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Replying to HenryRenn Nov 15, 2024
It is about time. So many people have been bullied & persecuted by those hiding behind computers & keyboards.…
For me, it reminded me of Tablo's story. How people are just out to get others who finally succeed just because they couldn't themselves. You know what they say: Haters gonna hate.....

Unfortunately, this is not uncommon. I don't know how many deaths it will take for change to happen. A few days ago SJR died because of malicious comments targeting him for months, maybe that woke up BWS's agency. But it's not the first time this has ever happened.

This article was written back in 2020, and this guy already recorded 30 celebrity deaths via suicide due to excessive cyberbullying:
https://www.theguardian.com/music/2020/jan/04/i-have-reported-on-30-korean-celebrity-suicides-the-blame-game-never-changes

There needs to be accountability for one's actions and these people be caught and prosecuted, or maybe laws have to be more stringent. Whatever it takes, or perhaps even talking about mental health more publicly, make it less taboo. So it also applies not just to celebrities, but the Korean population in general, so that people who are struggling to deal with online haters, would open up and talk about their issues without an attached stigma.
Replying to etoks21 Nov 15, 2024
Because they're assholes. Your asking that question and wanting to hear some rumors, guesses, unfounded speculation,…
i think it may have something to do about SJR's death too, but he's not the first person to have died because of malicious rumors, so I am not sure why these agencies have not stepped up before? How many more need to suffer or die because of toxic mentality from so-called fans and anti-fans before something needs to be done? it's long overdue.
Replying to Maya Nov 15, 2024
N this is the reasons why so many celebrities/ artists die. Korean netizens as always…just like to see these…
yes, they just don't want to see other people succeed. so instead of being happy for others, they'd rather take them down, than make themselves improve and rise up.
Replying to BL worshipper Nov 12, 2024
Apart from the ending, is the rest of the series worth it? Cuz I also hate a terrible ending
please put spoiler tags for endings. greatly appreciate it.
Unpopularopinionbydemand Nov 9, 2024
Review Only Boo!
OMG! I thought I was the only one. I'm about to drop this because of the cringe and was wondering why they casted actors who can't dance to act in a show that requires dancing.
I've seen random people who can dance better without being dancers.
Replying to Tanky Toon Nov 7, 2024
If you don't know already, Netflix on Nov 9th.
I'm not sure about other regions but I think North America and Europe at least. Best way is to check your Netflix.
On A Dream of Splendor Nov 7, 2024
I am not a feminist by any means but I do like dramas with strong female leads, and I usually stay away from ones where the FL’s sole purpose in life is to chase a guy around, which, thank God, this isn’t the case here. The premise where three down-on-their-luck women, who strive to succeed in a traditional, mostly patriarchal society, appealed to me, and this didn’t disappoint.

Only recalling her as “Mulan,” I was not exactly surprised by Liu Yi Fe’s acting skills. Crystal balances both elegance and determination as Zhao Pan Er, a business-savvy teahouse owner who has been jilted by her ex-fiance who ditched her for a more favorable marriage. Throughout the drama, Pan Er devices ways to bring this person to “justice,” although I wasn’t quite sure what the intention was behind this aside from getting her hands back on a highly sought-after painting that seemed to be left in his possession. Unless there was a legal contract binding Pan Er and Ouyang Xu together, I don’t see why he owed her anything else, except perhaps an explanation. Though he’s no saint in the beginning, I feel others didn’t need to show much malice towards him until later, perhaps when his true colors were revealed. (More on this later).

 

But no, she has to go to another city, dragging along with her three friends and hunt this guy down and demand some sort of reparation. Granted, the other two ended up in the same place may be coincidence: San Niang, floating in the water, after realizing she married a jerk, and Yin Zhang, shackled in her own house, because she married an even bigger a$$hole. So Pan Er’s duty, as the loyal and dedicated friend she is, to save both of them from their disastrous circumstances wearing a flowy cape.

She does all this while carrying on a mild flirtation with some guy named Gu Qian Fan, because you never know, she may need him in the future, even though she absolutely abhorred where he works/where he came from because of past events, that he had no knowledge of. Well, this worked in Pan Er’s favor because Qian Fan saved her ass countless of times. But she insists on repaying his kindness by rubbing her ex’s name in his face. Yes, yes, Qian Fan gets it: “We are just friends, and you’re just bitter, but I’m so okay with this because I’ve never seen another woman in my life who I don’t consider my mother or sister or the kitchen help. I just like coming here for the tea you brew.”

Now, speaking of brewing, this woman can sure brew. Pan Er can brew up several storms at the same time and still keep her skirt tidy. Competitors try to outwit, outsmart, outbid, outflank her, but Pan Er sticks to her guns, the ones that she keeps close to her breasts, I mean, chest. But she eventually loosens up around Qian Fan, because of course, he might prove useful on another occasion.

In the meantime, shady dealings are going everywhere else. It seems that somebody is out to get somebody by using somebody else who is, in turn, using someone else to their nefarious deeds. So everyone’s looking over their shoulder, especially Gu Qian Fan, who has to keep deflecting daggers out of his back. Meanwhile, Pan Er is also busy swatting flies, but does so with a curved pinky, so it’s not surprising that one vermin or two invades her life.

Qian Fan magically disappears from a few episodes, and Pan Er has a second string waiting in the wings. Her falling out with Yin Zhang also stressed her out, because she realizes her friend could do other things aside from playing the Pipa. It’s not entirely for show. (Although it looked liked, it really is). Pan Er realizes that she’s not the only one that Yin Zhang can rely on. She also has her scripted partner, because God damn it, everyone needs to be coupled up, whether or not they like it. It’s part of the story.

The only miserable people really are those who ended up single, like Ouyang Xu, who I still think was driven to madness by his own ambition, with a generous prodding from Pan ER. In the end, it was his desperation to survive in a world that heavily favors people who have a good social standing, that failed him. Ouyang Xu lost sight of his initial dream, which is to pass the imperial exam, so he can marry well. Perhaps, we would see a different story if Pan ER let him be. He could have probably led a decent family life with Gao Hui who genuinely liked him. His moral compass was broken anyway when he started doing questionable things. Like a cornered mouse, he didn’t see a way out except to resort to violence.

As the drama goes, this was way more interesting than I expected. The characters are not perfect but are multidimensional. The three women, in particular, have a natural character development that wasn’t contrived. There was an engaging plot and side arcs that didn’t feel too out of place, except perhaps for the gaping hole that Gu Qian Fan left with his absence towards the end. Acting from both leads were A+, and the rest of the cast were very good in their own right. The few times where I felt frustrated are when Pan Er displays some sort of self-righteousness. I’m not saying that women SHOULDN’T rely on men to be independent. Anyone could use some help, and still be successful in their own right, but just don’t dismiss it as if it’s ALL your effort. Give credit where credit is due. And it’s true what Qian Fan said or implied at one point, that being in a relationship means that you CAN depend on each other, that one didn’t need to take all the problems upon oneself. This does not make you weak. But other than that, this is a decent drama about female empowerment in a Class-based society, and can teach a thing or two on how NOT to be hoodwinked into a disastrous marriage.
Replying to etoks21 Nov 6, 2024
MDL psycho fans claim this was marketed as a BL, so down-rating is their immature way of lashing out. lol
I will watch it regardless and form my own judgement. Our rating of a show or movie should not really include how it's being marketed. It can encompass things such as plot, story, acting, music, enjoyment etc etc but I can't rate something that I haven't even watched. But apparently some people do this for other reasons. SMH
Replying to Indiegoes Nov 6, 2024
Hi, did you already watch the film? Where can we find the link? huhu
If you don't know already, Netflix on Nov 9th.
Replying to KINN Nov 6, 2024
Where I can watch it plz, tnx 🤍
If you don't know already, Netflix on Nov 9th.
Replying to Jadah Nov 6, 2024
My chest hurts just from watching the MV, patiently waiting for it. 💗
If you don't know already, Netflix on Nov 9th.
Replying to Burcu Nov 6, 2024
When it will be available online?
If you don't know already, Netflix on Nov 9th.
Replying to MiAmu1266 Nov 6, 2024
Does anyone know if it will be releasing internationally? On May 10th?
If you don't know already, Netflix on Nov 9th.