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How to be a bad parent - simple guide.
The way all the adults in this movie were truly awful and selfish - I failed to feel touched by any scenes, I was just fueled with frustration. No, I did not get out of this movie with a thought how vulnerable deaf people are in society and how they need assistance (which alone is honestly borderline offensive), but rather - deaf people can be selfish and dumb too.
By all means Xiao Ma was a victim of his own demise. How many times can a person make the same extremely bad choice before we can stop feeling bad for them and accept they failed themselves? It's one thing when you once get scammed after trusting wrong people. But to willingly do it over and over again, put yourself and your child in dangers? Wild. He was just a bad parent. Not one choice he made was done for his daughter, but for his own selfish need to keep her next to him, not caring if it's beneficial for her or not.
The mother is not better. I do not care what was decided when the child was born - yeeting yourself out of their existence to randomly come back is never right. The way she did not try to slowly build a relationship with her daughter, gain her trust. Poor Mu Mu was forced into extremely bad situation by both of her parents.
This movie left me with exactly zero positive emotions and thoughts. Every new development made me more angry.
That said, one thing Mumu delivers is the acting. What a performance from both Lay and Li Luo An. I am not going to pretend like I know sign language, but just from a visual standpoint, they characters did feel natural and fluent while using it - it never felt awkward. the emotions felt real and raw. If only the plot was better and the characters sucked less, I would probably cry alone just because of the emotional performances.
Visually speaking also no complains. It's not outstanding, I cannot think of any memorable scene in terms of shots and aesthetics, but I also cannot think of any bad aspect in that area of production. Directing and editing wise, I truly loved the "fighting, but pretending to party" scene in the beginning of the movie. It was adorable and it made me smile a little bit.
Overall, I'm just disappointed. The whole movie gives you the idea that deaf people are inherently a victims to be made, naive and vulnerable and they need protection and support. when the true fact is majority of the issues male lead faced had nothing to do with him being deaf, but with him being dumb and selfish.
By all means Xiao Ma was a victim of his own demise. How many times can a person make the same extremely bad choice before we can stop feeling bad for them and accept they failed themselves? It's one thing when you once get scammed after trusting wrong people. But to willingly do it over and over again, put yourself and your child in dangers? Wild. He was just a bad parent. Not one choice he made was done for his daughter, but for his own selfish need to keep her next to him, not caring if it's beneficial for her or not.
The mother is not better. I do not care what was decided when the child was born - yeeting yourself out of their existence to randomly come back is never right. The way she did not try to slowly build a relationship with her daughter, gain her trust. Poor Mu Mu was forced into extremely bad situation by both of her parents.
This movie left me with exactly zero positive emotions and thoughts. Every new development made me more angry.
That said, one thing Mumu delivers is the acting. What a performance from both Lay and Li Luo An. I am not going to pretend like I know sign language, but just from a visual standpoint, they characters did feel natural and fluent while using it - it never felt awkward. the emotions felt real and raw. If only the plot was better and the characters sucked less, I would probably cry alone just because of the emotional performances.
Visually speaking also no complains. It's not outstanding, I cannot think of any memorable scene in terms of shots and aesthetics, but I also cannot think of any bad aspect in that area of production. Directing and editing wise, I truly loved the "fighting, but pretending to party" scene in the beginning of the movie. It was adorable and it made me smile a little bit.
Overall, I'm just disappointed. The whole movie gives you the idea that deaf people are inherently a victims to be made, naive and vulnerable and they need protection and support. when the true fact is majority of the issues male lead faced had nothing to do with him being deaf, but with him being dumb and selfish.
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