I have so much to say but… nothing to say too. Conflicting thoughts. I don’t even know whether I wanna write…
Ep 39, instead of making me sad, making me angry instead. Ooooh, so annoyed toward Yan Dan. I understand that she acts tough so that Tang Zhou will surrender. Part of it because she want to protect herself against another heartbreak. Literally understandable. But I cannot accept her reasoning, all about she will forever be number 2 in front of three realms and the like. I like .... please girl, just see clearly just who is the man that you love. Three realms depends on him. Do you really understand what your wish is??
Finally finish watching ep 39. It is emotional, but still not as angsty as I feared. It is another Yan Dan temper tantrum. It is the same old as always. She got a sweet dream when a high and mighty sovereign lord let go of his position and responsibility to be with her. And then she woke up, realizing the reality was so unlike the dream. But she kind of pushing Ying Yuan to be that Ying Yuan in the dream. When he refused, she just went ballistic. It was that way in heaven. It is also that way in mortal realm.
All I hear from ep 39 is that Ying Yuan will never let go his responsibility, thus since I don't want to be number 2, then why don't I let go this love. It is like her mantra. All the way from heaven to mortal realm, she always chanting why oh why Ying Yuan cannot let go of his responsibility for her. Tang Zhou here is just her collateral damage. I believe she will be happily dying together with Ying Yuan in heaven if Ying Yuan ever agree to be in romantic relationship with her. All she thinks is that Ying Yuan have to be hers, three realms be damned.
Sorry for my rambling here. I know there are lots of Yan Dan supporter here and my comment will certainly cause a debate. But, I just cannot relate with this kind of FL character. I understand Yan Dan POV very well. She is young and her daring personality and all. But understanding does not make me like it. She reminds me of those immature young woman in real life who said A but wish her man will do B.
But but, did YD really destroy her hairpin that given by YY? It's their love token, symbolized their love and…
She did? I have not watched ep 39. Honestly, I fear it ... since it seems it is so angsty. Sigh .... I am tired with Yan Dan tantrum really. I know her personality is dare to love and dare to hate. But destroying things ..... First is the agarwood burner, now the hairpin.
I know she will see sense later on, but does not mean I enjoy watching her parading self justification in lashing out to Tang Zhou/Ying Yuan. Yan Dan cannot accept she will always be number 2 compared with three realms so she choose to let go and live for herself. Good. I think woman needs to live for themselves first and not live revolving man all the time. But, I don't think Ying Yuan has done things that so sinful toward her that warrants this much hate. Especially when she knows literally that he does love her.
And that's when her character growth comes in, It's natural for someone as young as YD and who hasn't experienced…
You word it much better than me. Correct, I think Yan Dan never realize the true weight of her owns words back then in Diya. Young as she is, it is logical that she cannot understand why she cannot be number 1 for Ying Yuan. She loves him too much and in her mind love is equivalent to posses.
So sad for Tang Zhou. It is very understandable from his POV at this moment. Because he cannot relate at all with…
I also can be said not crying at all during part 1. I .... thought I was too heartless, hahahaha, especially when posters here wail their hearts. But, that trailer ..... my heart is so hurt. Oh, Tang Zhou ..... He is just a boy.
For those who are wondering why I'm so terribly upset about TZ disappearing, it's all because of what he said…
So sad for Tang Zhou. It is very understandable from his POV at this moment. Because he cannot relate at all with this deity called Ying Yuan. All he knows is he is Tang Zhou. My heart already hurt watching the trailer.
I'm contented since he said he's never been really happy in this position, HIM doing his responsibility to the…
Yes, I am so so relieved hearing Yan Dan saying that. Finally, she is now worth of become the life partner of a Sovereign Lord. She finally understand! I have my own worry that I will end up resenting this character, like I did to lots of FL out there for their selfishness.
With Yan Dan by his side, I think Ying Yuan can do his responsibility with more ease. She will support him, comfort him. And she will get him to love her as much as she want.
"Even if you knew you loved me, you still chose the beings of the realms instead of me"What do you mean he chose…
At this moment, Yan Dan is just an immature young woman or even a teenagers. The personality is logical from storyline point of view because she is indeed very young still looking from immortal POV. At that age, majority of woman is filled with illusion that man should live revolving around her. They should love, please, and catering to all her need (exactly like those fairytale for kids). But, this usually will change once a woman matured. Even more when your beloved is not a nobody but someone of status and responsibility toward masses, some world view adjustment is a must. The woman should never be a shackle or weakness. On the other hand, she should be his strength, his support, his safe place for taking a rest when he is weary. Love should not be used as guilt trap. It is given freely without asking for repayment.
Well, honestly I am the same as you. I am too, annoyed at Yan Dan action. Like: girl, you interested in Ying Yuan exactly because you admire him for his passion and responsibility toward all realms. Now, you ask him to throw all of it for you. Have you though about this clearly?? I tried so hard to swallow my disappointment toward FL during this part 1. But, we see her through our mature thinking. So, I am trying to be more tolerant. Based on trailer part 2, it seems she finally understand what it takes to be together with Ying Yuan.
Trailer for part 2 is very good. Finally Yan Dan get it that she should never ask Ying Yuan to choose between her or three realms. She should stay beside him, to be his pillar of support by her strength and love. And she should be the one who stir him to the right path when he goes astray. That way, their love will not bring doom but blessing. I am so relieved.
I am a bit miffed that they have Ying Yuan chooses to let go of his responsibility. But, if that in order to see how they both finally can support each other, ...... I will swallow it.
Xuan Xiang chose "little love" than "great love". He might be okay with paying with the lives of his kin, but…
Yes. The rule will change sooner or later. But it cannot be changed forcefully like how Yan Dan wanted it to be. Because if it is so, then the whole order will fall. Yan Dan is akin to a young woman or even a teenager that still pretty much emotion-controlled. The drama is portraying a very believable personality for both Ying Yuan and Yan Dan.
Xuan Xiang did that but at what cost? At the cost of hundreds of thousands of lives? However as you said YY cannot…
Exactly! Yan Dan can be together with Ying Yuan, but not as she is right now. Because as she is, she will always demand Ying Yuan to choose her over three realms. In the future, I hope she will finally understand that her demand is just impossible and far too selfish. She cannot possibly sacrifice the whole world peace just for her little happiness.
Even in real life, a woman always needs to pay a certain price when she is marrying a man who is responsible for lots of people well beings. She will need to share her husband with the people.
It is another Yan Dan temper tantrum. It is the same old as always. She got a sweet dream when a high and mighty sovereign lord let go of his position and responsibility to be with her. And then she woke up, realizing the reality was so unlike the dream. But she kind of pushing Ying Yuan to be that Ying Yuan in the dream. When he refused, she just went ballistic. It was that way in heaven. It is also that way in mortal realm.
All I hear from ep 39 is that Ying Yuan will never let go his responsibility, thus since I don't want to be number 2, then why don't I let go this love. It is like her mantra. All the way from heaven to mortal realm, she always chanting why oh why Ying Yuan cannot let go of his responsibility for her. Tang Zhou here is just her collateral damage. I believe she will be happily dying together with Ying Yuan in heaven if Ying Yuan ever agree to be in romantic relationship with her. All she thinks is that Ying Yuan have to be hers, three realms be damned.
Sorry for my rambling here. I know there are lots of Yan Dan supporter here and my comment will certainly cause a debate. But, I just cannot relate with this kind of FL character. I understand Yan Dan POV very well. She is young and her daring personality and all. But understanding does not make me like it. She reminds me of those immature young woman in real life who said A but wish her man will do B.
Sigh .... I am tired with Yan Dan tantrum really. I know her personality is dare to love and dare to hate. But destroying things ..... First is the agarwood burner, now the hairpin.
I know she will see sense later on, but does not mean I enjoy watching her parading self justification in lashing out to Tang Zhou/Ying Yuan. Yan Dan cannot accept she will always be number 2 compared with three realms so she choose to let go and live for herself. Good. I think woman needs to live for themselves first and not live revolving man all the time. But, I don't think Ying Yuan has done things that so sinful toward her that warrants this much hate. Especially when she knows literally that he does love her.
With Yan Dan by his side, I think Ying Yuan can do his responsibility with more ease. She will support him, comfort him. And she will get him to love her as much as she want.
But, this usually will change once a woman matured. Even more when your beloved is not a nobody but someone of status and responsibility toward masses, some world view adjustment is a must. The woman should never be a shackle or weakness. On the other hand, she should be his strength, his support, his safe place for taking a rest when he is weary. Love should not be used as guilt trap. It is given freely without asking for repayment.
Well, honestly I am the same as you. I am too, annoyed at Yan Dan action. Like: girl, you interested in Ying Yuan exactly because you admire him for his passion and responsibility toward all realms. Now, you ask him to throw all of it for you. Have you though about this clearly??
I tried so hard to swallow my disappointment toward FL during this part 1. But, we see her through our mature thinking. So, I am trying to be more tolerant. Based on trailer part 2, it seems she finally understand what it takes to be together with Ying Yuan.
I am a bit miffed that they have Ying Yuan chooses to let go of his responsibility. But, if that in order to see how they both finally can support each other, ...... I will swallow it.
Even in real life, a woman always needs to pay a certain price when she is marrying a man who is responsible for lots of people well beings. She will need to share her husband with the people.