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Replying to Sometimes1 13 days ago
Title The Love Lab
He matched her pacing, showed maturity, not being swayed by his date with Yerim.Yerim's decision to make him the…
Defense mechanisms at play imo
First impressions, shocked by her attraction to a younger man.๐Ÿ˜‚

Most people would take that as a rejection.

His demeanor didn't change.

None of the smart men decided to chase two women in a cohabitation experiment lasting five days.

Males, when pressed admitted interest for Gayeon. Choices have consequences.
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Replying to Sometimes1 13 days ago
Title The Love Lab
You can blame the narrative if its misleading, it wasn't. He screwed up.You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse…
Mean Girls have difficulty with introspection.

Pointing out it's women attacking other women isnt personal.

You sound boosted ๐Ÿ˜ท๐Ÿ’‰ is the next logical step in demonstrating cognitive dissonance take.

Millions of people, including highly educated fell for the coercion.

Our egoes get in the way of admitting our shortcomings and mistakes.

Pretty Ballerino is a 'player' .

The mean girls went after Yerim /Gayeon for contrast without being neutral observers or offering a valid argument.

Gayeon didn't emulate the pretty Ballerino's behaviour. You noted she went to others for advice on her feelings and complained about it 700x?

The pretty Ballerino hid from Yerim, strung her along. Others in the experiment noted, took her side and tried to get them to have a honest conversation. He refused to go to the tent until 2:30 am. Avoidance strategy ๐Ÿ’ฏ. His excuse using the time to process his emotions ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ and was going to answer her. Pure BS.

The final secret date before final selection, ๐Ÿฅ 36-42 hours later did Yerim get his honesty? Yerim was eliminated as a woman the second her learned her age.

Inconsiderate, callous, cowardly labels are a fair assessment on his behaviour towards Yerim. Not debatable.
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Replying to Sometimes1 13 days ago
Title The Love Lab
You can blame the narrative if its misleading, it wasn't. He screwed up.You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse…
Mean Girls request denied.

How many boosters did you get this year?

Criticism of his behaviour towards Yerim remains valid.

Stop trying to make fetch happen.

He's not into you.
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Replying to Sometimes1 13 days ago
Title The Love Lab
You can blame the narrative if its misleading, it wasn't. He screwed up.You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse…
Nope wrong on all your assumptions.

You're in denial his attire, body language,non verbal cues he sent to the women comes from experience. He moved on at light speed after learning Yerims age. Interrupting Gayeon's tent date with Dogeon.

No hesitation.

Pretty Ballerino told Gayeon he had two long term relationships and others that lasted one hundred days. That's called evidence, albeit inconvenient facts for the mean girls.
Gayeon thinks he's a player โš ๏ธ and he immediately moves to diffuse it.

"Prolonged Eye Gaze. Holding anotherโ€™s eye gaze a bit longer than usual is a sign of interest. Mutual eye gazeโ€”looking into each otherโ€™s eyesโ€”can be arousing, so we usually hold it briefly. Prolonged gaze suggests that there is attraction and a desire to connect." Psychology Today 8 Nonverbal Signs of Sexual Interest

Gayeon is affected by it as was Yerim. Nearly all the women noticed his behaviour.

My opinions are formed from a series of observations without a bias. I didn't attempt to deflect it by blaming others. That's on the mean girls.

Lastly, those exhibiting cognitive dissonance are immune from the truth.

I'm betting you wore ๐Ÿ˜ท๐Ÿ’‰๐Ÿ’‰๐Ÿ’‰๐Ÿ’‰๐Ÿ’‰ still worship Fauci.
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Replying to Sometimes1 13 days ago
Title The Love Lab
Nope, she acknowledged their appeal is completely different. Her dating history is picking the physical attraction…
Simps for the pretty face blaming every other female for his behaviour is the Tell.

Your envy that Gayeon is more attractive and had almost every male notice that.

Mean Girls

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
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Replying to Sometimes1 13 days ago
Title The Love Lab
Nope, you fell for the his pretty face and are envious of the youngest female that got nearly everyone else to…
Simps for the pretty boy don't have a leg to stand on. He's not going to pick you.
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Replying to jugoshippo 13 days ago
Title The Love Lab
with all due respect.. Yerim was so annoyin and frustrating to watch. she s not emotionally mature enough to b…
Nope, you fell for the his pretty face and are envious of the youngest female that got nearly everyone else to vote against him.
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Replying to Sometimes1 14 days ago
Title The Love Lab
Nope, she acknowledged their appeal is completely different. Her dating history is picking the physical attraction…
Transparency matters.

One lied to Yerim and never gave her an honest answer.

Gayeon informed both males chasing her about her dilemma. She's been consistently conflicted when he began chasing her.

Nope, I have no delusion you're open to the facts.

I understand signs of cognitive dissonance quite well.

I'm not glossing over any of the participants, attempting to shift blame.
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Replying to Sometimes1 14 days ago
Title The Love Lab
You can blame the narrative if its misleading, it wasn't. He screwed up.You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse…
No, I acknowledge facts, many of the women on the show called him attractive and were interested. They never acted upon that interest.

I don't hold that against him.

He should be held to a higher standard based upon age and likely dating experience.

I've explained group dynamics, risk vs reward on these dating shows when you chase multiple people.

Shaping the narrative and blame does happen, this isn't one of them, he earned the disdain.
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Replying to Sometimes1 14 days ago
Title The Love Lab
Nope, she acknowledged their appeal is completely different. Her dating history is picking the physical attraction…
It's not even close.

Ballerino knew it was over on day two, evening, knew she was still invested.

He STILL didn't come clean to suggest she has ZERO chance on the final selection. (Cowardly 100%)

We see Gayeon conflcted on the second day when he actively starts to chase her?

There's no problem being attracted to other people, several of them were attracted but they never acted on those emotions.

Gayeon explains to several people including Jungmin she's conflicted. They have different appeals.

Gayeon hasn't concluded she's made a final selection. She's transparent about her discomfort of choosing between them.
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Replying to Sometimes1 14 days ago
Title The Love Lab
You can blame the narrative if its misleading, it wasn't. He screwed up.You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse…
Hold everyone to the same standards. You're not and the bias for the pretty face is clear.

He four years older, he knew it was over the second he learned of her age but chose to dismiss her feelings, didn't give her closure and the opportunity to find someone else. (Fact)

Read the comments section ninety per cent are negative on his behaviour.

This experiment has them cohabiting for a week, that requires consideration of others. He chased, flirted and sat closely next to her for two days and knew she was interested in him. She confessed.

You can choose cowardly and callous if you read the comment section.
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Replying to shantele 14 days ago
Title The Love Lab
Meanwhile, if weโ€™re looking for questionable dating-show behavior, can we talk about Gayeon? She has told us…
Nope, she acknowledged their appeal is completely different. Her dating history is picking the physical attraction and getting badly hurt .

Gyeong Ho chasing after Yerim for the first two days gave Gayeon the opportunity to discover and connect with someone that moved her by simply holding her hand and conversation. She spent 163 โ™ฅ on Jungmin to make him King and secure a date outside after the date with Gyeong Ho (17 โ™ฅ)
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It makes sense why she feels conflicted. Ballerino for lust or a cerebral dating experience.

I bet her hormones pick the pretty face and she gets burned again. ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ
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Replying to shantele 14 days ago
Title The Love Lab
I honestly donโ€™t understand why Gyeong Ho is being treated like he did something terrible. Theyโ€™ve known each…
You can blame the narrative if its misleading, it wasn't. He screwed up.

You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse his bad behaviour.

Gyenong Ho 26yrs old, knew when they revealed age and employment Yerim 22yrs old was no longer a woman. He strung her along that evening and the next two days.

Upon his return from their date immediately went after Gayeon interrupting her tent date with Dogeyon.

He became a coward by running away, avoiding eye contact, having a conversation to end her one-side attraction until the day before the final selection.
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Replying to Sometimes1 14 days ago
Title The Love Lab
The courage of the youngest impressed me the most by correctly calling out Kang Gyeong Ho behaviour that was inconsiderate…
๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿซฃ๐Ÿ˜‚Kang Gyeong Ho
The pretty one should have given you the clue.
The Ballerino.
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Replying to ErisFerris3 14 days ago
To episode 2, I'm sooooooo surprised that my favorite is a GUY. It never happened, the women are always so much…
This experiment is for one week? (100min - 200min max) date
"All-in" vs dividing them and hope the person spends enough to secure a date.
You have a finite window to use them: 100% guarantees you have a date to qualify them as a romantic interest or not the next day.
Before time expires, come to a mutual agreement on blocks for tomorrow.
Participants that have split amongst four didn't fare well unless someone went in 70% or greater?
50% worked split between two secured one date.

Do-gon seems the most mature so far, preparation of thoughtful gifts, investment all in of blocks 2x.

SeonHo was invited for groceries and cooking by Min Young. It didn't affect his voting decision later that evening.

He was consistent splitting amongst two women. Unlikely he will spend on Ro Bin to secure a conversation if things progress with Yeji.

Yeji became flustered discovering they have a blog history and he kept following her after they both recovered. She wanted to continue their conversation after they returned.

Both are introverts and don't initiate. Them freezing up when they first met one on one during the intro was hilarious.
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Replying to HNN 14 days ago
Title Dream to You Spoiler
This started off really fun and sweet, but now they've just added every wild card in there to force more emotional…
We're missing the white truck ๐Ÿš› for his father. ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’€
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Replying to GloriousInMelody 14 days ago
Title The Love Lab
ep11 yerim is way tooo young for this show, especially against her fellow cast
The courage of the youngest impressed me the most by correctly calling out Kang Gyeong Ho behaviour that was inconsiderate towards her. She noted the shift on the first date ๐Ÿ‘€, continued to invest in him while seeking clarity. Her labeling his behaviour on day two as a ๐Ÿถ in the manger is ๐Ÿ’ฏ .

She didn't sit back, Coronation ๐Ÿ‘‘ Dogeon's and joined others to block Yungho and Gayeon. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

King ๐Ÿ‘‘ Dogeon's pushed Kang Gyeong Ho to be honest, Gayeon put Jungmin ahead of himโค๏ธ. He gave Yerim advice to not give up without getting answers.
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Replying to DVa2000 14 days ago
Title The Love Lab
King game is taking WAY too looooooong. Yerimโ€™s sticky moist mouth sounds are irritating me to no end. the first…
There was no third wheel, the bed sharing made it impossible to avoid direct conversation and distancing when faced with uncertainty. Flight wasn't an option.
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Replying to wyacdr 14 days ago
Title The Love Lab
If youโ€™ve watched hs5, this is legit that but a shorter version LOLJunhyeon = JungminYugyeong = GayeonWooyeol…
Kang Gyeong Ho should have admitted her age of matching his sister made it impossible for him to see her as a woman on the car ride home. Yerim was right in describing his avoidance strategy wasn't kindness and filled her with false hope . He modified his behaviour in the group dynamics by not distancing himself so blatantly from Yerim the next morning.

You can relate to Gayeon being conflicted with her choices.
One brings a change in her pattern. Option two is repeating her pattern of choosing based upon physical attraction. She's trying to add other qualities to justify her choice with Kang Gyeong Ho.
Dogeon-Chaerin and Hayoon Hyewon have been consistent during the show, not sure if there's enough for dating afterwards.
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Replying to Sometimes1 14 days ago
Why has the production staff withheld the voting of several participants to shape their narrative?Robin went all…
Thanks for the correction.

I'll have to rewatch those episodes specifically for their voting and their thought process behind it to guess the ships.

They didn't secure any dates and I don't remember the panelists talking about them and their decisions. I'm pretty sure I didn't fall asleep on those parts.

Cleared up
Beginning of EP2 they show the block voting that took place that evening.
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