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I disagree. That’s all. ☺️

I said “Taeh knew what he did” I didn’t say it was just the cheating. I was referring to all the times he’s mistreated oh-aew. We’ve seen a lot of unfaithful characters in dramas but it doesn’t necessarily mean I dislike them for it. I’m talking about Taeh’s selfishness and insecurities that made me dislike his character.

I never said that the cheating is not redeemable. Please read again. I said, Taeh knew exactly what he did and did nothing to redeem himself AFTER. The act of cheating itself is not what I’m focusing on. I am talking about how he treated O-Aew before and afterwards. Even before he got himself tangled up with the director, he mistreated his partner on many levels. His own insecurities and selfishness made me dislike him and he didn’t deserve O-Aew.

“Cheating leaves the cheater utterly unredeemable”? I never said that. I don’t know where you got this quote from.

I said it’s comical how people- not you. I never mentioned you directly so again, I don’t know where you’re getting this from.

To answer your question, it is not a matter of whether or not one should confess, but about how one should not commit such act in the first place. However, If my partner strayed, even just once, and we are both in a committed relationship, that person should respect me enough to give me the truth. It is then in MY power to decide whether or not to forgive. It is not in the other person’s right to make that decision for me. If I cheated, I would also let that person know and allow them to make that decision. If we choose to stay together, it should be on clear conscience, otherwise, that relationship would never survive.

Or new co workers

We gotta cry laugh to make it through some of these BLs. It’s called coping mechanism. 😂

Here’s the thing, I’m not solely condemning Teah for just the cheating. I’ve cheated before and have been cheated on. Therefore, I am VERY aware that it is a part of life. To bring it back to the director (since you seem to place the fault here), it takes 2 to tango. I don’t care if the director promised Taeh the moon and more, it doesn’t justify his cheating. You can’t say because the director seduced him that he cheated. No. You need to RESPECT and VALUE your partner enough to not give him to temptation. This is what I mean by “doing him dirty.”

Taeh didn’t just cheat on O-Aew. He disrespected him and made him feel unworthy. You don’t do that to someone you “love.” Why did I judge him and think he was beyond redemption? Because during their break up, he dated his female costar. O-Aew did not. O-Aew focused on his career and himself. Taeh should’ve been remorseful and not ho around during this time. He clearly did nothing to better himself.

It’s comical to me how people are able to say oh well, people make mistakes, move on. No. People make mistakes but you hold them accountable. You do this not out of insecurities but respect for yourself. Maybe Your therapist needs therapy? 😝

Anyhoo, this is the thread for Jun & Jun and we’re going off tangent !

Ohh got it. Yup. The series were rare gems from Thailand outside of their mass produced shit shows.

could not stand Teh in IPYTM. I had no sympathy for him. He did O-Aew dirty. I won’t get into much details or it will boil my blood again. I won’t blame the instructor bc I don’t want to place the fault in the third person. Teh knew exactly what he did & nothing he did after could’ve redeemed his selfishness. It was a rare occasion when I did not want the leads to end up together.

Also, what did you mean by these were produced outside of Thailand?

I concur about I Told Sunset about You… but I didn’t vibe with I Promised You the Moon. We all know Oh-Aew deserved better! But yes, both were exceptional compared to the factory produced ones recently.

Same here. The only Thai BL that is good right now in my opinion is Laws of Attraction. I can’t stand any other shit shows that they released. I’m looking forward to this month’s new releases.

And it ain’t Gochujang!!

It’s been to Mars and back!

It’s just a natural part of the male human anatomy. It happens during deep sleep and healthy blood flow.

You realize this is a Korean Bl, right? This is as fast paced as it gets. 😂

I definitely missed your sarcasm, there. You have my respect if you’ve also seen the bad ones. I tolerated some cringey ones in the past but lately, with so many Bls popping up left and right, I’m dropping them like diarrhea.

Never trust a fart, friend.

As someone who is currently working in an office, from America, I concur that it is as boring as it gets. So many woke people these days. Jokes are no longer jokes because people are too sensitive.

Did you shit yourself?

Not sure if BL is your forté but most if not all have mostly gay characters running amok. Unfortunately, the sexual harassment in the workplace is also occurring more frequently.