No offence but I never 'ship'. I like some characters and not others but mostly, like real life, I think people end up with the people they deserve, even if that isn't the nicest man/woman in the show. The weirdest thing to me is hoping that, say, the 2ml will end up with the girl even if earlier you've declared her revolting.
I loved this, but see a spoiler about the tone of the film if you're looking for a 'light' romcom. Its on Amazon…
It's pretty sad. There's the suicide of a teenage girl (who thought someone was in love with her, but really she was just a fling) and the couple don't end up together - partly based on misunderstandings.
I found this drama very uncomfortable to watch. The acting was - mostly - very good, but you have to accept a lot of dodgy crap to make it 'romantic'. The main issues I had were: - The ML is responsible, at least in part, for the 2ML(the FL’s fiancé) unjust imprisonment; - Th emotion that the ML shows over his jilting by the 2FL is far stronger than anything he shows towards the FL; his feeling towards the latter seems to be mostly compassion/pity; and - The FL gloms onto the ML in a really uncomfortable way – her persistence and his lack of – apparent – interest makes this seem more about neediness than love. But, the saving grace was the secondary characters, particularly the drunk sister, the bonkers lawyer friend, the ducklings.
The female lead appears to be a toddler with emphysema who you fully expect to start drooling at any second. That made it a hard watch for me - though I was prepared for the wafer-thin plot and poor acting.
It's probably because they still have the mentality that the girls are always the victims, which isn't the case.…
It's a form of 'feminism' (though I don't recognise it as such) to think of all women as thick children incapable of agency and all men as clever, manipulative Svengali characters.
Off topic. What are the laws on assault in South Korea? I noticed in many Kdramas employees are often slapped,…
Even in the west big corporations sometimes pay off employees who have been sexually harassed, sexually assaulted, assaulted etc with NDAs and the like, rather than deal with the assailant. I have direct knowledge of at least two cases - in one the employer was public sector.
Off topic. This is a question for Koreans, Why do Koreans drink so much alcohol? I know every country drinks alcohol,…
It's not so much that it's very, very frequently portrayed (I'm from England, we drink too much here, too) but that being blackout, vomiting drunk is so frequently romanticized in Korean dramas, particularly if the protagonist is a woman. It seems to be thought of as cute, funny and sexy - and, of course, the Korean men who have to carry such women home are always perfect gentlemen.
- The ML is responsible, at least in part, for the 2ML(the FL’s fiancé) unjust imprisonment;
- Th emotion that the ML shows over his jilting by the 2FL is far stronger than anything he shows towards the FL; his feeling towards the latter seems to be mostly compassion/pity; and
- The FL gloms onto the ML in a really uncomfortable way – her persistence and his lack of – apparent – interest makes this seem more about neediness than love.
But, the saving grace was the secondary characters, particularly the drunk sister, the bonkers lawyer friend, the ducklings.