Veronika M

If read any comments below, then you’d know.

With the heat that’s going around? Probably never.. and I don’t blame them.

She didn’t settle. They match each other well.

And the worst thing is, that JM is being labelled as red flag. Most comments are just like those girls. Selfish, self absorbed opinions.

He is a sweet guy. Yes he made mistakes, but he was visibly upset. And they all acted like he broke off engagement a day before wedding or something. Jeez 🙄

While girls gave me bit*hes vibe. Except Ji Su, she is nice.

People keep forgetting it was several weeks for us, but a week for them. The more people hate JM, the more I dislike all the girls except Ji Su and Ji Yeon. They all treated all the boys like crap, and complaining how they “didn’t get the chance” with JM. They didn’t give other boys a chance. Why JM should give them a chance? He pursued a girl he thought he liked until he saw she wasn’t a match for him. He was wronng and felt bad about it. And the girl that humiliated and made fun Jae Yun should apologise to him. I can’t believe he was still interested in her after the incident 🥺

JM is not red flag.
And attention seekers are all the girls chasing JM with knowing very well they don’t have chance. They were in denial trying to be important to get screen time. Nothing more.

He was only nice to them and that was his biggest mistake. And that includes Yi Do. They chased him like pack of dogs, didn’t give him peace. Yi Do was only one that had right to be upset, but noone else.

When did Ji Yeon tried to be attention seeker? Until JM noticed her, she was barely on screen, so 🤷🏻‍♀️🤔

Ji Su & Seung li
Jeong Mok & Ji Yeon

Yes, exactly. He was trying to be too nice, and didn’t know how to say no.
And to be fair, it wasn’t nice that Yi Do pressured him to give her assurance. It overwhelmed him and resulted in hurting her more.
If she let him be and didn’t seek assurance all the time, she also would have felt better.
I don’t mean to sound mean, but she gives me shallow vibe. Maybe I’m wrong but that’s how I feel and I think that’s the reason JM backed out.

Then they shouldn’t have gone in the first place. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Exactly.
Imagine if instead of JM it was Seungli- he’d be like: Oh, whatever. I just feel different. And wouldn’t have given it second thought. 😂
JM feels genuinely sorry, but still getting the heat 🤷🏻‍♀️

They are adults. Also if Netflix didn’t want to show it, it would have been cut out.

I think there will always be some people who are more popular than others- for various reasons.
But I wish for dates with each obe as well. For these ones- maybe always hobby of one of them, so they can a) see what they like right away b)instant click (or not) c) conversation opener
Because just sitting on the spot… I know they have time etc. but mind can go blank easily.

It’s not a bad thing you know. Spectrum is quite wide. It can be very mild or very strong. He is clearly showing few of the symptoms, but since he came to the show, he is brave. It will help him a lot.

But he does show sings of the spectrum. My son is on the spectrum too, although not diagnosed “officially”, and just mild version.

But when you check the common Aspergers symptoms, he has most of them. He is happy, sensitive & fun young man. But he is definitely not “normal” boy. Anyone who interacts with him will recognise it right away.

On contrary, when think about it- when you don’t at least consider it- he seems like silly man, unable to “man up” or “get it together” like some comments suggest, making him weak and pathetic.

If you take into account him being on the spectrum, you see him in different light and actually see the progress he made and the effort and you cheer him on ☺️

If they included boring stuff with other members, then they would had to cut short JM &JE content and everyone would go: OMG how can JM &JE end up together out of thin air. This way, if any critics bother to actually watch it, they understand why they make sense and why JM changed his mind etc. So I am happy they showed the journey, at least partially.
The fact many people skipped it and then complain... 🤷🏻‍♀️

They felt attraction, but that’s not enough for long term, which JM desires.

Panelists didn’t disappoint 🤣🤣🤣 “This generation is so bold.” “Maybe it’s because it’s Netflix, it’s risqué.” 🤣🤣🤣

Out of all the movies out there, they decided to screen 20th Century girl? What the… ?
Like, they’re bit depressed, by not going away for the night, we might as well give them reason to cry? 🙄😬
Or is it reverse psychology thing 😅 How brutal! 😇

They did it to give new options to members. But if they didn’t click, what can you do?
We know how it looks like when the “vibing” is forced and unnatural from other shows. No, thank you.
It’s pity, but that’s how it goes. I’m actually happy they included footage of couples who chose each other.

Well they definitely have a lot of courage to go on the show in the first place, showing their weaknesses and insecurities.
It’s easy to talk online. But you can see how nervous and anxious they were.

Same. Contestants are bound to make mistakes. Almost everyone in comments acts all superior like it’s really easy to handle emotions, being filmed and have it all together.
It is not easy.