I would totally recommend some day or one day and reset . They are amazing time travel +time loops dramas , but…
may I recommend one more Taiwanese show which is also amazing and truly heart touching (also completely heartbreaking)...it's called More Than Blue ( the series not the movie)
strengthened their relationship? - Did we watch the same show? Kang Seo Joon have an abandonment issue but his…
u nailed it " He's lived a year without Seo Joon, and he justified it by thinking SJ would move on quickly, because he's insecure enough to believe that was possible."....not a lot of people noticed this one dialogue where JW says this ,,,kudos my friend ..u really have watched the show very observantly
sorry for the late reply...i loved it ..easily one of the best shows (not just BL)...a 9/10 for me for sure ..though I feel that I liked the frst 3/4th of the show much more especially the first 10 episodes were excellent ...the last part could have been done a little better but I still liked how it ended and TinTol just make up for any inconsistencies/issues in the show ...I will definitely rewatch it!!
Ji Woo's character is so beautifully written! I can draw so many parallels from his behavior my own life story…
Hi Akhilesh...a fellow indian here ..welcome to our group of JW supporters ...ur description proves what I have been saying here all along ..that JW's character is so realistic and people who have been somewhat like him in their own life will relate to him so much ...
strengthened their relationship? - Did we watch the same show? Kang Seo Joon have an abandonment issue but his…
my below comment is the answer to this as well so I will quote it again "JW knew that SJ can't quit his work and has an erratic schedule and he saw what waiting at home doing nothing did to him and his insecurities..so now he has work too and his own identity...and JW told he would take 2 days off and come to Seoul not the other way round ( which is apparent by SJ asking JW that u don't like to close shop so how come ) ..so it's JW who would be making sacrifices here by closing his restaurant for 2 days and driving to Seoul every week ..how is that not putting an effort ..but then SJ tells he will come visit him anyway whenever he becomes free from his schedule ...which is what we see in the cheek kissing scene that it was a surprise visit by SJ ...thats his decison.....also as seen at the end SJ is helping JW become more expressive of his feelings which was also one of their biggest issues in the relationship and JW is trying by saying I love u numerous times even when he is not someone who finds it comfortable ...so it's not just SJ doing all the work "
strengthened their relationship? - Did we watch the same show? Kang Seo Joon have an abandonment issue but his…
same question did we watch the same show ????? "JW will not change because he is content with his current situation and as we saw in 10 episodes never thought how his action impacted SJ" - girl did u even focus while watching the show ...this is what the whole problem was ..that his insecurities made him such a coward that he thought that he rather leave first before SJ leaves him..."he is content in his current situation ?" ..from which angle did he look content to u..he looked like a fuckin broken man ...but he's not someone who would show that ...there are so many instances to show how JW felt but i'm sorry that the director thought that her audience is intelligent enuf to understand nuances so she did not make everything obvious by having the character say everything .. coming to the point of SJ not being happy in the current form of relationship..so u want JW should quit his job and be there at home waiting for SJ so that SJ can meet him whenever he wants so as to not feel abandoned?? this was such a mature solution to their issue...JW knew that SJ can't quit his work and has an erratic schedule and he saw what waiting at home doing nothing did to him and his insecurities..so now he has work too and his own identity...and JW told he would take 2 days off and come to Seoul not the other way round ( which is apparent by SJ asking JW that u don't like to close shop so how come ) ..so it's JW who would be making sacrifices here by closing his restaurant for 2 days and driving to Seoul every week ..how is that not putting an effort ..but then SJ tells he will come visit him anyway whenever he becomes free from his schedule ...(which is what we see in the cheek kissing scene that it was a surprise visit by SJ ).thats his decison.....also as seen at the end SJ is helping JW become more expressive of his feelings which was also one of their biggest issues in the relationship and JW is trying by saying I love u numerous times even when he is not someone who finds it comfortable ...so it's not just SJ doing all the work so how did this not strengthen the relationship ?
When your emotional baggage and insecurities make you act in ways that hurt your loved ones it's called emotional…
u r a god sent ...ur points are what I have been trying to put forward since so many days ..not every bad action or ill behaviour is toxic..and being an introvert and not telling ur issues to ur closed ones is damn realistic, not toxic ...people have issues with how SJ was treated at the hands of JW ...as i have mentioned in the comment below..imagine u break up with someone ( ok so u r a coward u didn't do it properly u just left blah blah blah) but ultimately u did break up and now this ex of urs comes back in ur life and reminds u of all the reasons u found urself unworthy, brings back all ur insecurities that have been haunting u and then refuses to leave even when u insist that u do not want anything to do with them...how are u going to treat dem? will u still be ur good natured courteous self ? thats how JW behaved ..he did not go out of his way to cause pain to SJ when he broke up or treat him badly when they were in relationship..if he would have done those things I would have atleast listened to the point of calling him toxic ...his only fault was he did not end the relationship like a mature person should do ..i can fault him der but for nothing else ..
When your emotional baggage and insecurities make you act in ways that hurt your loved ones it's called emotional…
ok where in this drama did JW behave in any way that u described in the example above or anything similar ..ur comparing apples and cauliflower (not even oranges) ..as I have mentioned a lot before too...leaving someone and going away is not the same as what all u told above ..when did JW treat SJ badly except when SJ himself went out of the way and implanted himself back in JW's life when he clearly did not want that ...ok so not blaming SJ at all but think about it ...u break up with someone ( ok so u r a coward u didn't do it properly u just left blah blah blah) but ultimately u did break up and now this ex of urs comes back in ur life and reminds u of all the reasons u found urself unworthy, brings back all ur insecurities that have been haunting u and then refuses to leave even when u insist that u do not want anything to do with them...how are u going to treat dem? will u still be ur good natured courteous self ? I would have agreed to everything ur telling if JW would have done all this while still being in a relationship with SJ and then behaving this way ..he broke up ..it was SJ who was not willing to take it ..so SJ put himself up for any emotional abuse that he would suffer from then on ( again not blaming SJ becoz I would have done the same ) but how can u fault JW after putting urself in his shoes and seeing from his perspective ?? when did protecting urself and ur mental state become toxic??
So many people keep commenting on how LGBTQ+ people suffer from these issues ... so, my commentary is mostly on…
thisssss comment !!! thank you so much !!! this is what I have been trying to say since beginning that just becoz a relationship is not going through the honeymoon phase it does not mean it has turned toxic ...people have real life issues that they have to deal with ..and its not always possible to keep ur partners needs before urs all the time ..that does not make us selfish and definitely does not make us toxic !!!
yes I agree with one thing ...this show is not for practical viewers who consider pride more important than love…
Thank you for deep insight into my psyche!! ur the one being sexist right now by dividing it into homo n hetero relations...so u think women do not suffer emotional abuse in relationships ??? wow!!which world do u live in coz I would love to live der.....plus ur comment shows how much u understood the drama ...coming to shows "A FL would never have such emotional abuse depicted in a hetero drama without leaving her partner" >>>, there are so many shows where women suffer emotional abuse at the hands of their male partners and these dramas are highly popular ! what are you talking about? maybe ur unaware? do u want me to name the lists of such dramas so that you are enlightened?
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"JW will not change because he is content with his current situation and as we saw in 10 episodes never thought how his action impacted SJ" - girl did u even focus while watching the show ...this is what the whole problem was ..that his insecurities made him such a coward that he thought that he rather leave first before SJ leaves him..."he is content in his current situation ?" ..from which angle did he look content to u..he looked like a fuckin broken man ...but he's not someone who would show that ...there are so many instances to show how JW felt but i'm sorry that the director thought that her audience is intelligent enuf to understand nuances so she did not make everything obvious by having the character say everything ..
coming to the point of SJ not being happy in the current form of relationship..so u want JW should quit his job and be there at home waiting for SJ so that SJ can meet him whenever he wants so as to not feel abandoned?? this was such a mature solution to their issue...JW knew that SJ can't quit his work and has an erratic schedule and he saw what waiting at home doing nothing did to him and his insecurities..so now he has work too and his own identity...and JW told he would take 2 days off and come to Seoul not the other way round ( which is apparent by SJ asking JW that u don't like to close shop so how come ) ..so it's JW who would be making sacrifices here by closing his restaurant for 2 days and driving to Seoul every week ..how is that not putting an effort ..but then SJ tells he will come visit him anyway whenever he becomes free from his schedule ...(which is what we see in the cheek kissing scene that it was a surprise visit by SJ ).thats his decison.....also as seen at the end SJ is helping JW become more expressive of his feelings which was also one of their biggest issues in the relationship and JW is trying by saying I love u numerous times even when he is not someone who finds it comfortable ...so it's not just SJ doing all the work
so how did this not strengthen the relationship ?
I would have agreed to everything ur telling if JW would have done all this while still being in a relationship with SJ and then behaving this way ..he broke up ..it was SJ who was not willing to take it ..so SJ put himself up for any emotional abuse that he would suffer from then on ( again not blaming SJ becoz I would have done the same ) but how can u fault JW after putting urself in his shoes and seeing from his perspective ?? when did protecting urself and ur mental state become toxic??