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I found that ironic tbh. Meanwhile, Fang Muyang who was viewed as a little troublemaker when he was young never denounced them. The mom even apologized to Fei Ni for marrying him, and I was like ??…Lady, you don’t know how good your son is. Lol.

Anytime I want to feel bad for her, I remember how she claimed Fei Ni’s writing as hers, and even accused Fang Muyang of faking evidence when she was caught. Same Fang Muyang who gave up his university admission spot to her. That’s cold blooded. If she didn’t slip up while lying, she would have never admitted it and would have happily taken credit for Fei Ni’s work. That sort of person is tricky. She is not overly malicious like Feng Lin but she will step on people to get what she wants while acting like a saint. Life needs to teach her a lesson born out of her own choices else she will keep stepping on people and using them to achieve what she wants.

Dr Qu Hua is such a gem. His relationship with MuJing started on the wrong note, but he is so good with her. He knows the right things to say and how to persuade her, and make her come around. I can’t believe I ended up enjoying their relationship a lot.

Episode 23 - Feng Lin is such a snake..damn. The minute the new vice director arrived, she quickly switched sides. It wasn’t even up to 2 mins. Ms Xu really raised a viper fr, but I don’t feel sorry for her at all. I can’t wait for Feng Lin to get her karma.

Yea, Marriage is really sweet but you will only enjoy if if you marry a kind person. The trick is to find a genuinely kind person with no ulterior motives

His parents came back! I can’t wait to see how Mujing will react. It will probably be a joyous yet complicated situation for her.

Fei Ni admitted her error in hiding the fake marriage contract poorly. But i don’t blame her for making one, nor do i blame Fang Muyang for signing it. He was basically a stranger to her, so she didn’t trust him fully. So maybe, that’s her own way of protecting herself in a rather precarious situation, flimsy as it seems..lol. If he didn’t sign it or tried to evade signing it, it would have been a red flag. It’s just that it should have been hidden properly since they barely have privacy in their own home.

This is well written and so interesting to read. I can’t imagine the difficulty and travails of living in those times. Your write up is one of the reasons why I think Feng Lin, as frustrating as she is, is actually a well written character. She is probably a realistic product of that era, rather than being a simple cardboard cutout villain.

Although he shouldn’t have taken the money without her permission, calling it “stealing” is a stretch. He planned to pay her back with his stipends, and he told her so. Besides, the main reason he organized the wedding in the first place was because her father was embarrassed and cried to Fang Muyang while drunk that he couldn’t do anything for his daughter. That wedding basically gave the family “face” in the community especially considering how much people there gossip. Even if you still think his good will was misplaced, that’s understandable, but I don’t see how that warrants calling Fang Muyang a thief when he was going to replace the money..lol. It’s not like he hasn’t contributed so much more to their relationship. I definitely don’t agree with people disparaging the FL, but I don’t see how disparaging the ML makes the situation any better.

She was going to marry Ye Feng for real. But since she decided against it, she decided to enter into a fake marriage plan with the ML and he agreed to it. She basically didn’t really want to marry the Ml, but decided to fake a marriage with him for her own agenda, but he willingly signed the contract cos he loves her. So in her mind, it wasn’t a real marriage. Maybe when she drafted the contract, she was planning to divorce him later, but idk how common divorce was then.

No need sugar coating it, He is a pushover. Without his sister and brother in law, he wouldn’t have even gotten married.

I haven’t watched episode 17 yet, but I’m about to be pissed the fuck off if that incompetent excuse of a man shaded Muyang. Imagine being so useless that your sister and brother in law had to scrimp and slave to get a fking tv in that era to get you a job, yet your ass still couldn’t do it and relied on your little sis to do it for you. Lin Mei’s parents wouldn’t have even given him the time of the day without that job and the furniture that Muyang STILL helped him to build. The only thing he knows how to do is act like a doofus. I just hope I don’t start disliking his character cos being nice is one thing, but being stupid is an entirely different scenario altogether. Let me just get to that part.

I don’t think age or responsibility has anything to do with this. In my opinion, Fang Muyang is even more resourceful and mature than his sister, it’s just that they have polar opposite temperaments and personalities. When Fang Muyang still didn’t have his memories and they thought he would be like that forever, his sister basically wanted to send him to a mad house, and she would have done it if the FL didn’t talk her out of it. In a way, you could say that’s Mujing’s only way of taking responsibility, but do you think fang Muyang would also drop her in a mad house if she was in his shoes then?

I don’t think Mujing is a bad person at all, especially compared to that malicious Feng Lin. I just think she has a rather cold personality and she is so overly lazer focused on academics that everyone else and everything else takes a back seat, including her family. There is no balance at all. It’s not fun being related or marred to such a person. I mean, Fei Ni is also obsessed with her education and going to university, but we still see her sacrificing for her brother.

Wishful thinking and Fang Mujing shouldn’t be used in the same sentence. Girlie is extremely smart and clear headed. She avoided Qu Hua initially because she usually keeps a low profile because of her family background. She only willingly approached him once her friend told her about his family background, then agreed to his proposal after 3 hours despite barely knowing him. I mean, her professor even warned her to investigate his past before marrying him, but she said she didn’t care, and instead asked if she could rejoin the project after she was married. The only reason why she agreed to marry him in the first place is because his impressive family background will make up for hers and further her career prospects. I actually don’t mind it, since the Qu Hua only asked her to marry him since she looked like his ex. I just don’t get why she is getting infantilized and the blame is pushed solely onto her husband.

Fang Muyang came from the same “rather poor” background but he is so kind and selfless. Also, he never cut ties with his family even though they were blacklisted. Mu Jing agreed to marry Qu hua despite barely knowing him because of her own selfish reasons, so it’s not like it’s one sided. They both got married for the wrong reasons.

Still not sure of what to make of Fang Mujing and her husband, Qu Hua. They got married for the wrong reason, but I think the husband has come around, and is falling in love with her. But idk if she even likes him. Gotta admire her headstrong commitment to her education atp. She didn’t even tell him before agreeing to move to a completely different city for a job assignment. Idk where their love story (if I can even call it that) is headed currently.

The actress portraying her character is so good!

Fei Ni’s father is hilarious. I can’t believe he ended up getting drunk himself and spilling all his guts to Fang Muyang. But their FIL-SIL bonding session was so cute!

If she wanted love, she wouldn’t have agreed to basically marry a stranger within 3 hours of marriage proposal. And to think her professor even warned her.

I have the same thoughts. In my opinion, she and her husband are both red flags.