Niina no Papa

Yeah, I don't believe you can love and hate at the same time, it's like night and day, but love and bitter, yes that is very possible, I'm very bitter at my ex for what she did to me but if she were to come, say tomorrow and apologized and asked to let's work together to getting back together, I'd jump at it because I still love her... If I hated her, no, most definitely not, not a chance in crap...

Yeah, the miscarriage was most definitely not on account of her jobs, the hardest job she had was working in the restaurant as a waitress, no, it was definitely stress that caused it, once again, just surmising... And yes, you very well could be right, I'm sure they'll bring that out as well, when she had the miscarriage...

I so agree, just because she's pretty and is getting acknowledgement for her work, it's really pathetic the way her fellow female staff are treating her. Especially the girl that stole her text idea.

I meant betrayed by the doctor. I'm watching that scene again from when just after his interview with the news people now in the restaurant with her best friend, ep1, I think that's when the hatred started, she's extremely angry there, and the way she's talking about it you can see that hatred and anger just spewing of her mouth... Just saw where she goes to him hollering at him to drop his useless projects and demanding him to make that text free program, LOL, no, most definitely not does he need to say thank you for that program, if she had been nice about it, okay, but not the way she did not, that was to no credit of her's at all, and the example of the band-aid she uses can't even compare to her demanding credit for her part in the project. Yeah, as well, she most definitely doesn't have even close to the same level of love he still holds for her. That doctor was explicitly despicable for showing that he really liked her only to pawn her to the owner of that villa, so wrong. She didn't deserve that from that doctor, and she was just being vengeful against Jyung Woo, when she says, "When I think of that time, I think why did I have to meet that sort of a person. Even if it's in my next lifetime, I absolutely don't want to meet that sort of a husband. Now I really want to be happy" You're right it wasn't planned ahead, but she definitely hates him there something fierce. So sad of her to think that way of him, so sad...

I have another question that maybe could be answered for me. If she had divorced him because she didn't want to see him hurt on account of the miscarriage, I have to wonder if she truly would have gone on that blind date. If she had divorced him for the sake of not hurting him, why did it turn to hate? Did she only start to hate him because he got rich and didn't tell her? I truly have to wonder, and I'm seriously asking myself that question..

I strongly feel she hated him and was trying to forget him, but her crying on TV and all, it was all an act, when she's picking out what clothes to wear, she was planning it all out. Yes, I agree with you that you can still love someone and not be with them, but not the kind of love here, I truly believe her love had turned to hate, she hated him, and in the restaurant with the director, she didn't deny that she had hated him. When she went with the doctor to the villa that was to start a new love, she was forgetting about Jyung Woo, hence, why was she so upset at being betrayed? But thanks for answering that for me R1N7B and Unnie25, I was curious.

Yeah, I with you on that, she didn't know. Silly question I asked, was she pregnant when she kicked him out? LOL, of course she was silly Docnty... :P So then, was it hormones? Or the stress of him not bringing in the money? I guess we'll see and know more as the drama carries on... :)

Yeah okay, but um, I don't see him ever losing that love, I don't see him hating her, resenting what she did to him yeah, but not hate. I so did see the hate in her though, and still don't understand why, the miscarriage? I'd have to ask her, seriously? But I've seen couples get back together after 15 years of being divorced, never remarried in hopes of getting back together again. I still long for it after what? Jan. 1, 1994, what what is that? 20 years... No, he never lost that wanting to get back together or the love he's always had. What I'm saw was the hurt speaking with him, not hate. I could be wrong though, just my perception.

I've seen it 5 times to your one sweetheart...

Okay, you are saying her sunbae, are you talking the team leader? Or the short haired girl that stole her idea? Of which I was so glad to see that backfire in that girl's face. I'm talking about the girl that stole her idea, the girl that like our CEO, the way she's been treating Ae Ra hasn't been to put her in her place at all, she's jealous of her is all that is. She's just being mean to her because that's who she is as a person, she'd do it to anyone that seems better than her in any way. The team leader, yes, I can see her doing it to put Ae Ra in her place, but not that kind of treatment. The director, I'm beginning to really hate her now for what she's done and will continue to do, I thought she was phony and now I so see it all the more, shame on her...

Wow, watch the drama again from the beginning is all I have to say, I'm done with this conversation...

I'm getting a lot of private msg's telling me I'm wrong for thinking she hates him, so, I have but one question, if she never stopped loving him, why did she fall for and agree to go to a villa with the doctor from the TV show? I hope someone clears that up for me, because she still doesn't know Jyung Woo is rich yet at that point.

My only question is, why didn't she tell him she was pregnant? That is if she already knew that is. And was she pregnant when she made him starve and when she kicked him out? She had the miscarriage AFTER she kicked him out. The difference between him and her father and her brother was that he was at least trying, he wasn't a deadbeat like her father and brother, but I think when he quit his job, she couldn't get past thinking about her father and brother, and she was scared he was going to be the same. Just my thoughts, I'm only surmising... :P

I so agree with you in that their relationship wasn't strong enough to wave the storm, so sad, if only they had properly communicated, that there alone would have saved their marriage. I believe you're talking about when she had the miscarriage, how could he have known? He was sleeping in a very cold office, with his phone on vibrate, plus, she had already kicked him out and didn't want to see him. When she was in the hospital, I really felt horribly bad for her, when he finds out, I'm gonna feel even worse, because if only he had heard his phone vibrating, if only he had known, he would have been there, but, and I say but, would she have warmed up to him at that point? Or would she have told him to get lost? We'll never know unless she tells him exactly how she felt at that point. My heart bleeds for both of them over the miscarriage...

And that is why, if she gets together with our 2nd lead, this drama is so dropped, and I'll be buying a new 40" TV and new headphones because I will have destroyed the new ones I have on account of being so angry and livid at her. I don't want to see either of them hurting anymore, but especially him. Before ep8, I felt that him and the director needed to get together to make her stop her pettiness and make her realize if she doesn't stop, she's gonna lose him, but after watching ep8, no, I so don't want to see him with the director, she has so changed from hate to regret and love, she still has a way to go, but at least we are seeing that change in her. If I hated her, I wouldn't have said that house is so her's, long before they even broke up, in his mind and in mine, that house, even after the divorce is her house, their house. He's never wavered in that instance. If you saw Smile, You, it's the same actress, but so very loving, and that is what I want to see is the same loving person as Smile, You, and I truly believe we will see that in her. She's already changing and will be a completely changed for the better, person.

I have never EVER said I hated her, I have been hard on her because I want to see that terrible attitude of her's go. If I hated her, I wouldn't want to see them back together again. The one comment I made saying that she was despicable and hoped she died a old lonely spinster, it was because she made me so angry and livid at her because of her stupid attitude. My one sister is like that, and I won't have anything to do with her. If she doesn't like a shirt I have on, she has to be despicable and just nastily sarcastically say something really horrible about it. I love my sister, but as long as she's like that, I won't have anything to do with her, my parent's fully understand how I feel and support my decision, as much as it hurts them to see. My mother has spoken to her how many several times, and she just doesn't listen. Likewise with Ae Ra, it is her attitude I hate, not her. I so want to see them back together again, that's why I'm watching this drama, I'm rooting for them like you wouldn't believe, but not till she gets rid of that attitude.

But, at the same time I see what you're saying because on the day of the divorce, after telling him to get lost, she's at the top of the steps crying, so I can see your point as well as possible on account of her blaming him for the divorce. But I guess we won't know till they reveal it to us. I just know they need to communicate and be truthful like they were on the rooftop in ep6. By the way, everything, EVERYTHING I have said here has been sincere, a couple of times, I was angry and said some things, but I have always been sincere in how I feel about her. I'm not against her even though it is coming across that way, it's just that attitude that her mother implanted in her that I want to see gone. I am not denying he's wrong, I have said he's was wrong, but at the same time I don't believe he ever deserved any of what she's done to him either. Instead of what she's been doing, the both of them, as has been said, was sit down and talk, talk things through, that is, next to her mother's stupidity, the reason why their marriage fell apart in the first place. How many marriages you hear of them divorcing because they grew apart, there was no communication.

Yes, I so see her being mean now, and in ep8, she has already started to slowly show that way. Ae Ra doesn't deserve that kind of treatment, none one bit. It show's how mean and forceful people will be, even at the funeral, the looks she gives and the way she acts, pathetic. Do you really think he's going to start with her? I see him still longing and looking at Ae Ra, Wikipedia says he agrees to dating her to get revenge on her for what she's done. I don't think it will get that far, but as to dating the director, no, I don't personally think that's going to happen, he has only eyes for Ae Ra, only way he starts to date the director is through her forcefulness, and for that I am not liking her at all at all. She lost a beloved newly wed husband, so she should understand the pain, but yeah, I think she's going to be really mean. So sad... :'(

Dark_Rose, you said the divorce was because she doesn't want to hurt him, I'm just asking here, I am only surmising and guessing, but I have to wonder if the divorce was because possibly she blames him for it. We won't know until they reveal that, but she hates him, and I have to wonder if that's why, on account of the miscarriage. What do you think? I'm not being hard on her here, I'm only asking. I do believe it wasn't the jobs that did it but the stress of her being the sole supporter of their living brought it on. I'm not strongly saying that's why because I don't know, I just know stress can kill people, so I am just thinking that's why she had the miscarriage, therefore he hates and blames him for it.Like I said, I could be and am probably wrong on this point.

You're right Dark_Rose, I am being hard on her, and if she were here in person, I would be the exact same way, why? Because I want that attitude to be gone, I want to see her change and become genuine. The synopsis is the one that says, and I quote, "Ae-Ra tries to seduce Jung-Woo to marry her again." That is the main reason she wanted to go work for him, to try to get him back, because he's hasn't been showing interest, she's gone to throwing revenge after revenge at him. I'm sorry too, but that flower prank could have been really hurtful to him, allergies can change real fast, my cousin was allergic to bee's, he would swell up, last time he died from it. You don't play with someone's health, so no, I have to disagree that all of her pranks weren't really harmful. She was only a gold digger in the sense that she wanted to live a live of comfort and cushion. The woman from New York, now she was a true gold digger. I think the karaoke was so classic, what she did so backfired on her, I was roaring over that one, that was so funny, and needed. But no, I don't think she meant to cause him harm, that's why I have been saying petty, she was petty for doing them, and petty in that most, except for the flowers, were petty.