mysteryqueen9

QYP is downright evil. Filthy trash that apart from being a gold digger he made a poor good woman lose her job so he wouldn't get caught in his schemes. Though I agree in this type of series men are sometimes trated harsher (that has something more to do with the fact that these shows are from FL perspective than the fact of being a man on itself) QYP is not simply a flawed person, so I am very glad to not see someone trying to defend a gold digger messing with innocent people jobs for getting his way. Though I think there is a man in this show that has been treated way too harshly in comments and that's Gao Peng. He is flawed but a good guy. But the married man and QYP are the worst.

they did a drama of True beauty (I haven't watched the drama so I don't know if it's good, I'm talking about the webtoon), a popular webtoon but one far lower in quality than this one OR, that imo is a very good webtoon

Imo ORr doesn't work as a film because the story is so complex and long, with a lot of characters and archs. Only the prologue in the webtoon is 100 plus chapters. I wil wait for it eagerly since I love the source material but I hope they will make it into a drama in the future

Of course that explains why she is heartbroken and it can add a reason to strain even more the relationship, but she can just ask for some time to think, express to him how she feels or break up. Cheating is never justified.

The moment she hides her new relationship and it's even hiding the messages/calls implies that she herself knows she is cheating. Ofc the decision to break up can be one-sided. But in her case, she is cheating because she knew her boyfriend thought it was just a "big fight" and instead of clarifying the truth and telling him "no, this is a serious break-up, I have already a new boyfriend" she acts like an anxious thief hiding to both of them the existence of the other. And one thing I can't agree at all with you it's trying to justify a possible cheating with "they were barely together in such a long time". So what? they were in a relationship. You are right it's sad and not reasonable at all for a couple to barely spend time together when one of them was so eager and yearn to spend time with the other, but she should have talk with him and try to reach a consensus, or even break up. The time apart can explain why she did it, but never never justify it, There is not a single excuse to cheat on someone: break up, as easy at that.

I think what surprisingly makes me hate him so much it's not even that he is a dirty gold digger fooling girls, it's what he made to that poor cleaner lady. He knows better than anyone that poor people have it hard, he knew the woman and that she was a kind hard-working person, and still made her lose her job and he dared to approach her after getting her fired to act like a good nice guy that is trying to help her. Acting all nice so people are grateful but stabbing people in the back, hiding his trashy hateful real-self: the worst type of villain.

While I understand what you mean, I would like to point that at least in my case my problem with FL is not about falling in love with the jerk ML and breaking up with her boyfriend of 7 years (who imo is a good guy but the relationship was a disaster, a lot of problems of communication of both, and he is very immature). After all, FL was fooled by the douchebag gold digger.
The big problem is that she cheated on Gao Peng. Sure, it's understandable that she wasn't happy with Gao Peng and yearned for that intense love she felt in the beginning of her relationship. But she wanted to have the cake and eat it too. She wanted the romance with new beau and the gifts and stability from her boyfriend. Not hating on her since she is a kind girl. but she has made a big mistake, if she wanted to start a new romance, she should have broken up first. Though I'm sure she will learn from this.
100% agree with you on Han Su.

Thank you so much for the reply. I am happy the gold digger jerk has ditched her, but I hope she knows the reason, or at least he doesn't come back later with a fake pitiful excuse to fool her and FL forgives him. I like Gao Peng but after seeing the trailer it seems he is gonna get very interested in SFL.

well, if FL is happy at the end i would be satisfied

Nooo I thought SML would end up with FL since the chart relationship said official pairing ;( how sad. I can't stand ML and I want him to be rejected by both FL and SFL. Thanks for the answer though

I have a question if someone can clarify it for me I would be grateful
I saw the chart relationship and FL (HZN) official love interest seems to be Wang Zi Lu and not YiPeng (which I am very grateful for, what piece of shit). Is it true? I have seen until ep 6, the last one I see available but there are 13 eps in certain platforms. Has he already appeared on screen in last eps??

Normally I would ignore a comment of someone that doesn't have enough brain to understand why it's immoral to have a teen in sexual scenes with an adult because of money, but I had to answer because of how pathetic and lowly of you it is to use the racism accusation with 0 basis. Racism is a very serious matter that shouldn't ever be tolerated, but it's seriously disgusting how some people like you dare to use it when you have 0 arguments and it has nothing to do with the situation. Please, I've said the truth about Thai government. I've mentioned how sad it is that Thailand is a sex tourism country (which makes a lot of Thai women and men sexual victims, not that it seems to matter to you) So if I am against using a teenager for money I am racist? Following your line of thinking, if for example I am against slavery and in a country where it were legal, you would also accuse me of racism? Pathetic
I really hope you are an immature teen and not an adult because trying to justify bad behaviour with "it's legal in the country"... in some countries killing gay people is legal, or beating an unfaithful woman, so you must also be in favour of not condemning that, following your logic

Wth is happening nowadays in dramas? There's a new thai adaptation of a bl story I love (Addicted Heroine) where MC is played by a 16 year old teen and ML by a 28 yr... and worse it's that the original source is a very sex theme story...

Hubbie is my fav character. I didn't think I could love a cheating husband character ever, but oh boy, he proves me wrong.
His smug face when they were reading his dad's will LOL. Take that evil lawyer and co

CX imo is what chinese would call a "white-eyed wolf", aka super ungrateful, one that turns against the ones that have been kind to him. Xiaoyao, Jing, King of Haoling (yes with King of Haoling he had "reasons" but he protected CX at his lowest)...he is the type of person who can destroy you in a moment for his selfish wishes and desires, no matter how much you helped him
Like, the NERVE of doing that to XY after how much she has done and sacrificed over and over again, through the years for him; making him an Emperor when he was nothing but a defenseless weak boy. If XY forgives him (and I'm pretty sure she will at some moment in the drama) I will be pissed. This is the type of unforgivable thing that cross a line

I will try to explain the main issue. It's not that a good part of the people against casting a 16 years old for ML in a 18 + drama don't know this is legal in Thailand. That's obvious, if not, the producers and director of the drama wouldn't have dared to make such a choice.
We have a problem with how inmoral this is. And yes, it's immoral to cast a 16 years old kid for a heavily sexual story, and with an adult of 27 years old makes it so much worse. Trying to defend that "it's okay because Thai law allows it" is such a weak excuse. Thailand (with my respect to Thai people) is not exactly an example to look upon in laws and there's a reason why it's known as a sexual tourism country...it's sad really.
I have read in one of your comments below you're yourself 16 years old. That explains why you don't see the problem in here. When I was your age (lol I sound like a grandma but I am in my twenties) I also didn't see the problem with this type of things because I was not a kid and if we are consenting, what's the matter? The thing is there is a big power imbalance in such relationships, and it's not right to cast an underage teen with an adult when they know what type of story this is.
It's not that we see teens of 16/17 years old as babies. It's natural for teens to have romantic relationships, between people their age. But not to make them engage in sexual behaviours on screen, and least of all with an adult co-star.
You said this is 2024 and not Jesus Christ era so people are not forced to do things...that is very naive. In 2024 people are forced to do things all around the world, but in this case nobody is saying they are forcing the actor to take the role. But do you really think there is no pressure or influence at all in his decision making? This is a super successful story, and he is a very young actor. It's not like he was gonna reject such a tempting offer to make a name as an actor, so forced? No, but they took advantage of him? yes
Ofc it's understandable that you don't see the point and are gonna enjoy the drama, but they have destroyed the story for a lot of the public, that aren't gonna watch a story where a teen is making out with an adult. It's gross for adults. And it's so upsetting when we have been waiting soooo long for an uncensored version of it since chinese prohibited gay stories...

With all due respect, but although I agree is not actor/actress fault, I disagree that the age gap is a lack of ethic of morals from producers and directors?? Why? They are both of age, and this is a drama so they are just acting. It's a chinese drama at that, so I doubt there are even kisses and if there are, they will be very "pure". Irl there are a lot of couples with age gaps, I personally think we shouldn't be judgemental if people are adults and consenting. Now, if we are talking about lack of ethics and morals, we have the new Thai version of chinese novel and drama Addicted/Heroine...they have chosen 15/16 years old kids for a very adult theme story...Yikes. And it's a story I love, so now they have destroyed my illusion of watching an uncensored version of it (I will not see this thai version). That's the type of dramas whose producers and directors deserve all the criticism imo.

In fact she was quite ruthless and I personally felt quite satisfied. She clarified to SYR that she didn't kill him because it was not worth it, that it would dirt her hands (showing how devoid of emotion for him she is, complete indifference) to the point she doesn't even bother to look back when she hears SRY falling to the floor.
And for SYR the humilliation was incredible when he, a man with a deep victim complex and inferiority complex, sees his beloved willing to die with Xiao Heng, even when he finally had "power" and had mighty duke Su "defenseless", he was still unable to get what he wanted
Would have I loved SYR elixed in poverty, having to live with his also exiled mother and sister?? Of course, I would think that would be quite the punishment for a man like him, but after such an active part in Rebellion, I don't know if they could pull another fate for him that execution.

Agree, amazing actor for an amazingly complex villain. Incredibly well played,

There are a lot of studies that show how in special circumstances, people can change a lot for the worse if they are given the power/put under pressure (the famous experiment of the prisoners in college that had to be suspended since the students who acted as jailers mistreated a lot the students playing prisoners )
So basically, imo SYR was initially a normal guy under "normal circumstances", who loved his wife because she was perfect and his biggest pillar and support, but when said love was an obstacle, his life and ambitions mattered more than his wife. So what I am trying to say is that I don't think SYR is inherently an evil and cruel person like Wanning, but a person who even though doesn't desire to do evil, is willing to make the worst deeds if he feels it's "necessary".
For example, killing FangFei.
He decided to brutally murder his own dear wife precisely after his mother's scheme of making her seem an adulterer. Why? Because he realised that he couldn't any longer ignore the fact that "Wanning will make me his prince consort". His mother forced his hand to make a decision: he could kill the man who was in ber with her and silence the servants to protect FL, or he could banish/kill her. He took the convenient choice, no matter how he wants to delude himself. Because if he frustrated his mother's scheme, he would have to make a plan to save FL and the most obvious choice would be to divorce her.
But if he divorced FL and later married Wanning, everyone would know the real reason of the divorce and SYR's image as a gentle scholar who is upright, filial and loves his famously devoted wife would be destroyed, being known as "Wanning's plaything, who is powerhungry and has sacrificed the wife who sacrificed everything for him, in exchange of power and position". So he killed FL, blaming Wanning for forcing him to murder her (lie) and blaming his mother for tarnishing FL's reputation, when he could have avoided it killing the "lover of his wife" and silencing the servants. But that scheme was perfect for his interests, since nobody would dare voice out how sudden or mysterious his wife's death was, and he would be forever remember as the poor victim whose wife was a vixen.
After this super long text lol, what I try to say it's that SYR is one super scary person, since he is not inherently evil in the sense of enjoying other's suffering or dispair, but if he has to do his worst to save his own skin, he will do it, and blame it on the world or others. I really believe that deep down the adultery scheme was a "relief" for him because he finally had a pretext in his deluded mind to solve his problem but playing victim.