STEP-mother. She cannot erase that FACT. It doesn't mean she did love them as her own. But if she never adopted them (and she couldn't because JA would have had to sign the papers) then no, even by law she isn't their "mom". This is nothing against step-moms - they are great - I was almost a step-mom to two great girls - loved them to death - but that didn't make me their mom. They had a mom.

The person I dislike the most is DG - like I said in another post - the man is a useless, wishy-washy, and a coward. ALL of this lays at his feet. his actions caused a chain reaction to ALL of this mess. Had the divorce not happened, NONE of this would have happened.

Yeah - he is just a useless, wishy-washy, cowardly jerk. I thought JA stayed pretty calm with both him and CY and she was right - they both seem to be calling her out to meet them - she needs to stop meeting them if all they are going to do is go at her for things she had no control over.

But you have to also look at it this way - CY has never had her kids taken away from her - she may not have been like she is towards them if she had - their experiences are totally different as mothers. You have one mom who had her kids removed from her and she had no idea where they were or if they were ok or even alive - she spent 30 years searching for them - i imagine part of her heart was dead after that - i am not saying that excuses her from not showing affection to her other two kids but I can see where it can happen- on the other hand we have CY who not only got the man she wanted from JA but also got her kids and had her own child with DG and never had to go through the experience of them missing - so when they talk about how upset CY will be for EA to move in with JA because it would be "painful" for her to be parted from them, I really have to roll my eyes. They will be 10 minutes down the road - it isn't like JA is taking them out of the country never to be seen or heard from for the next 30 years....

I doubt JA will catch feelings for DG again but as wishy-washy as he is, I can totally see him having feelings for JA - that was an odd scene for writers to throw in there.

My point was he being a bit snarky to his sister and the choice she is making - why does he care if she calls KS father or not ? If he doesn’t want to that is his right and his decision but he shouldn’t be forcing his opinion on to his sister - KS IS their step dad - the same as CY is the step-mom - you can’t get around that fact. Being a step-mom doesn’t mean EH doesn’t love her - it just means she didn’t give birth to him and is not his “mother”. You only have 1 birth mother and no matter how CY wishes it, she is not their birth mother - no matter how much she wishes JA didn’t show up, she did and has a right to see her kids if they wish to see her and establish a relationship - and throwing it in JA’s face every time she sees her that she didn’t raise her two kids is so disrespectful imo. It would be one thing if JA did abandon them and didn’t care all those years, but that is not the case. She loved her kids and never stopped looking for them and it’s really horrible for CY to continue to rub salt in her wound the way she does - is JA supposed to just sit back and take that from CY? I certainly wouldn’t. I can totally understand JA’s reaction.

I am really beginning to think the families will finally all meet at SW’s and ES’s engagement meeting - that will be awkward and I imagine the fight will break out like in the picture poster.

DG also twists his conversations with JA around - I notice he left out the part of him calling her Yeobo. And he was the one yelling, not her. She should have kicked him in the shins when he grabbed her like that outside.

And seriously, his excuse is such 💩. There is no excuse for a married man spending all night at an ex’s house under the guise of “taking care of her while she was sick” Puh-Leeze! 🙄

Did EH even hear himself talking? “Her husband is there too. Are you going to call him father?” - you’ve been calling CY “mom” for 30 years - how is it much different? CY is your step-mom. EH disappointed me. I get where he is coming from but if his sister wants to go then he should be supportive - you never will get to know your mom if you don’t spend time with her. Where is his tender heart he had for JA when he saw her crying over her missing kids? Does he not feel any thing for her now that he knows he is one of those kids?