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Haha agree with u totally... Its good to know someone else who has the same thinking as me =)

Confrontation to them is a conflict but to me its a problem solver =) its actually quite simple.

Wow this article is so deep, profound and thought provoking that i need to stop reading in between each points and digest through....

Really2 love your input as well Vivi.... i guess that you are someone who is a confrontational person? Usually such persons are a problem solver....

I am a confrontational person and a problem solver. I have the same belief as you do ""just hold it all in and bear it with a smile".... it won't get you very far. You have to confront and talk it out."

I think other than real communication, empathy / sympathy and supportive is needed to make all relations work....

However, even though i am in my late 30s.... i discovered most of the people is the opposite.... They love to avoid problems.....they are not willing to communicate and choose to avoid and go on with their own lives.... lack of empathy? or was it because they are suffering as well so have no more empathy left for others? when no communication and empathy then of course theres no support

And worse of all... I have heard people calling the confrontational people as drama queen. To them, i am making drama by wanting to confront issues.... have you heard such accusations of being called a drama queen?

And sadly, i have such issues with my family and best friends not long ago.... luckily my husband and I are in the same group ( we are confrontational, have empathy and supportive). Dont know which is more hurting..... bad marriage.... bad family or bad bffs.....

sorry typed so long, your points have really strike a real life problem that i came across last year which i still have not been able to moved on.

lol you should write the article instead haha.... splendid assessment and observation of Sang Woo.... May you write about our ML? I actually dislike him the most among all character by pretending to be good when he isn't.... in the end, he kills old man for his own survival and continue with his pretense.... (like when he confront Sang Woo for killing the guy for his own survival in the glass game.... but hello.... he also kills old man for the same reason so why must he confront Sang Woo as if he is better than him in this life survival contest)

exactly.... agreed to you and jsca.... and yes.... i want to read a fun articles or more valid relatable rants instead what i get is just a bashing articles on my 2 favourite C dramas =(

I have to 100% agree to what you said for this article.... this article is like bashing these 2 dramas and so much negativity indeed.....

This drama is one of my fav Chinese drama of all time ^^

I also love strong and intelligent FL.
I hugely recommend:
Under the power.
Ten Miles Peach blossom
Love and redemption (FL will get stronger as it goes)

Yes

thank you for the reply!

Thanks for the update. There's some people who seemed to be defending ZS and judge her bf too early.... Ur explanation is well said and i copy and paste it to let others know... Heehhee

Someone mentioned this and i have to share it. Lets not judge her bf too early.

AnniseChen 7 hours ago
I don’t think you follow the most recent news. The $2 million dollars the ex “stolen” was money she gave to him as a loan. Her dad released a lawsuit statement that was supposed to reframe the ex but people look closer at it and realized that’s she the truly evil one. All the money was spend by her. The ex was working at her company at a $1 salary and given a $2 million loan. However half the money went to their company. 30% of the rest was spend on her and her parents and all their shopping. The rest of the 20% went to stocks in Zheng shuang’s name. It basically going from her left pocket to her right. This is also an old lawsuit from last year and he was ordered to repay back $2 million plus 6% interest. Btw the payment was the bargaining chip she used to keep him silent for the past year. And she also tried to make him give up the kids by asking for money. There’s an audio for that. You can watch more of it on YouTube but it’s in Chinese.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AsjlEz6pQxE

Someone mentioned this and i have to share it. Lets not judge his bf too early.

AnniseChen 7 hours ago
I don’t think you follow the most recent news. The $2 million dollars the ex “stolen” was money she gave to him as a loan. Her dad released a lawsuit statement that was supposed to reframe the ex but people look closer at it and realized that’s she the truly evil one. All the money was spend by her. The ex was working at her company at a $1 salary and given a $2 million loan. However half the money went to their company. 30% of the rest was spend on her and her parents and all their shopping. The rest of the 20% went to stocks in Zheng shuang’s name. It basically going from her left pocket to her right. This is also an old lawsuit from last year and he was ordered to repay back $2 million plus 6% interest. Btw the payment was the bargaining chip she used to keep him silent for the past year. And she also tried to make him give up the kids by asking for money. There’s an audio for that. You can watch more of it on YouTube but it’s in Chinese.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AsjlEz6pQxE

Great articleeeee. Agreed 100% its a gem drama! Although i skip the 2nd CP scenes, but our main CP are worth watching for several times.... Im watching their scenes only for the 4th times lollll thats how much i love them and their relationship is just so precious

Thank u for writing this article! Love!

Wowwww thank uuuuuu

Im gonna read it soon. Im watching under the power and being head over heels with it now lollll

Forgot to mention, great article! Great job =)

Im shocked too that Blooms at Ruyi Pavillion is being recommended lol....

its such a flop for its writing....

I think Under the power should be included heheheheheeh

I have watched from 24 to 28. Unfortunately im dropping this. =(

Nothing happened during these 5 episodes, quite bored.

And i dont really like di jun.... Not feeling the actor as a main lead type. Though i love dilireba and fengjiu.

100% agree with you!

I also FF the 2nd couple screen time lol.... but i love Shang Guan Xi...... she sings for the OST: sigh btw...... its a fantastic song..... her voice is very sweet, i thought the singer is a singer but its Shang Guan Xi herself.....

I watch it just for our main Couple..... super duper love them......

totally agree!! i watched it 4 times LOL

even Love and redemption i watched 3x ...... this one can make me watch 4x haha

Was too invested into our perfect sweetest CP~

but i had enough and im moving on to Eternal love of dream starting tomorrow.....

agreed =(