Okay, if this is a body switching drama, how are STY and GU supposed to get together in the end? STY does not like SR. Also, if SR and JYJ are supposed to get together, how will that work out since GU is supposed to be a sibling? But we do have 100 episodes for this to become so confusing that we have no idea whose who.
This was complete BS!!!! The ending was complete BS!!! BD forgiving EK is BS!! EK ending up with CW, WTF!!!!!
I can appreciate NC's ending! Although, I'm not such a forgiving person. I would have still stayed away from the wife and family and just saw my kids on my visitation days!!!
EK & ES parents are trash! The whole arc of forgiving EK, TRASH!!!!
I might be the minority here, but I want BD and CW to get back together for Mi Poong's sake.
That's true. Not for the sake of the kid. However, some couples do find their way back to each other. I didn't see the love CW may have had for EK, only someone coming in filling a void.
I, of course, prefer the ending where BD is doing better than all of them!!!! She may have not been a good parent but doggonit she didn't deserve her best friend sleeping with her man. Some people think that the treatment of EK is justification but NOPE!!
I apparently have too much time on my hands because I have been writing posts! LOL!!!
It's certainly not justification but it's good enough as explanation. I mean their childhood is obviously a pity…
Nope!!! Lots of people have their adult children live with them. Lots of adult children don't really grow up. But they do have their own identities outside of their families. Teenagers know their own mind, even immature ones. ES may have been "traumatized" as a kid which may have framed her opinion about marriage, but she knew right from wrong. She made a conscious decision. She knew he was married, she knew he had kids, she knew. If she didn't like what her parents did to her, why would she want to do it to someone else kid(s)?
It is amazing to me that grown a.. people blame their parents for every one of their actions as adults when they know right from wrong. Parents are not perfect but to blame your parents for your GROWN behind actions is WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!!
ES and EK telling the mom about her actions when they were kids is not a justifiable reason to have an affair with a married man. Get some fu..ing therapy! Red Balloon is showing just how selfish young people really are... "oh my parents didn't do this, oh, my parents didn't do that"... Come on!
Parents do their best... you as an adult makes the decisions that you do... not your parents. ES and EK made the decisions to go after married men, it was their decisions. Not their MOM!!!!!
It is amazing to me that grown a.. people blame their parents for every one of their actions as adults when they know right from wrong. Parents are not perfect but to blame your parents for your GROWN behind actions is WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!!
ES and EK telling the mom about her actions when they were kids is not a justifiable reason to have an affair with a married man. Get some fu..ing therapy! Red Balloon is showing just how selfish young people really are... "oh my parents didn't do this, oh, my parents didn't do that"... Come on!
Parents do their best... you as an adult makes the decisions that you do... not your parents. ES and EK made the decisions to go after married men, it was their decisions. Not their MOM!!!!!
BD is a bad B! I loved it!!! Episode 15 was great! I loved the public humiliation and to bring the parents into it... EPIC!!! I can care less about EK and CW. I hope they are miserable at the end with each other. I hope BD gets everything she has worked for and more.
With that said, I didn't like the fact that she left her child but I understand. She doesn't have a decent place to live and until that time, I understand leaving the kid with the father.
As for NC, I hope he gets a happy ending. I no longer want him with ES but a happy ending nonetheless.
At the beginning of this drama I felt bad for NC and CW. But I am not so sure anymore about feeling bad for CW. I still feel bad for NC because he was truly mistreated by the family including the brat of a daughter. His relationship was born out of mistreatment and lack of trust so I rooted for him to have a good relationship with someone (not necessarily with ES). NC was not in love with his wife but he respected the fact that he was married until he didn't. But just like any dog, once it gets a little attention, it rolls over and shows its belly. ES showed him attention and he fell in love. But once caught, he decided to give his marriage a second chance and leave ES.
I see how the drama made ES so in love with NC. Most Asian dramas make it seem like women are so virginal and innocent until they meet the one. So ES is in love for the first time. I don't like that she went for a married man but she saw stars and pursued the object of her affection. However, once NC wanted to end the relationship she should let it be like her uncle said. By the way, very mature of him right now. ES telling the wife to leave her husband is crazy (even if they don't love each other, it is for them to figure out). ES statements to the wife and the kids made me turn against her relationship with NC. There is no excuse for her to say anything to the kids even if it was them who initiated the contact. It made her look bad in my eyes and I no longer have sympathy for the NC/ES relationship.
As for CW, he does not love EK, lust, yes, but not love. BD and CW relationship is drowned out by lack of patience and attention. CW is also like a dog ... seek attention, get it, roll over, show belly, and stretch for the touch. Yes, he cooked and cleaned for his wife, and yes he wants his wife's attention but did it not occur to him to sit down and talk to her? CW is unhappy with his career and so he does things at home. Even if BD said she was busy, he still should have forced her to listen. I cannot say the drama shows a lot of love between the two. BD, however, is not perfect and she is also at fault for the destruction of their relationship. But CW and EK are the worst because EK is his wife's best friend. I probably would have rooted for them if EK was not BD's best friend. Put yourself in BD's shoes, that type of betrayal would pull the devil out of anyone which we may see in BD.
I felt bad for EK at the beginning because of her crap ex-boyfriend. I do not, however, feel bad now. She lied and manipulated and destroyed her supposed best friend. With a friend like that who needs enemies.
Sorry for the long post. It's probably not well thought out but my thoughts.
I can appreciate NC's ending! Although, I'm not such a forgiving person. I would have still stayed away from the wife and family and just saw my kids on my visitation days!!!
EK & ES parents are trash! The whole arc of forgiving EK, TRASH!!!!
I should not have watched this drama!!!
I, of course, prefer the ending where BD is doing better than all of them!!!! She may have not been a good parent but doggonit she didn't deserve her best friend sleeping with her man. Some people think that the treatment of EK is justification but NOPE!!
I apparently have too much time on my hands because I have been writing posts! LOL!!!
ES and EK telling the mom about her actions when they were kids is not a justifiable reason to have an affair with a married man. Get some fu..ing therapy! Red Balloon is showing just how selfish young people really are... "oh my parents didn't do this, oh, my parents didn't do that"... Come on!
Parents do their best... you as an adult makes the decisions that you do... not your parents. ES and EK made the decisions to go after married men, it was their decisions. Not their MOM!!!!!
Episode 16 pissed me off!
ES and EK telling the mom about her actions when they were kids is not a justifiable reason to have an affair with a married man. Get some fu..ing therapy! Red Balloon is showing just how selfish young people really are... "oh my parents didn't do this, oh, my parents didn't do that"... Come on!
Parents do their best... you as an adult makes the decisions that you do... not your parents. ES and EK made the decisions to go after married men, it was their decisions. Not their MOM!!!!!
Episode 16 pissed me off!
With that said, I didn't like the fact that she left her child but I understand. She doesn't have a decent place to live and until that time, I understand leaving the kid with the father.
As for NC, I hope he gets a happy ending. I no longer want him with ES but a happy ending nonetheless.
The parents are a mess. LOL!
I see how the drama made ES so in love with NC. Most Asian dramas make it seem like women are so virginal and innocent until they meet the one. So ES is in love for the first time. I don't like that she went for a married man but she saw stars and pursued the object of her affection. However, once NC wanted to end the relationship she should let it be like her uncle said. By the way, very mature of him right now. ES telling the wife to leave her husband is crazy (even if they don't love each other, it is for them to figure out). ES statements to the wife and the kids made me turn against her relationship with NC. There is no excuse for her to say anything to the kids even if it was them who initiated the contact. It made her look bad in my eyes and I no longer have sympathy for the NC/ES relationship.
As for CW, he does not love EK, lust, yes, but not love. BD and CW relationship is drowned out by lack of patience and attention. CW is also like a dog ... seek attention, get it, roll over, show belly, and stretch for the touch. Yes, he cooked and cleaned for his wife, and yes he wants his wife's attention but did it not occur to him to sit down and talk to her? CW is unhappy with his career and so he does things at home. Even if BD said she was busy, he still should have forced her to listen. I cannot say the drama shows a lot of love between the two. BD, however, is not perfect and she is also at fault for the destruction of their relationship. But CW and EK are the worst because EK is his wife's best friend. I probably would have rooted for them if EK was not BD's best friend. Put yourself in BD's shoes, that type of betrayal would pull the devil out of anyone which we may see in BD.
I felt bad for EK at the beginning because of her crap ex-boyfriend.
I do not, however, feel bad now. She lied and manipulated and destroyed her supposed best friend. With a friend like that who needs enemies.
Sorry for the long post. It's probably not well thought out but my thoughts.
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