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Please explain to me how I attempted to NOT "let them say it." They can say whatever they want. And I can say whatever I want. That's how it works. I'm not stopping anyone from doing anything.

Their reaction stems from insecurity and immaturity and is not my responsibility.

Are you one of those who believe viewers have a right to a comment thread free of dissenting opinions?

:) Because I'm a smartass and to me, Nan Yoon Su was woefully miscast for this role. I believe he's a talented actor whose looks and affect do not fit this role.

Thanks for not responding with hysterical anger, as so many MDLers do.

Good God, thank you.
Even though I stand behind everything I've written here, it's nice to hear from at least one other person who saw what I saw. Thank you.

Thing is...I wrote in my comment that who knows how I might feel about this thing in a few days, after I let it percolate in my tiny brain. But I'm sure you know, the fangirls and boys get upset when anyone dares to differ from their opinion. I've already heard the standard MDL insults "troll," "attention-seeker,"etc. One MDLer is praying for me because I don't like the show and said so. Also, she doesn't like that I've responded to other comments. lol It's the standard STFU routine from the insecure, defensive brigade.

Oh god. "harrassing" lol
Again, you're pathetic.
Yes, I sarcastically replied. So what? Scroll on. Why do you care?

Its not my job to link you to the many positive comments i have left on pages of shows I respect and admire. Again, take your STFU bullshit somewhere else.

Oh, and you didn't question me, you aggressively suggested I silence myself because you have a thin skin and someone doesn't care for what you care for. Then you insulted me.

"Question me," my ass.

For the thousandth time.
They say "Bad Buddy" is a masterpiece too.

I'm not arguing with you. If you can't see the repetitious pattern of psychological/emotional abuse this dude dishes out in the same, exact pattern with every relationship, moving from the ecstasy of new love to becoming mean, bitchy, and bossy to walking out the door in the middle of the night or dumping the poor sot at the last second as he leaves for a new job elsewhere, or berating him in public with vicious insults and malicious words, you have a sad perspective on what is acceptable behavior in relationships. Do you too like being treated like dirt?

Yes, the stalker behavior needed to stop. But our hero, who just days before was in ecstatic love, decided to dump him only after his friends ragged on the guy. THEN, shortly after, he was whining about how he should have stayed with the guy.

You know what? He could have sat down with the stalker, who was besotted with him and had a good, tender heart, and calmly, respectfully, explained why this needed to end. He did not HAVE to stand in the street hurling abuse at the poor sot, but he chose to do that. That is who he is and he did it over and over and over.

Did you even watch the show?

" Have u lived flawlessly and accepted everything that comes in ur way? "

This is yet another frequent fangirl/boy tactic on MDL. Only people who have lived perfect lives are allowed to bash a character or a show. BS. So in your bubble, NO ONE can write negatively about your pet show, right? That's the typical STFU perspective of people like you.

If you're so sure this series is awesome, wtf do you care what I think? You're very insecure. Scroll on by and ignore me.

Just scrolled through two pages of comments.
I'm horrified by the number of commenters who define the repetitiously abusive, destructive, vicious behavior of this odd-looking nutjob as "real life."

What hell holes do you people live in?

This isn't a kpop fangirl page.

Thank you!

You are deliberately being a douchebag. You can discuss anything you want here, but use the freaking spoiler button when you reveal plot points people who haven't seen the series don't know about.

BRAVO. KY is a neurotic asshole.

So you too are an abusive, manic-depressive who repeats the exact same pattern over and over and over and learns nothing?

"masterpiece" lol That word's never used here on MDL.

Just one of the many toxic, sludge-covered relationships with hot men this nutjob put them through. Love at first sight-move in together the next day-become a bitter, mean bitch/sneak out while the other is asleep or berate them viciously in public.

That's his M.O.

Hi, Yoon Su's mom!

Way to many to be believable.

Thanks.

" It was a very genuine representation of how dating works with everyone in real life."
This is insane.

I wanted him to jump out the high-rise window of one of those enormous, luxury hotel rooms mysterious, dashing men are always whisking this nutcase off to.

One less abusive psycho to destroy other gay men's lives with their wildly neurotic words and deeds.

I am restraining myself from writing much at this point. I don't trust that what I type won't be wildly over-stated, emotional, and even obnoxious. Most importantly, I don't trust that the feelings and observations I write now will be the ones I feel in two or three days.

This one has to percolate.

The most dominant, overarching implausible, improbable impossibility is...

...that this guy, Ko Yeoung, with the below -listed characteristics:

Plain, even goofy facial features
A Batman's Joker smile (I screamed a few times)
Self-obsession
Self-destructiveness
Pathological impulsiveness
Emotional and psychological abusiveness
Mania
Depression
Lack of self-awareness (what he is obsessed with about himself is the opposite of what he actually is)
Short-term memory loss (he repeats his "nuclear bomb"-level behaviors over and over, having retained nothing of how the just-prior relationships went down)
Obnoxiousness
Vicious cruelty
Sociopathic lack of empathy
Lack of butt cheeks
Nascent alcoholism
ARROGANCE,

nevertheless attracts an endless train of gorgeous men - from bartenders to millionaire businessmen - who, at first sight of his not-handsome face, fall madly in love and prostrate themselves at his feet, are smitten with a lightning bolt of passion, give him gold rings, desperately invite him to move in with them, offer to change their personalities to suit his whims, whisk him away to Bangkok on all expenses paid trips, run up and down staircases, frantically chasing after him at sweat-dripping full speed following one night of hook-up sex, on and on, etc., etc.

I DO NOT BELIEVE ANY OF IT.

The entire series is a sad fantasy, bringing to life the book and screenplay written by a man who apparently, shares all the above-listed characteristics with his MC.
Nam Yu Soo if a fine actor, but he was horribly miscast for this role.
Gay men do not instantly fall into wildly obsessive love at first sight with dudes who look and act like our lead. Especially when that lead is dead-drunk and smiling the frightening, gummy, rictus grin of Batman's Joker.

Sorry, they-we-do not do that. Nobody does that.

The second worst thing about this series is the plot, which is overflowing with the adjectives of my suggested, alternate title. Acting is generally fine. Direction is generally ham-handed, laden with try-hard, too-obvious attempts at visual and behavioral metaphors.

That's all for now. As I said above, I don't trust myself right now. :D