Kookely

Oh I definitely agree with you. Honestly I'm only watching this show for YR now... I truly wanna see what awaits her. And like you said, she's always sacrificed for others no matter who comes to mind, it's always her backing down – just like Jonghui once said to her, too.

And YR needs two things: to learn that being always the kindest and purest person isn't going to guarantee an acceptence for you. You don't have to tolerate everyone's shit in order to prove them that you're perfect. Sometimes you just give and give and never get anything back until you realize you've reached your limit. YR needs to learn that life's not about always making everyone around happy – she needs to finally put HERSELF first.

Secondly, especially because her personality and her core is just so loving, genuine and samaritan-like, she needs to find someone who will do the same for her. She deserves to be put first without a second thought, to be put first in a heartbeat and having a shelter in that person. I know DLL felt genuine about her, but his personality in general isn't a good and compatible match for her in my eyes. Well whoever it will be, I just want her to get her happiness 😟

You know, the synopsis has always said that the story will be about two girls falling for the same guy, ever since the beginning... 😐

That's why personally I don't want him to end up with JH at all, not anymore. Both her and Daddy long legs (Hyeon is his name?) have disappointed me and I believe that our main siblings both deserve way better.

Maybe in 7 years she became more selfish than she was before

I think I'll also be in the minority here who sees that JH's friendship was never so strong and genuine on her side as it was on YR's. She always cares more and unconditionally. JH is thinking of herself more than she is of others . Yes she did help YR out and support her in ways, but it never felt like her true trait and like it's coming from her heart. I don't quite know how to put it, and I know that people will disagree with me. But that's my opinion aswell as they have theirs.

It all has to do with JH's past and the way she had to take care of her own survival while growing up. I get that. Nevertheless, I really don't consider her a good friend and hardly a friend for life. I don't share the majority's opinion that these girl's friendship is all that perfect and beautiful and wonferful and it's awful to see a guy break them apart. Cause if their friendship is falling apart, that's not on the guy. That's on JH. To me their friendship doesn't feel that deep at all, only from YR's pov. In my opinion JH is an "alibist" though that's not exactly how I'd put it...🤷🏻‍♀️

Indeed

I think you might've misunderstood their comment. They meant that people here in the comments appear to them as someone who judges this love triangle differently than they would had the roles been reversed.

I know where you're coming from. But just knowing about somebody's feelings for you won't make you automatically feel the same way about them and suddenly turn your in-love mode on if it wasn't there before. Usually...

I wasn't against team DLL at first. But after the last few episodes I grew to dislike him and I really don't think how people consider him a perfect match for YR (now I'm not talking about you specifically but fans in general). I don't think these two match romantically AT ALL . Don't come for me. 😅

I feel your frustration 😂😂😂

To me that in particular seemed like he travelled from one place to another. But I could be wrong of course😂

Oh you're right it totally slipped my mind!!!

Still confused about the rest tho 🤣

I love it when someone visits a hair dresser and then literally only gets few micro-inches cut and leaves with literally the same hair cut. It's a j-drama and k-drama thing 😁

👏💯 THIS 💯👏 Thank you for saying it so accurately. I described it in a very similar way in my other comment... that people who think how strong JP's love for JH was and that he'll cling to it again now after years are neglecting the bare fact that it wasn't love to begin with. Just mere teenage hormones developed on a little few seemingly meaningless interactions... on top of that, as many seem not to realize, JH really wasn't interested in JP and then decided to pursue him out of the blue.

Whereas 7 years have passed and him and YR have grown together as adults and their understanding of each other is one with an authentic base, mutual maturing, respect, and far more than a teenage momentary infatuation.

I'm also confused about that. I doubt that by fleeing the bus company all she did was just go a street further to work at a hotel behind the corner, that was a different city that her step mother was visiting. And then.... her step mother happened to come from the same city where they used to live, completely by coincidence...?

But if JH lived at the same city with her step mother this whole time, there's no way that she wouldn't run into YR during the 7 years and their paths wouldn't cross? Or that the hair salon where YR works (which is probably the same city where YR lives her whole life) would anticipate the rich lady's arrival with her daughter so much...?

Then when YR came to visit JH in her huge "castle" how could it all possibly be in the same city ... Maybe i'm just dumb, that's fairly possible 😂😂 This is a multiverse of madness for me

That's exactly what I think. Expecting her to suddenly develop romantic interest in him is delusional. I respect that somebody likes their pairing more, but I honestly don't see him as a good match for her AT ALL. Even personality wise. If I uhhmmm exclude him calling her ugly 24/7... I don't think they're compatible even in other ways. Many people think he's more suited for her becaus he's older, mature (or is he) and somewhat stable... But after all this time nothing suggested she'd ever see him that way.

Yes! it was sarcasm 😂

I don't see how that poor guy is anywhere in the wrong

"Hey ugly, why are you not ugly? When did you turn not ugly, your being ugly was putting me at ease." — one of the most romantic things I could hear a 30 y.o. man say 😄

💯 agree... I had the same problem. To me it didn't feel like JP impressed JH whatsoever until she realized HE'S interested in meeting her thanks to that note YR passed on. That felt to me like "ohh he wants to pursue me? hm, might aswell give him a chance 💁🏻‍♀️"

Just because JH abruptly requested their fight match to be stopped it doesn't suggest it's out of care, it was out of her repugnance to violence overall. And the way she started caring about JP felt somewhat random and sudden to me all along, as if it were only to create an obvious drama and to put an obstacle between him and YR rather than to intent it to be genuine. I didn't feel like whatever that relationship was was ever meant to be anyone's main concern. The only role it had to play was to create a plot twist, but not to have a meaningful lasting. I personally never saw it any other way. 😕 Nothing suggested he in particular piqued her interest in any special way. And while people bring out how strong JP's love for her was when just as you said yourself they BARELY spent any time together. They had exactly one "date" and ran into each other a few times by coincidence. There's no doubt that JP's desire to get close to her was true, but that was a mere teenage infatuation. That is normal.

Right now we see his grown up version who spent last 7 years maturing next to YR and they got to know each other through and through, having that adult understanding of each other and appreciating one another on many more values than just teenage hormones and being attracted to a "mystery" or "the chase" of the other person. They are genuine with each other. And despite us as audience not seeing it on screen I can feel it right there whenever the two of them share a scene.

I'm convinced YR will end up with him. I strongly doubt she'll start paying attention to her brother's friend all of a sudden. To me it's more likely that JH will end up alone, because even when she's being shipped and thrown together with YS, I don't think she sees him romantically or will start to develop feelings for him at this point (despite it being clear that he likes her). But maybe they'll end up together too 😂