Niina no Papa

Goldenmellow,
I'm just watching the rooftop scene now, and she says, "Did I ever lie to you?" He retorts, "You say you can't lie?" She asks him what she lied about, He answers with To give you an example, "You said that you loved Cha Jeong Woo, but you merely wanted a man who passed the exam. You said you would be happy marrying me, but you only liked my circumstances that gave you stability. Those are the lies you said, were they not?" She doesn't deny what he's said, instead she retorts back with, Those lies, you said them too, you said you would never start a business or invest in stocks, and then you go and resign all on your own. You, you keep being so cynical about me being a gold-digger. How can anyone love without circumstances? She never once denied all of what he was saying to her or that she was a gold-digger. Instead of saying you are wrong, she admits to all of it by carrying on with what she had to say, Did I like the circumstances you had? Yeah, I did. Why? You didn't play any tricks, you were smart, humble, you had a stable job, and above all that, I liked the Cha Jeong Woo that only loved me.

We've only finished the 8th episode, we don't know what's going to happen still. There is still much to come, so to say their misleading because things haven't happened yet is wrong. They're getting their information from somewhere reliable, they're not just adding what they want to.

As to saying to die alone and a spinster, that is most definitely not out of hatred, it may have come across as hateful but was most definitely out of hatred, they were out of anger, strong but not hateful. And okay, since you think it's so hateful to say that, I publicly, humbly and sincerely apologize for saying that, I am most truly sorry... But rest assured, I most certainly didn't have hate in my heart when saying that...

I quote what the moderator says in her Kdrama News: Upcoming Dramas page above, "The premise of Cunning Single Lady (aka Sly and Single Again) is simple and should be somewhat attractive to romantic comedies lovers; a divorced couple that reunites again - but wait isn’t that Emergency Couple’s plot? Anyway, I am sure there are some differences since the male lead was an unsuccessful man that his wife divorced him and now he’s a mega rich person. His wife on the other hand, decides to meet a multi-billionaire person after her failed marriage and is shocked to know that her dorky husband has become one heck of a rich businessman, and quite attractive too. Now, her mission is to make him fall in love with her all over again."

The doctor she met on the blind date, the jerk, the PRICK, did anyone catch that he was a multi-billionaire? I didn't catch that at all, I must have missed something.

I think it was a different day, I think it was after he was kicked out because she had the miscarriage during the day, then that night it shows him in the apartment giving an envelope to her best friend. I could be wrong again, unless it was the day after that she had the miscarriage. But I think she indeed did have it after she kicked him out, whether it was the day after or when I'm not sure...

I had missed your comment until now, and for that I am truly sorry... Too many people commenting to me at the same time... hehe... :P

R1N7B, as to your earlier comment as to her finding out he's rich, she told him to quietly get out of her life, and it isn't that he was trying to hide the fact, he was doing as she asked, but in the meantime waiting for her to come back and share his success with him, and I will stand on that belief till the day I die, you so see that from the jail through to now, that's why he built the house. He's not even living in the house because he wants to move into it together with her. So as much as she feels betrayed and angry about it, there's truly no need for it. If she were to come to him at that moment and ask if they could talk and see about working things out, I truly, honestly, sincerely feel and believe he would do just that, even though hurt because of the divorce, so really, she's feeling that all for nothing really, of course that's in my most humble opinion.

Now as to the doctor, that's what I'm saying he was nasty for what he did, he used her solely for the purpose of pimping her out as you called it. He so deserved not just a slap across his face for that, but a good clunk over the head with the wine bottle for what he did. That was sickening and deplorable what he did to her, and his girlfriend was just as bad, very shallow and despicable people...

By the way folks, a drama that's something somewhat similar is really good, it's a Jdrama called Kazoku, awesome, AWESOME drama, a divorce drama.

Hehe, LOL, I so agree, and it's been fun watching them and will be fun seeing them get together again and working through their hurts and problems. The blaming game will stop between them, and that is what I so long to see the the blaming and pettiness to stop, I want to see them begin to truly work together to start fully loving each other again. He's already there, or extremely close to it, he's never lost that love, that unconditional love he had for her, and I do I truly do believe he truly loved her. Did he quit for selfish reasons? I don't believe so, I believe it was because he truly wanted to better her life, firstly he should have talked about it first, and secondly, I don't believe for one minute he thought he would have such a hard go at it. Even his father was in full support of him following his dream, and, again I'm now only surmising, but I truly believe he had his father's support because his father totally believed it would be a better life for both of them. I don't, for one minute, believe that his father was in agreement to him quitting without talking it over first, but I believe his father was in full support of him following his dream... Hey, I'm having fun, I'm gonna miss these discussions back and forth, I've made some friend over drama alone, and I'm thankful for that, and yes Goldenmellow, most of them are women... :)))

Yeah, I don't think she totally wanted to divorce him, her crying showed that, and even possibly regret for divorcing him, like I said before, I'm just surmising, but to show that, I'm sure her crying there will come out at some point. Goldenmellow, I'm beginning to think that we truly don't know the reason why either, but it will come out. After the funeral, even before the funeral, even at the house, it shows, and even going back to the stairs, she is showing regret for the divorce, I say the stairs, that's only possible regret there because we don't rightly know the reason, but, she is most definitely regretting divorcing him, and it ain't because he's rich now. On the rooftop, she's regretting, even at the house, she's regretting hurting him by divorcing him. That's been my perception.

Like I said, the true villain(s) is her mother and lack of communication...

So far all of the synopsis's have been right on. As to my comments towards her, I believe only twice I said something that was fully out of anger, and the one I said she was despicable and needed to die an old and lonely spinster, and I said it on account of her actions at one point, and the other was concerning if she gets together with our 2nd lead, I have never ever said anything hateful, and if you see something I said that was hateful and insulting, please quote it for me, and depending on what I said, I will take it back, I've never ever felt hateful towards her once, not even once. I would love to bring her home to pa n ma. Her personality minus her terrible attitude is exactly what my type of girl would be, and she's very beautiful to boot.

R1N7B, she only showed that anger, bitterness, with her best friend, and I honestly think until she found out he was rich that she didn't hold ill or any bad feelings toward her ex. Unless you're talking something different as to being humiliated. I was so glad to see her rich friend treating her nicely after Ae Ra had said some not very nice things about her husband the first time you see all the friends together at the restaurant, that was the time her best friend spills something on the rich girls expensive dress, that time even her body language was terrible towards her rich friend, yeah, I have to really commend her friend for being good towards her...

Just when have I shown hatred for Ae Ra? I've been extremely livid and angry at her, but have never EVER hated her, especially with the lily's... Yes I do have HUGE trust issues, and yes, I do hate women but only because I can't trust them and because of what how many of them have done to me, and I'm at least going for therapy for it, I'm taking action because I don't like being this way. At least I'm not just sitting back and not doing anything about it, and I'm not calling her shitty and so on. I'm just saying how wrong she's been, all the synopsis's and even the title and alternative titles have back me up with what I have been calling her. Even when being called a gold digger, did she defend herself against that, did she deny it? No, when told she hated her ex, she still doesn't deny, she keeps silent because she knows she hated him. Do I want to hate women? No, do I want trust issues against women? No. It's depressing, frustrating, despicable and I hate it. Like I said I, at least, am getting help... :)))

Hehe, I used to tell my ex, when she settled down, come and talk to me, but not till then, and she did, I understand what you're saying and fully agree with you. I'm not saying he's perfect, I'm not saying he's all good, he's to blame too, but he's not acting as the villain here, she is. I'm not saying she's bad either, I'm just saying she needs to change her attitude more than he needs to change. But thinking back, hehe, when I'd be angry, whether at my ex or at someone else, I would generally tell her I'm going out for a walk or something and when I've settled down, let's talk. Even in venting, people can say or do things that can be very hurtful and painful to the other person, and things can be said that can never be taken back. And you are correct, they both did mess up. But now, what is he doing compared to what she is doing? That's where she's been being the bad person, the villain, the shallow one. I still stick to him not being #1 when they got married though, for her #1 was comfort of not working, and that I won't be swayed on, and for that, she was being shallow and sort of bad, she did love him though, but I don't believe the strength of her love was there. Did she love him enough to stay the 4 years, work for him, cover their debt, yes she did, but it was still comfort was #1, all she had in her mind was, he's just like my dad and brother, where indeed he wasn't, at least he was trying. Do I feel bad she had to go through all that, I most certainly do. I have never said he was never in the wrong for anything. So no, I don't only see the good in him. The true villain, and I will stand by that straight to the end was her mother by implanting that kind of attitude in our lovely and beautiful Ae Ra, that and communication.

So then Unnie25, why was she crying then at the top of the stairs the day they divorced? I'm still scratching my head, because it was plain she still so loved him at that point, or was it crying out of exasperation, frustration? I still say the lilies was nasty and so unneeded, his allergic reaction could have been so much worse, thankfully it wasn't, and that I had to wonder if it was revenge for what he said at the house. I so hope they don't wait till the end to show them so in love with each other like the Jdramas. About half of the Kdrama's that I've seen thus far, they've gotten together somewhere around halfway through the drama, I so hope that's the case, I do, I so want to see the love between them grow to real, pure, unconditional love, and she showed that at the hospital. I so loved that scene. Do you remember the flashback, I think ep7 where he walks away and she crying at the top of the steps?

But if she had waited and came to him and asked politely, then I could see him wanting to thank her more so. To demand something pushes me not to do what that person wants. His biggest thanks will be, as much as it really hurt him will be for the divorce. I'm sure he'll thank her for the idea too, and will apologize for him quitting his job therefore making life so much harder on her. He regrets hurting her, the rooftop alone showed that, but just him thanking and saying I'm sorry isn't going to fix the problem that she thinks it will though, communication between them two will do that.

As I have been saying he built that house for her in hopes of getting her back. Of course I'm surmising again but that house is so definitely for her. He's most definitely not over her by a long shot, why else would he ask himself, is it really over? He has had hopes all along for her to come back to him. I am leaning to what most everybody was saying though, she divorced him because she didn't want him to be hurt concerning the miscarriage, and after the funeral when his sister asks who's fault was it their father collapsed, she now regrets that decision. I only saw the hate, or bitterness and anger start against him when she found out he got rich. I don't believe she held ill against him up to that point. Reason why I think that is because just before her rich friend tells her he's rich, she asks Ae Ra why she divorced, Ae Ra says it's all in the past, and there is no bitterness no anger in her voice or facial expression. So sad either way, so sad they didn't sit down and learn more of each and communicate with each other, that is their most grave mistake more than anything.

So R1N7B then, what was it? Bitterness and anger? I was just watching where she first finds out that he's rich, and the way she's acting, I don't know, even on TV for the blind date, the way she says it, it really sure sounds and acts like hate. Revenge an act of hatred isn't it? Can it be an act of bitterness and anger?

Yeah, her hatred and anger against him most definitely started after finding out he was rich, hatred, night, darkness, to love, day, light, most definitely not close, but very far apart, I so have to beg to differ with you on that one too... Love and hate are like comparing apples to walnuts, very different one from the other, yeah R1N7B, it's impossible to have both at the same time for one person. I can't hate and despise someone and love them all at the same time, it's just plain impossible, hate can turn into love and visa versa, love can turn into hate, but you can't have them at the same time...

Once again goldenmellow, I SO HAVE TO DISAGREE WITH YOU in that he was a shitty husband, where do you get off calling him that? Just where in blazing crap do you get that? You once said I was making things up, now it's your turn, for Pete's flipping sake, where do you get off saying BS like that? I see nowhere in this drama where the marriage was so bad that he was a "SHITTY HUSBAND" as you call him. And I'm most certain there are many people here that would so disagree with you on that point, not just me, I so stand behind what I said to you so many replies back. With that kind of attitude, you really do deserve to die a little old and lonely spinster, you really do, shame on you. And her love has only just started for him from hatred, that love is truly because she has seen her wrong as well, and her love is now a much more pure love than she ever had for him. Wow, you are SO wrong, so glad I don't know your kind of person. Bitterness so spewing out of your mouth, so sad, you, like I am doing, need to go and get some therapy... I'm sorry for saying that, but I'm sure I'm not the only one thinking that right now, I so feel sorry and pity for you, I most sincerely and truly do, you need help girl.