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Oh yeah Overdo and PR are sooo one sided it's crazy, but honestly it's like 90% of cdramas and kdramas right now, every ml is a loser in love down bad from ep 2 and every fl treats him no better than her puppy. No I just watched that scene and a few others, but all the talk I see on twitter is about how down bad the long haired ml is and how he's doing this or that hence my apprehension.

How different are these ways bc all I see is the ml who said he follows him like a dog (per his words) taking constant initiative and being obsessed with the other, what's the way the different way the other ml shows his love? I know people love this drama but this is a matter of preference, in heterosexual romances lately the ml is always portrayed as so much more in love than the fl and people LOVE that but it's not my thing in that case either.

Thanks for the answer, I don't think it's gonna be for me, despite the fact that he might be firmer that most other leads, you said he doesn't show his love as much which to me means he's not as in love since this is a story and if he's not showing it then it's not there and I don't like that in my romances.

Would you guys recommend this for someone who likes their couples to be as in love and as obsessed with each other (as in they put as much effort and care into the rlsp)? Because everything I see about this drama makes it seem like one of the mls is way more into the other.

I know some of the background of their traumas and I know they're both devoted, my question is, is she as devoted to him as he is to her? As in equally and 100% loving and protective etc towards him as he is towards her?

Yeah I don't love that, he never tried to move on but she did but aside from that my question is does she love him as much as he loves her? Is she as protective, as devoted, as caring etc towards him as he is towards her.

How balanced and mutual is the leads love for each other? Because I was under the impression this was one of the rare cdramas where the fl is as devoted as the ml but reading the reviews and comments now there's a lot of emphasis on the ml's love and devotion just like every other cdrama...

LFY was the one I had the most hope for, it looked like it could be really equal, it sucks that the best we can hope for in terms of romance dynamics is a ML that spends 20 episodes deeply devoted to the FL and a FL that gives him a small percentage of that affection in the last few episodes.

I miss real romance, true mutual devotion where you couldn't tell who was more in love, epic love stories where it wasn't just he's a hot loser in love you can pretend is in love with you through the screen but a story that stands on its own and makes you believe in love. BOP sounds like my actual nightmare, testing my patience doesn't seem like description enough for what watching a ML be insanely devoted to a FL who gives him nothing in what is supposedly a love story...

P.S enjoy the scenery in BOP 😂 and thank you again for such a detailed answer.

She's been through stuff with her ex but ML has through soooo much worse in such a short span and yet.... the FL gets to be hesitant and treat him like sh*t and he needs to be the greenflag that will do everything and take any kind of treatment, make it make sense.

Thank you, I might check it out then. This is unrelated to this drama but would you rec any of the currently airing dramas as having equal and balanced otps? Love for you, Key to the phoenix heart, Blossoms of power (I'm just checking but this one seems crazy one sided from what I saw on twitter)?

I know you said it's not a romance and that's totally okay but how balanced is the little romance that's actually there?

It sounds really interesting, I was wondering is the fl also as much wife material as the ml is husband material? Does she care about him and support him as much as he does through her actions or words (I mean actually in canon not just what we want to believe) because all I see is people saying they're healthy but then only talking about the ML's love for the FL .

I'm curious about this drama but is she as much of a greenflag towards him as he is with her? Because a greenflag ml is every drama but a greenflag fl who loves him as much as he loves her is extremely rare.

Thanks for the answer, it's not my thing then. I need true mutual love and devotion, my idea of an equal otp is Love between fairy and devil, anything less than that is not for me.

Oh? Some of the comments made it seem like she does as much for him as he does for her lol so that's not the case?

I'm a woman and I would love to see most otps be both characters falling just as hard instead of the ml always being obsessed and fl having him as number 9274 on her priority list but as you said most people want this kind of very unequal dynamic.

Lol I'm laughing because those are the only options, a FL falling harder or even just as hard is basically unheard of.

Oh we're getting the express? I haven't caught up on the last episodes (from 22), The thing I loved about this drama is it seemed MJ really loved CY as much as he loves her and is willing to be as devoted towards him as he is her which is sooo rare in cdramas where MLs almost always do all the work and are much more devoted but some of the spoilers I saw re the latest episodes and some comments saying she doesn't treat him well and he's a doormat etc makes me think they're back to the usual cdrama dynamics, can I ask is that the case?

Is it a good love story? I don't need kisses but I need actual equality and balance i.e both characters putting in as much effort and as devoted towards eo like Love between fairy and devil or veil of shadows where fl is as in love and puts in as much effort unlike most cdramas where the ml is giving 110% and getting 5% in return.

Is it a good love story? I don't need kisses or hugs but I need actual equality and balance i.e both characters putting in as much effort and as devoted towards eo like Love between fairy and devil or Lighter and princess unlike most cdramas where the ml is giving 110% and getting 5% in return.