etoks21

regarding "fujoshi wet," I am unconcerned that you or anyone else considered the term offensive or sexist. I am concerned with how I choose to use words and play with them within the context in which I use them. people like you drain creativity, in that you arrogantly presume the privilege of determining what every word means to everybody else because it means something to you, and then demand everyone else adjust to your delicate sensibilities. I don't care about those. playing with words is like playing with paint or music or dance, if we allow these censorious types to determine what is and is not allowed, creativity will die. and I'm not dead yet. I like the term "fujoshi wet" and will likely use it again now that I made it up and it had such an impact.

also, I would be just as likely to use an equivalent term to highlight and exaggerate a college kids obsession with online lesbian p***. I might describe him as being "frat boy hard." would that be okay with you? would that be sexist?

don't bother to reply to that. I don't care. you have a nice day too!

You got all that out of "...fujoshi wet?" lol

Whatever you say, Jackson. You're the brilliant sociologist / behavioral scientist here, not me.

will do. if I forget, please remind me.

good heavens, you make so many wildly inaccurate inferences, and go so bizarrely far afield from my comment that it is hard to believe your reply isn't meant as satire. I will just assume it IS satire and leave it at that.

"...shaming..." lol How very on-trend of you. How dare YOU shame me for fujoshi-shaming!

is this comment directed to me? I can't tell. why are you crying?

lol

well - said!

I am devastated.

oh gosh, I would love to have a meaningful conversation with someone offering valid points made. do you know of someone here you could direct me to?

lol thank you for your concern and your feelings of sorrow on my behalf. I appreciate it. you are correct, I never like any shows I see, well except for the hundreds of shows on my custom lists that I ranked highly and recommend to others, including all the ones I ranked highly in my completed list. but yeah, other than those hundreds of films and dramas, I don't like anything I watch and I live to leave negative comments. thank you for making me feel recognized and validated. I appreciate it.

lol

thank you for quoting part of my comment. however, there is nothing there that says anything about anyone's sexuality, as far as being gay, bi, straight, or anything else. furthermore, attributing certain qualities to a specific group, in this case "fangirls," is not the same as attributing those qualities to all girls and women everywhere, unless you believe that all girls and women everywhere are fangirls, in which case that's your own reality and I don't know anything about it. with sensitivities as delicate as yours, I hope you are ready for a life of discomfort because the world and other people do not owe you a day-to-day existence of never being offended by anything. your thought and comment police act is lame. oh dear, was that offensive?

lol wow, you are really hyper-sensitive.

here, let me boil this down for you: "dear mdl team, I would like to report a comment for disagreeing with me and saying some things that hurt my fee-fees. granted, this horrible person etoks21, does not use obscenities, profanities, nor does he call anyone any names; it's just that I do not like the tone of his comment because it makes me have vague feelings of unease in the knowledge that there are people in the world who don't see things the way I do. I feel that mdl should be a safe, thought free space, in which I am never challenged or offended in even the slightest way. rather than go on with my day, I am choosing to report this horrible person because I have nothing better to do. also, I would like to throw in a few lies, the biggest one being that etoks21 wrote derogatory things about gay men. he did the exact opposite of that, but oh whatever, please take down his mean comment that makes me have feelings. thank you ever so much for doing your part to guarantee that I will continue to live in a cotton candy world."

ummm, I clearly stated that I dropped it in the first episode about 40 minutes in. try reading before responding. no way was I going to sit through hours of this.

hahaha... your entire comment boils down to "yes, I know this show sucks and here are a lot of the reasons why, but damn it, I love it anyway and I am upset that you dared to share your opinion with which I do not agree." and then you proceeded to put about 5000 words in my mouth I never wrote and then respond to them. have fun talking back to yourself.

by about 40 minutes into episode one, my eyeballs got stuck in my forehead from rolling them so frequently so I thought it best to drop out at that point. it was more than clear what this show is like and about. enjoy the watch!

"well haters going to hate on anything" this is such a deep and original thought that I am simply left stunned and without the ability to respond. you are a goddess or God or whatever and what are you two all hung up about being lesbians in regard to this? I said nothing about anyone's sexuality. LOL

you seem to be using the word "biased"to mean that I am predisposed to feel the way that I feel and not the way that you feel or someone else feels, and to express my feeling. in which case, then yes just like everyone else I am biased. note: nowhere in my statement did I use the word "straight."