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After episode 10?
ABP was shit pretty much from episode 1.

my friend watched an episode with me and she asked why I was watching a show where 30 year olds are behaving like 12 year olds - it was embarrassing.

This drama was so good, ending was heart breaking.

Would a happy ending be more fitting for a drama like this? May be, the leads had a tumultuous journey into their adulthood. May be they deserved being happy with each other.
but this ending is not bad either.

Would suggest you to read the webtoon,
Hari in webtoon is simply adorable.

The one in drama is utter garbage.
Was wondering if the writers wanted to make her look 'cool' & instead turned her into something you would tell your male friends to stay wide away from.

Yeah, Min Woo is a red flag
but the FL who was worse, is not.

Both were major red flags,
One was in a relationship & other knew her crush had a girl and yet the shit these two pulled through out the drama in the garb of being "friends"

She was talking about her feelings,

The tea metaphor before the confession pretty much points to her feelings & she is no position to assume Min Woo's feelings in first place.

The FL is utter crap from beginning to the end.

If you consider Min Woo & her girl friend as the ML and FL of a drama,
this girl would pretty much be the other woman, who is constantly around a guy she has feelings for, pretending to be friend. That pretty much is an emotional affair they were having, while Min Woo's girl friend was suffering.

Sorry but in a lot of Asian Dramas the FL are shown pretty shitty. In this one, the FL absolutely shitty.
The ML's in the drama are almost never given these kind of crappy storylines & are shown as very faithful to their women. The ML's never cross boundaries with other women. Hell, in most dramas, the ML's would not even look at other women,
The FL's on the other hand are shown to not have boundaries with other men for various reasons. It is hard to swallow that women in Asian dramas are projected so shallow, stupid and superficial.

It is pretty hard to look at the drama where through the ML the drama is projecting what is a ideal and how one must behave with opposite gender when you love some one or already in a relationship & the FL just about does everything opposite of what is projected through ML.

Unless there is something I am missing, these dramas are pretty much regressive showing women in such poor light.

The whole drinking until you pass out is pretty funny.

Drink silly, get pregnant.
Find out your best friend bonked your wife and the baby is his, again drink silly.
Drink silly and roam around the streets cause you miss the girl.
Drink some more cause.....xyz

Looks like these people are just using excuses to get drunk.

Again you seem to have watched different drama.

FL even gave her crush status reports of her relationship with the ML.

Let's be honest for once.
FL and her crush were not friends. They were pretty much two people in love who never had chance to be with each other.

Remember the first or second episode where the FL parents tell Min Woo to be their SIL?
neither the FL not the crush who has a girl friend say anything. In fact they were pretty shy about the whole thing. Any normal girl at that point would have shouted at her parents saying they were just friends. Because they were NOT friends, they stayed quiet and her brother had to jump in.

There were many red flags like above about their relationship throughout the drama.

In the webtoon, the FL was very endearing.
her feelings pretty much sorted out very early. Min Woo in the webtoon is blink and miss presence.

the changes in the drama made the FL look like absolutely shitty.

There pretty much is one interpretation there, the one the FL spoke.

She was pretty straight-forward about her feelings to her crush.
Why do we as viewers need to interpret it any differently than what the FL is explicitly saying on the screen.

This whole drama is too shitty and the ending was even crappier.
Who want's to watch a drama where one of the main leads still has feelings for another person at the end of the drama?

Then the conversation in ep 12 does not make sense.
Nor does many dodgy interactions between them.

The drama repeatedly showed us how much she loved Min Woo, right until the last episode.

Sorry but you are just imaging what you want to and just ignoring the uncomfortable parts shown the drama about the FL.

The whole tea drinking episode between FL and her crush was her final chance to confess to him before he left and she does just that.
It was a confession and admission that she loved the guy and she can't be friends with him because she is now with another guy and needs her space to sort out her feelings.

It looks like the drama wants to show that she is in love with both the ML and her crush when the drama ended.

What do you think she is saying there? Let's hear your words please.

Was she saying 'when I longer have any feelings for you' because she wants longer feelings for Min Woo to meet and be "friends"?

You know very well the word 'no' is missing there, otherwise the sentence makes no sense.
With out the word 'no' in that sentence, the FL comes across as a cheating garbage, asking her crush to wait until she has longer feelings for him to get together and dump the ML.

Instead of escaping, straight up interpret the sentence and the previous sentences about her liking the tea and juxtaposing it to Min Woo.

You mean confessing she likes Min Woo is being considerate to her boy friend?

So, imagine the ML after being intimate with FL, meets with the girl he has crushed on for years and tells her that he likes her and it will take some time to get over her....
Is that him being considerate?

one has to do mental gymnastics to arrive at the conclusion.

She could have pretty much said, "yeah sure, let's be friends" and end the conversation there. There literally was no need to confess to Min Woo that she likes him.
And her confession to Min Woo was the best confession in the drama. The whole comparison to the tea she was drinking and why she was drinking & comparing it to her love for Min Woo....It was endearing.
That confession was better than the confession between the leads.

Looks like you have watched a different drama.

Minwoo asks to be friends.
FL tells him no & it will take time, exact words 'when I no longer have any feelings for you'

She could have just said she has no feelings and they can be friends.
BUT
that;s NOT what she says.

She starts off by drawing on the tea she is drinking to how much she likes Min Woo and says 'when I no longer have any feelings for you'...

I really wish there was a way to attack screen-shots from the drama to show what happened.

So, when you can't counter on facts, you attack the person.

So, tell me dear, what did the FL mean when she tells her crush "when I no longer have any feelings for you"...I am not using my words, these are the exact words out of netflix.

instead of attacking me, just let everyone know what your interpretation of those words is?
And also, let us know what you would say if the ML said those words to some other girl after sleeping with the FL.

I have posted the exact words she says to her crush.

It's numbing seeing how much support such a toxic FL gets!!

Imagine if the ML after shagging the FL, next day meets up with his long time love and confesses to her. This forum would be burning.

Regarding the statement "when I no longer have any feelings for you"....what do YOU think FL meant when she said those words to her crush?

Did I say anything wrong about the facts?

You are wrong.
Both are hung up on each other

Netflix at 19:37, she tells Min Woo that she can go on being friends after she is over him.

Exact translation
FL says to the guy "when I no longer have any feelings for you"

That's not some one who is moved on.

Netflix from 19:00 min to 20:00 mis

She didn't move on.
The final episode on netflix, she pretty much confesses to her crush she has feelings for him, hence she can't be friends since she has a boyfriend.

In the final episode, she and her crush meet and talk things over.
The guy asks if they can go back to being friends & the FL replies she is still likes him and it will take some time to become friends.

Well, he can 'claim' to be teen and get away with it.
In US you can claim to be anything now a days and people just 'must' accept it.